FabSwingers.com forum: Grudges

By *ollyPocket75 OP Woman
21 hours ago

Aberdeen

Do you hold grudges? Or do you think what's the point? I don't hold grudges myself, I find it's easier to forgive and move on.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
21 hours ago

honeysuckle lane

No I don’t. I don’t let any grudges live in my head

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By *sStephenPickleMan
21 hours ago

Ends

Nah. I don’t necessarily maintain contact but not because of a grudge just because I learn my lessons.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
21 hours ago

North West

I don't hold a grudge but I won't forget.

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By *issmorganWoman
21 hours ago

Calderdale innit

Sometimes yes, depending on what they've done.

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By *akUkCoupleCouple
21 hours ago

Milton Keynes

Sort of do hold the grudge to remind myself and don't get involved with that person again.

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By *WANDTGCouple
21 hours ago

Borough of Greenwich

I do ( male) but there's reasons behind them, but I've become more forgiving in later life.

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By *ndymac888Man
21 hours ago

Dumbarton

Some things are worth a grudge but it’s not like I dwell on any.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
21 hours ago

East Sussex

I had to look the meaning of 'grudge' up before I answered.

There is one person I hold ill will towards and probably always will. They told lies about me that could have cost my job and meant I had to go through a whole disciplinary procedure involving respected colleagues and defend myself against accusations that had no basis in fact.

I'm not bitter about it, I rarely think about it and although it impacted my life very badly at the time it hasn't since. However there is nothing that person could do or say that would stop me feeling ill will towards them.

I don't bear any other grudges though...yet

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By *herrybakewellCouple
21 hours ago

Staffordshire

Absolutely I do.

Mr.

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By *ice guy finishes lastMan
21 hours ago

scunthorpe

Bear 1 grudge and if ever I see him I'll knock his teeth out as him pretending to be me when stopped by police driving an uninsured car with bald tires nearly cost me my license,and despite proofing it wasn't me to police when I found out I still ended up in court as dvla wanted me to surrender said license and pay thousand pound in various fines until I proofed at the time and date of the incident I was at work 30 miles away with witnesses,still cost me a solicitors fee ,I was tempted to send a very bad man who was looking for him to his home address as I had it via court summons but someone pointed out this bad man would hurt his family to get to him and two wrongs don't make a right but if I ever see him in street I will lay him out

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
19 hours ago

Stoke

Not spoken to my brother in 15 years, so yeah I do 😂

Mr F.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
19 hours ago

Edinburgh

Yes but depends on the severity of the situation

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
19 hours ago

Herts/Beds/London

Hell yes. Forgiveness is earned, not gifted.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
19 hours ago

Leeds

I try not to but it does depend on what they've done.

Mrs

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By *ollyPocket75 OP Woman
19 hours ago

Aberdeen

Agreed,it does depend on what the person has done. I think life is short and no one knows what's around the corner. I would rather not carry that weight with me. Maybe I'm soft in my old age 😁

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By *parkle1974Woman
18 hours ago

Leeds

No, i take my revenge then move on.

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By *ose and her beastCouple
18 hours ago

Watford

Move on and forget them Indifference really hurts people more

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By *tr8MrEMan
18 hours ago

somewhere near Sheffield

I see nothing positive in holding a grudge....I'm too emotional to handle anything negative in my life

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By *umagainandagainMan
18 hours ago

Altrincham

I will hold a grudge until it is settled. Even if it takes the rest of my life.

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By *randMrsShebaCouple
18 hours ago

Birmingham

No. That's what toxic workplace Karen's do. Real men get along with eachother because we have real things to worry about.

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By *ear NecessitiesMan
18 hours ago

The woods

Holding a grudge seems to do the bearer more harm than the recipient.

Doesn't mean I want anything to do with a few people though and would happily stand and watch them on fire.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
18 hours ago

Castlebar

"Hell yes. Forgiveness is earned, not gifted. "

Very true in some cases...

All depends.

Minor things I wouldn't care about but I never forget. Once bitten twice shy.

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