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By (user no longer on site) OP   
3 weeks ago

Seems more of a chance of aliens abducting andrew tate than 99% of us guys getting meets on here. Ive been on and off since 09 and this site has got worse. Who agrees?

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
3 weeks ago

Stoke

Try clubs and use Fab as a network only to events, works for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
3 weeks ago

I dont drive or live anywhere near a club sadly. What do you think to my profile? X

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

3 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'll be honest I thought aliens had abducted Andrew Tate and replaced him with whatever the current version is as some sort of strange experiment.

The site is much the same as it ever was, only the membership changes

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

The site is what it is.

For sure there's been a big influx of single men treating it as instashag since COVID, but there was a population of those before then too. And really, if someone would interest and excite us enough for a meet back in 09, they'd still manage it now 💜

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By *orksBBW36Woman
3 weeks ago

Mansfield

Most make zero effort to understand the way a site like this works - 99% of messages are a picture of a penis without any context or some crude, misspelled invitation to sleep with them. It all goes in the bin.

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By *hoenix_1Man
3 weeks ago

richmond


"Seems more of a chance of aliens abducting andrew tate than 99% of us guys getting meets on here. Ive been on and off since 09 and this site has got worse. Who agrees?"

You have been on 2 weeks and had a verification 3 weeks ago?

For single guy that's good

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By *enelope2UWoman
3 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Define meet...

1) most with your rehetoric mean..free pros tute service

2) most with your rehetoric mean coffee and a fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
3 weeks ago

No this was from last yr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
3 weeks ago

I hope you were not referring to me??

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By *hil most chillMan
3 weeks ago

London, South East & Europe


"I hope you were not referring to me??"

No one knows who you're referring to.

And no the site hasn't changed, you still have to put in the same work you always did.

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By *eet the Fuckers 69Couple
3 weeks ago

Kingston on Thames


"Seems more of a chance of aliens abducting andrew tate than 99% of us guys getting meets on here. Ive been on and off since 09 and this site has got worse. Who agrees?"

Single guys can be successful on fab but you have to put the time energy and effort into it across every facet especially your profile quality.

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By *xfordjohnMan
3 weeks ago

Oxford

You've only been here for two weeks amnd you're already moaning? What did you expect? It takes patience and effort. It took me a year to find the couple I wanted and we played together for six years so a good return, I think. I've not been short of offers since then.

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair


"...What do you think to my profile? X"

You're giving the 'impression' that you're not happy with this place and not having much luck, and also not met many people. However your profile implies that you're happy go lucky and have had wonderful meets with wonderful people. Well, what is it?

Remove the diatribe from your text where you are saying this place is full of "fakes and timewasters". It doesn't show you in a good light.

Overall your profile comes across as somewhat generic...but it's not bad.

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By *inkyropecoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

carluke

An example of a message we got this afternoon -

“Look listen now I’m a young lad with a very hard cock looking to fuck mrs raw rough passionate while Mr watches and love to film then Mr join in and I want it sorted asap”

Now imagine having to sift through lots of this kind of entitled crap to find the genuine nice guys who we would consider meeting.

Its not easy for guys, but it’s also not easy keeping a positive attitude when your inbox contains a load of junk mail…..

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By *avtrophyMan
3 weeks ago

Bourne End

Sites like this always have more men than women so a single male needs to put more effort in. I know I haven’t put the required effort in yet

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By *orthern BeardMan
3 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

It’s definitely worse than it was 10 years ago on here but I don’t have any problems getting plenty of meets.

It takes effort and a lack of expectation. Once you realise that you have success

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By *heGeekyHedonistMan
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Like the others have said its all about effort and patience, verifications and a genuinely interesting profile help a lot, as do a variety of photos that truly distinguish you from the crowd.

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By *CatherineJohnxCouple
3 weeks ago

Cheshire/ London

We had two guy meets planned and both were last minute no shows. Obviously they don’t represent all men in the same way we don’t represent all couples. But so far 100% let down.

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair


"We had two guy meets planned and both were last minute no shows. Obviously they don’t represent all men in the same way we don’t represent all couples. But so far 100% let down."

Ah, but your lådyship - did you meet them for tea and cake? 🫖

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By *ogandher1962Couple
3 weeks ago

Reading


"Seems more of a chance of aliens abducting andrew tate than 99% of us guys getting meets on here. Ive been on and off since 09 and this site has got worse. Who agrees?"

In what way has it “got worse”? Genuine question

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By *akedrob2025Man
3 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Totally agree, its about taking time, ive been on and off this site for years, and i have met some lovely people. People dont understand what swinging is.

Some of the chat in the chat rooms, is ridiculous, its all about respect, being genuine, and open, just my thoughts

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By *ealitybitesMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast

Can't say I do agree.

I've been here since 2016 and the only thing that had changed in that time is me.

I've never had any issues getting meets despite my location, my age and being ginger.

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By *elshie_69Man
3 weeks ago

Mean streets of Hounslow

I had a random message around 10 weeks ago from a young lady in Kent, she had seen I had ‘fabbed’ some of her pics a few weeks earlier, we went for a drink a week later and we both fell head over heels in love after that first meet/social/drink…it’s been absolute bliss ever since…It does actually happen for some guys on this site

Dirty Diamonds if you’re curious about our newly created couples account

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

3 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Can't say I do agree.

I've been here since 2016 and the only thing that had changed in that time is me.

I've never had any issues getting meets despite my location, my age and being ginger. "

Ditto.

Except I've been here since 2008.

Never had any problems. 🤷‍♂️

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By *orthern BeardMan
3 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"We had two guy meets planned and both were last minute no shows. Obviously they don’t represent all men in the same way we don’t represent all couples. But so far 100% let down."

I find this annoying as rightfully so you’ll be annoyed and lose faith in the blokes on here

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By *quirrel!Man
3 weeks ago

L

16/5 are the odds! 🤷🏼‍♂️

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By *sStephenPickleMan
3 weeks ago

Ends

Fucking wish the aliens would.

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By *xstaceyxxTV/TS
3 weeks ago

longeaton,ng10

Same here mate,no chance of a meet on here,and yes it's got worse.

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By *gfbMan
3 weeks ago

thorne

Getting more naughty meets from pof then fabs

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By *ovhornyguyMan
3 weeks ago

Bedworth

Got more chance of licking rocks than pussy

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By *elboy1978Man
3 weeks ago

Jarrow

It hard to get a meet on here

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
3 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

It’s hard for women to or I’m just to picky

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