FabSwingers.com forum: Oh to be shy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We realy need a good kick up the backside, we both love to swing but have a serious problem starting things off.

Last night at Abfab we had a couple keep coming to where we were playing sitting, but neither of us could muster and courage to try play with the couple. does anyone have any tips for this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long you been going to clubs? As1st time is always daunting xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

that's the problem i've been going 6 years and my partner 6 months. but being as i'm male i find it a tad awkward to start things.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive youre already playing and they are watching, just make eye contact, give them a smile and if they acknowledge that then nod them to come over.

If they are interested they'll then know that its ok to come and join you

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Read your veri's.....

Dont seem to have problem before so why now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Read your veri's.....

Dont seem to have problem before so why now?"

They we're couples my partner knew before we started playing together so they were easier. however the last couple who verified us took two visits to do anyhing about it, and they were very blatent about it. lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

It is all to do with confidence...

If you are interested in others, say something to them....

IF they say no, dont let it get you down, as there will be times when you will be saying no to others....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is all to do with confidence...

If you are interested in others, say something to them....

IF they say no, dont let it get you down, as there will be times when you will be saying no to others...."

Oh i agree with that, we're starting to get more confidence. i just think we need to mingle a bit more. but its the whole awkward who touches 1st

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Oh i agree with that, we're starting to get more confidence. i just think we need to mingle a bit more. but its the whole awkward who touches 1st"

I would be touching anyone unless I was 100% sure they were ok with it lol

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