FabSwingers.com forum: being called a slut in yoir first message

By *w funwife OP Woman
9 weeks ago

near taunton

so ladies has being called a slut in yoir first message ever worked for you ??

the messages are getting worse its bad enough with the one liners or even one word ''hi'' but more and more are getting more like prn ie the hey fancy a fuck but now thats turning into het fancy a fuck slut ?? the mind boggle at what thes men are thinking ?? and to add some are very hot but with that way of thinking theirs no chane..

and then the oh your a prude because you dont like being called a slut ?? yep lol you cant make this stuff up lol as alway block delete but just wonders if the pattern is the same for others ??? ie the messages are getting worse not better ..one good thing tho is it makes a great early filter

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By *ustus5555Woman
9 weeks ago

Mansfield

Instant delete

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By *ndymac888Man
9 weeks ago

Dumbarton

Sooo, second message ok ? 😜

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
9 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

That would get them blocked ☺️

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
9 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

Absolutely not I block if that’s the guys opinion on women

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By *atwick_CougarWoman
9 weeks ago

Unknown

Blocked and deleted ...

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
9 weeks ago

East Sussex

Blocked bye bye

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By *pen to offers!Man
9 weeks ago

Carlisle

Must mean they already know you

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By *iery redhead300Woman
9 weeks ago

Stoke-on-Trent

It's an instant block from me I don't even reply same with the meet now messages it clearly states in profile what your looking for and 99% of men cant read

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

It must have been a typo and they meant to say "sleuth"...

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By *eformed_CharactersCouple
9 weeks ago

round and about

Yeah i wouldnt reply

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By *w funwife OP Woman
9 weeks ago

near taunton

and is it telling that the 2 men who have commented so far try to ''joke it out''

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By *esparate danMan
9 weeks ago

glasgow

Youre too angry to be a slut

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By *w funwife OP Woman
9 weeks ago

near taunton

oh dear

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
9 weeks ago

West Midlands

Something in the water as today has been a particularly shite day in this regard

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By *heWanderer100Man
9 weeks ago

benfleet

Such a serious lack of respect doesn’t bode well for any further interactions. Some guys just cannot read the room I guess.

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By *layfull pairingCouple
9 weeks ago

Bristol

Approach people online the same way you would approach them in a bar or club ... imagine walking up to a girl in a bristol nightclub with “hi, fancy a fuck you slut”? There would be blood up the walls

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By *heff24Man
9 weeks ago

Sheffield

I'd welcome being called a slut.....at least it would mean someone has sent me a message 😂

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By *xoticFrolicMan
9 weeks ago

Gosport

Only if the lady wants that talk. Genuine connections, good times and mutual pleasure is the goal

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By *obboMan
9 weeks ago

Lincoln

I've said for a while the majority of people on here don't know how to talk to women or in general. That being said, being nice one and sending a decent message doesn't go very far a lot of the time either!

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By *ootnootboopCouple
9 weeks ago

Cheshire

Dont even get the courtesy of us opening the message before a block.

If you can't talk to us like a normal person, then how the hell do you think we'll get on naked???

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

"and is it telling that the 2 men who have commented so far try to ''joke it out''"

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Or perhaps they are tempering the situation in your favour as a form of solidarity to offset the absurdity that often prevails on this site. 🤷🏻

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By *uietone_againMan
9 weeks ago

Bristol

Hopefully before long ai or something can be used to filter out these messages at source. The idiots can then spend their hours typing away to themselves.

Shame that is needed to get round the obvious problem though.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

It’s not hard to be respectful. I mean would you walk up to someone in the street and use that terminology

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By *ust want fun 888Man
9 weeks ago

nearby

"so ladies has being called a slut in yoir first message ever worked for you ??

Hi, I just wanted to say and I probably speak for a lot of men, obviously not all of them, but it’s one word I hate to use even if the woman self wants to be called that, I personally find it degrading

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By *elightful 2Couple
9 weeks ago

Not living in the UK

It would be an instant block from us.

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By *ickandHilaryCouple
9 weeks ago

Barnstaple

"so ladies has being called a slut in yoir first message ever worked for you ??

Umm, to those ladies that delight in being called a slut or ‘acting like a slut’…..YOU HOT SLUTS !

To those ladies that would very understandably take serious offence at being called a ‘slut’……

Nothing could be further from my mind.

I’m here to please

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By *ickandHilaryCouple
9 weeks ago

Barnstaple

"Only if the lady wants that talk. Genuine connections, good times and mutual pleasure is the goal "

Exactly

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By *idsAndyMan
9 weeks ago

Worcestershire

It's just plain wrong not to be respectful and friendly! I don't get it at all....

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By *attykinsWoman
9 weeks ago

Salford

I doubt there's much thinking involved, instant block and delete

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By *ill Hill FunseekersCouple
9 weeks ago

london

We accepted a couple as friends a few days ago after some nice back and forth messages. Nice photos and vids and good chat as well.

I logged on yesterday and we had a message from him saying “I bet your panties are wet today”

Instant block. We also hate the word ‘panties’ as well. C

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By *tr8MrEMan
9 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

There's a time and a place for that behaviour...the first message isn't it!!!

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By *orksBBW36Woman
9 weeks ago

Mansfield

I’ve had some frankly disgusting opening messages, many of which are borderline criminal.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
9 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

Some think they can message you anything on here they forget there IP address is traceable though

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