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By *ilverfox for you OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Hull

Reading a lot lately about guys that don’t turn up for meets !!! What’s going on ? Why are you on here ??

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By *r Bond.Man
9 weeks ago

Moving Around the Midlands

They enjoy wanking to the build up. That is all I’ve got 🤷🏻‍♂️

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

As above or

Married and suddenly can’t get away.

Lose their nerve for whatever reason.

Bi curious in particular maybe they sudentoy decide not really curious?

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
9 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane


"As above or

Married and suddenly can’t get away.

Lose their nerve for whatever reason.

Bi curious in particular maybe they sudentoy decide not really curious?

"

^

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By *ornycouplepzCouple
9 weeks ago

here and there

Thay like the trill and the thought of meeting ,but don't have the minerals to turn up x

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By *w funwifeWoman
9 weeks ago

near taunton

there are just as many no show women and couples too

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

I had my first experience of a complete timewaster today exchanged messages with a cd today sent pics said I was handsome was definitely what I wanted arranged for tonight sent me post code drove 20 mins to area asked if I was there yet I said yes then all of a sudden went of line ,absolutely crazy why the hell would you do that to a guy waste of time getting ready and wasted my precious viagra whats the point I have no faith in this site now

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

5 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I had my first experience of a complete timewaster today exchanged messages with a cd today sent pics said I was handsome was definitely what I wanted arranged for tonight sent me post code drove 20 mins to area asked if I was there yet I said yes then all of a sudden went of line ,absolutely crazy why the hell would you do that to a guy waste of time getting ready and wasted my precious viagra whats the point I have no faith in this site now "

That isn't the sites fault though.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
5 weeks ago

Herts


"Reading a lot lately about guys that don’t turn up for meets !!! What’s going on ? Why are you on here ??"
in an alternative universe they're women pretending they're men

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By *ettieAndIrvingMan
5 weeks ago

Derby


"I had my first experience of a complete timewaster today exchanged messages with a cd today sent pics said I was handsome was definitely what I wanted arranged for tonight sent me post code drove 20 mins to area asked if I was there yet I said yes then all of a sudden went of line ,absolutely crazy why the hell would you do that to a guy waste of time getting ready and wasted my precious viagra whats the point I have no faith in this site now

That isn't the sites fault though. "

No, but there should be a name n shame or a three strikes and you're out.

Lost count of the timewasting dickheads who say they're going to turn up then disappear and block us.

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By *ikerdevil2025Man
5 weeks ago

Surrey

Or they don't look like anything close to their pictures

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

5 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I had my first experience of a complete timewaster today exchanged messages with a cd today sent pics said I was handsome was definitely what I wanted arranged for tonight sent me post code drove 20 mins to area asked if I was there yet I said yes then all of a sudden went of line ,absolutely crazy why the hell would you do that to a guy waste of time getting ready and wasted my precious viagra whats the point I have no faith in this site now

That isn't the sites fault though.

No, but there should be a name n shame or a three strikes and you're out.

Lost count of the timewasting dickheads who say they're going to turn up then disappear and block us."

You probably know naming and shaming isn't allowed.

There is a 'no show' option on the report function

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By *rSuave88Man
5 weeks ago

Mirfield


"I had my first experience of a complete timewaster today exchanged messages with a cd today sent pics said I was handsome was definitely what I wanted arranged for tonight sent me post code drove 20 mins to area asked if I was there yet I said yes then all of a sudden went of line ,absolutely crazy why the hell would you do that to a guy waste of time getting ready and wasted my precious viagra whats the point I have no faith in this site now "

But you are 'straight'

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By *hickthighs25Woman
5 weeks ago

Stockton


"I had my first experience of a complete timewaster today exchanged messages with a cd today sent pics said I was handsome was definitely what I wanted arranged for tonight sent me post code drove 20 mins to area asked if I was there yet I said yes then all of a sudden went of line ,absolutely crazy why the hell would you do that to a guy waste of time getting ready and wasted my precious viagra whats the point I have no faith in this site now

But you are 'straight' "

Im glad you said this i was thinking same 🤣🤔

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By *ISSchievous CoupleCouple
5 weeks ago

Bedford


"As above or

Married and suddenly can’t get away.

Lose their nerve for whatever reason.

Bi curious in particular maybe they sudentoy decide not really curious?

"

This seems to be what we’ve experienced. It’s very off putting trying to find real bi men who don’t pretend to be bi just to get to the wife and who will actually turn up.

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By *andk808Couple
5 weeks ago

liverpool

Organised a little gangbang with 3 guys for k at a hotel and none of them turned up

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By *n_thy_kneesMan
5 weeks ago

Ipswich


"Organised a little gangbang with 3 guys for k at a hotel and none of them turned up "

People's map reading skills aren't what they used to be, eh?!

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By *aldaVelvetTV/TS
5 weeks ago

London

For balance, I've never had a no-show or a last minute ghosting. It's been game on right out the blocks.

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By *ungnorthernMan
5 weeks ago

manchester

Unless I physically can't I always turn up

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By *hunky GentMan
5 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

It's not just guys.

Women don't turn up either.

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By *TWboyMan
5 weeks ago

kings Lynn

If I make an arrangement to meet I ALWAYS turn up.

If I’m not there - it’s because I’m dead 😁

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By *oelMan
5 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels

People are faking, not got the flexibility, or are suddenly not able to make it. Fab seems like an incredible amount of effort, just to be told no, or to be ghosted.

Such is life I guess, I don't expect, just live it and have fun. Anything that works out works out

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By *igwilly2kMan
5 weeks ago

The Land of Kink!

All talk and no action key board warriors unfortunately

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By *paretime_funMan
5 weeks ago

here and there

I don't get it. If you're lucky enough to get something arranged, I can't see why you'd back out. After all, that's why we're all here. Any ladies or couples get let down near me, I'll happily stand in for any no shows.

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By *4bimMan
5 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

you have to accept there is no 100% success rate doing this. if you cant dont do it.

everyone has a reason to be here, and in my experience many who others call timewasting have a chance of mind and everyone is allowed to do that and have that right.

the only thing and the best thing to do is block them if they still on the site and walk away. be an adult about it, not a baby crying because others see complaining as a real turn off and may change their opinion of you because of your status or forum post.

life is full of failing, if you cannot deal with the fact you will be let down, quit.

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By *rDuracell88Man
5 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Just don't chat to anyone who's not meet verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago


"I had my first experience of a complete timewaster today exchanged messages with a cd today sent pics said I was handsome was definitely what I wanted arranged for tonight sent me post code drove 20 mins to area asked if I was there yet I said yes then all of a sudden went of line i still ,absolutely crazy why the hell would you do that to a guy waste of time getting ready and wasted my precious viagra whats the point I have no faith in this site now

But you are 'straight'

Im glad you said this i was thinking same 🤣🤔"

I think of myself as straight as a convincing cd or trans is female in my eyes I know people have there opinions but thats mine

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By *ntelligent_tall69Man
3 weeks ago

mums cellar

Really boils my p*&s when guys do this, sure emergencies Happen but if you can't walk the walk just lurk and wank over the pretty pics. When here as part of a couple was stunned at how many did this.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago


"there are just as many no show women and couples too"

This is right, most annoying

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By *netobeextraMan
3 weeks ago

location varies

Sometimes legitimate reasons, real life things do happen.

Sometimes they are just time wasters. Probably people getting a laugh from it. People who take screenshots for group chats or social media posts hoping to go viral for a wind up. I have seen these posts fly around unfortunately.

Sometimes anxiety or lack of confidence gets the better of people.

Sometimes they are committed/married and can’t sneak off.

Sometimes the thought is better than the meet.

Sometimes they have a wank and sober up when then horn is gone.

Sometimes they get a better offer and you’ll see a verification appear with someone else.

Sometimes they see something in you or you do something that puts them off meeting you.

There’s countless reasons. You’ll never get a one fits all answer. I just report them, block them, and move on from the situation when I encounter those people if they don’t have the courtesy to let me know they are no longer meeting.

If you’re looking for a group meet, I can guarantee that you’ll need to invite 4 times the people you need because of no shows/cancellations.

And it’s not just the single males. You get well verified single females and MF couples who do it as well.

Try and communicate with people on a number or secure app to have a voice or video call with them. It’s not always a fool proof method but it does often out the ones who are just messing about with no intentions.

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By *olo180Man
3 weeks ago

Greater London


"Sometimes legitimate reasons, real life things do happen.

Sometimes they are just time wasters. Probably people getting a laugh from it. People who take screenshots for group chats or social media posts hoping to go viral for a wind up. I have seen these posts fly around unfortunately.

Sometimes anxiety or lack of confidence gets the better of people.

Sometimes they are committed/married and can’t sneak off.

Sometimes the thought is better than the meet.

Sometimes they have a wank and sober up when then horn is gone.

Sometimes they get a better offer and you’ll see a verification appear with someone else.

Sometimes they see something in you or you do something that puts them off meeting you.

There’s countless reasons. You’ll never get a one fits all answer. I just report them, block them, and move on from the situation when I encounter those people if they don’t have the courtesy to let me know they are no longer meeting.

If you’re looking for a group meet, I can guarantee that you’ll need to invite 4 times the people you need because of no shows/cancellations.

And it’s not just the single males. You get well verified single females and MF couples who do it as well.

Try and communicate with people on a number or secure app to have a voice or video call with them. It’s not always a fool proof method but it does often out the ones who are just messing about with no intentions."

Ooh, sometimes

The truth is harder than the pain inside

Yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Never no showed for a meet, usually say straight away if not available, been let down multiple times though by time wasters and picky demands

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