FabSwingers.com forum: Confidence

By *orkmanlooking OP Man
9 weeks ago

York

Does FAB effect your confidence in a positive or negative way?

When does confidence become arrogance and is it a fine line?

North West

I suppose there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. For me, as I’ve gotten older, as I’ve embraced my sexuality and body even though it’s not where I’d like it to be, I just don’t give two fucks anymore. I don’t care what people think of me, I don’t care if people like me, and I don’t care if people find me appealing or not. That in itself is quite liberating and gives me the confidence to do things on my terms and how I like it. So I’d say it is a positive experience for me.

I do consider the people I am with mind, I am not selfish with their wants/desires but I’m more forthright nowadays. I’m not immune to a crises of confidence of course, especially for those I genuinely care for and who know my softer side but as far as Fab is concerned I take it with a pinch of salt 99% of the time. Some people like that and will say I’m confident as a result, some may find it arrogant. Whichever camp someone puts me in, you wont find me losing any sleep over it 🍭

By *ositiveVibesJBxMan
9 weeks ago

Birmingham/Wigan

"I suppose there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. For me, as I’ve gotten older, as I’ve embraced my sexuality and body even though it’s not where I’d like it to be, I just don’t give two fucks anymore. I don’t care what people think of me, I don’t care if people like me, and I don’t care if people find me appealing or not. That in itself is quite liberating and gives me the confidence to do things on my terms and how I like it. So I’d say it is a positive experience for me.

Exactly this 100% it’s like you read my mind. I couldn’t have put it better myself x

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex

Fac hasn't affected my confidence either way

Confidence never becomes arrogance. The two are completely different personality traits.