FabSwingers.com forum: What got you started?

By *heManOfTheMoment OP Man
10 weeks ago

gillingham

How did you get started in this world? Swinging, BDSM, cuckolding, threesomes, moresomes. What got it going for you?

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By *each needs some creamWoman
10 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

What got me into Swinging is that I enjoy sex but don't want any kind of relationship.

I also like variety don't want to eat at the same restaurant every time.

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By *heManOfTheMoment OP Man
10 weeks ago

gillingham

Haha love that. I wonder how many people are going to say the same.

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By *eachandcream78Couple
10 weeks ago

South Devon

We booked a holiday to PDI in Gran Canaria without realising where we were going. Our balcony overlooked Peaches and Cream so on our first night we ventured down to take a look. Met a couple who told us about Fab and that was it. Unplanned and unexpected

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By *Wgent72Man
10 weeks ago

Manchester

Seen a documentary on sky about swinging...seen the orgy scene and thought...wow! That looks like fun.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
10 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I lost my virginity at an orgy because it seemed a more interesting proposal than drinking at the bus stop.

Sex is fun 💜

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By *heManOfTheMoment OP Man
10 weeks ago

gillingham

That’s crazy but so cool. Spontaneous at its best. So which one of you was like ‘shall we give it ago?’ Haha. Nosey over here.

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By *heManOfTheMoment OP Man
10 weeks ago

gillingham

Haha at least you did your homework before starting lol.

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By *heManOfTheMoment OP Man
10 weeks ago

gillingham

Ding ding ding. We have a winner!!

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
10 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

Mrs CD likes MMF porn and I'm bi.

I mentioned I would like to see her being fucked by another guy and she said the idea of me with a guy is hot.

So we joined here, had a bi threesome and here we are

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By *heManOfTheMoment OP Man
10 weeks ago

gillingham

Both In heaven then eh lol.

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
10 weeks ago

scunthorpe

Me and Sean had been together 7 years and I finally told him that I’m bi and really missed sex with women.

He took it well, we had a google and found fab.

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By *imherjgCouple
10 weeks ago

andover

Mrs - have a bi curious side, we’ve both been very open and honest with each other ever since being together, saw some shows on tv and sort of peaked our interest more.

Discussed what we’d like to get out of it next thing we know we’re on fab

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By *cootoverMan
10 weeks ago

forest of dean

Had a vague notion of wanting to explore and have more fun, plus am really bad at chatting up in bars!

A bit of googling, and what really sent me to this site was...

Mumsnet

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By *ourdoMan
10 weeks ago

Westbury

My wife

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By *heManOfTheMoment OP Man
10 weeks ago

gillingham

Care to elaborate

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By *ust want fun 888Man
10 weeks ago

nearby

It didn’t start yet!

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
10 weeks ago

from mars

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
10 weeks ago

from mars

Tits … 🍒

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By *heManOfTheMoment OP Man
10 weeks ago

gillingham

What’s not to love? Can we all agree eh

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By *thldncpl114Couple
10 weeks ago

London

Bit of a odd one with me (mr) can genuinely remember being really curious about the who idea of a threesome (mfm) as young as 13 or 14 (was still at school obviously, but I remember making. Passing comment to my then girlfriend) obviously nothing came of it, until I was 20 with my partner who was older at 28 and during a night in with a again older friend of ours (who bybthe way with hindsight, knew EXACTLY what he was engineering that night) I was still somewhat sexually naive and not as confident and assertive as now, drinks, and some other recreational things were consumed and of course as he would he turned the conversation in a sexual and suggesting direction, and me being me under the influence burst out with "shall we have a threesome?"

But even though I experienced certain insecurities after, I wasn't actually horrified by the sight of another man fucking my missus from behind

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By *heManOfTheMoment OP Man
10 weeks ago

gillingham

Wow I take my hat off to you. I had a similar experience funnily enough.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
9 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

"Wow I take my hat off to you. I had a similar experience funnily enough. "

Can I suggest you use the reply-quote button so people know who you are commenting on.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
9 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

"Wow I take my hat off to you. I had a similar experience funnily enough. "

Can I suggest you use the reply-quote button so people know who you are commenting on.

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By *aura-pTV/TS
9 weeks ago

dorset

Man on a train when I was younger

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By *litalicious_CoupleCouple
9 weeks ago

North East

Many vanilla holidays to PDI for us....then the curiosity dragged us in. How different visits to PDI have become these days 🤣

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By *orthernMan1991Man
9 weeks ago

Seaburn

Ill be honest it was i loved to share and play with others with my ex partner

we loved exploring the world together and seeing what naughty experiences we could get up to. Now I look to join others x

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By *partharmonyCouple
9 weeks ago

Ruislip

My then wife told me I wasn't going to get sex from her so I might as well go and get it somewhere else. This led to a conversation with a family friend who it turns out was on this scene. I started going to clubs from there.

When I first met Hannah, before there was any inkling anything would happen between us, I was very open about being on the scene and that if I ever did get into a relationship again I would not want it to be completely monogamous. When things happened between us she was willing to give it a try.

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By *aveJones76Man
9 weeks ago

Rotherham

Initially I was interested in swapping but moved onto a big interest in cuckolding when I knew I wasn't up to the task of satisfying my wife.

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
9 weeks ago

Bristol

An initial interest in sex clubs. I raised it with Mrs and managed to convince her to take a look and try visiting one without any intention to join on with anything.

Gradually, curiosity took us down the rabbit hole.

We will just watch at a club.

OK, we will have a social with a couple.

OK, soft swap with a couple.

I'm OK to try full swap, you? Yeah OK let's try it.

Maybe we try a club meet again and maybe play in private...

Oh, maybe we play with another lady, oh and maybe a single guy too...

Well I suppose we can play in the couples room at the club, it's only semi public...

Maybe a bi guy? Ooo a bi guy in a bi couple.

Group fun in the couples room?

Ah couples rooms are too busy/hot, shall we just play in the orgy room...

And here we are!

🤣🤣🤣

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds

I got bored of the slide and thought yeah I'll try that, swings it was.

Mrs

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By *idnight0810Couple
9 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Well… I suppose it originally started watching sexcetera on the telly as a youth. 😂 had fantasies about threesome etc etc. Met my fiancee few years ago and while chatting she was bisexual same sexual views and fantasies. Rest j guess is history here we are 🤷‍♂️

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By *stoppMan
9 weeks ago

Durham

Booked a model unknowingly that she was a swinger also, got taking and hey- presto here I’m 10yr later

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By *ananas57Couple
9 weeks ago

lake ariel

Hubby said I gave a great bj, and I should share my talent with others

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By *irtyKittenCouple
9 weeks ago

Southampton

"I lost my virginity at an orgy because it seemed a more interesting proposal than drinking at the bus stop.

Sex is fun 💜"

Maybe Channel 4's Virgin Island should have done this instead, the nerves will either make them run or they will become so confident they join fab

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By *ongLaster15Man
9 weeks ago

Spalding

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By *ongLaster15Man
9 weeks ago

Spalding

Ex gf who was into a bit of kink, used to switch but she was really into controlling when I would cum

It grew from there but no longer together

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By *ustmehorny1976Man
9 weeks ago

Birmingham/Lowestoft

I have always enjoyed variety, and enjoying new people.

This along with home life sexual incompatibility

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By *heonixrising500Man
9 weeks ago

Barnsley

I was on my own but wanted a sex life

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Someone I used to see casually, showed me this site.

I joined as Singleton and had some great meets. I then met my partner here almost 10 years ago.

We have a joint profile for meeting other couples on.

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By *eekendVixenCouple
9 weeks ago

Leicester

We used to drive past Liberty Elite most days and I'd joke about going. Never thought we would.

Watched TV programmed about that club and decided to give it a try.

Took us ages to actually do it.

We didn't even know about hotwife / stag + vixen couples etc, thought it was all just wife swapping.

Been an amazing journey!

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By *hat.coupleCouple
9 weeks ago

Kent

We started this about 4 years ago, we've always played the same pretty much from the beginning. FFM all the way for us and we refuse to compromise. I came out to my husband 4 years ago and wanted to explore with women so I suggested this site. But, something in me really wanted to see my husband with another woman so I suggested we try FFM 3some and here we are today living our best life. It's one of the best things we ever did.

Mrs x

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By *utterfly1983Woman
9 weeks ago

widnes

I started on here 10 years ago. (Other profiles since then).. split with hubby and was bored and frustrated.. took the split bad and found a release 🤷🏻‍♀️😊 never really looked back..

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By *xfordjohnMan
9 weeks ago

Oxford

It was a long time ago! My first wife and I were fascinated by sex right from the start. We read stories in mags like Forum, then bought Danish porn mags in Soho. As soon as we had our children, we decided to act out our fantasies, met people we liked and off we went. I've never looked back.

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By *ustforfun456Couple
9 weeks ago

Devon, south West / Cheshire

My best friend on holiday xx

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