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"“Will fill in later” and they joined over a year ago" This. And probably expect a Pulitzer-winning first message too. | |||
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"What about a profile makes you immediately say/think no thank you? A major one for us is... only play bareback. There is a beautiful single woman who often visits our profile, and she states that protection is stupid on her profile, and that is enough for us to pass on that mythological unicorn. Mrs. Xx" No pics/just cock pics Will fill in later Dom/daddy etc Need to empty my balls type status I could go on...... ![]() | |||
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"Old, or no, pictures. It’s not too much to ask to see pictures from within the last 12 months. Single guys who say they’re looking to cuck or humiliate. Not kink shaming, but it’s not for us. " Now that you mention it, we need some newer pics ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"“Will fill in later” and they joined over a year ago" We're not interested if you can't make the slightest effort on your profile. Makes us think you won't make an effort for/during a meet. ![]() | |||
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"What about a profile makes you immediately say/think no thank you? A major one for us is... only play bareback. There is a beautiful single woman who often visits our profile, and she states that protection is stupid on her profile, and that is enough for us to pass on that mythological unicorn. Mrs. Xx No pics/just cock pics Will fill in later Dom/daddy etc Need to empty my balls type status I could go on...... ![]() Completely agree on all of those examples! | |||
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"“Will fill in later” and they joined over a year ago This. And probably expect a Pulitzer-winning first message too." Yes! You better catch our eye before you find out if we even know how to spell ![]() | |||
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"Shit/dirty/messy pics. Pics hanging out of different people bareback. Negative profile." And to add the invisible man on couples profiles. Mrs | |||
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"Blank profiles , no information and no pics is a definite no from me " 100% this! | |||
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"Shit/dirty/messy pics. Pics hanging out of different people bareback. Negative profile. And to add the invisible man on couples profiles. Mrs " All of the above and 1 million times yes to the invisible man of a couple. I can't be bothered to ask for a pic if they can't be bothered to include him in profile pics. I understand if he doesn't get involved, but if he want to be in the mix he should be visible. | |||
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"The words "we are not looking for single men" instant block." We generally are hardly ever actively looking for single men, but now and again someone will catch my eye. Sometimes it can be a profile of a man who is nearby, or even a wink or random unsolicited message. You never know who or when someone will spark an interest. We can be a contradictory at times...we all have flaws ![]() | |||
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"No public pics and not much text. Lots of pics of them hanging out of various women. Just pics of their bits, that puts me off couple profiles too, as does only having pics of one of them (usually just the woman). Them having interests that don't align with mine ie regular dogging/gangbang pics /veries. Inconsistency ie sayung no smoker, then they have a recent pic with a cig in hand or mouth. The age one, I'm 40 not 50, but I can't change it. Yes that's because you changed it already!. " Oh yeah, we forgot that we are both in our late 20's, and have just spent loads of time in the sun wink ![]() | |||
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"People who have pictures that are six years out of date and they’re still on here every day wanting to talk and meet up. Especially the ones who say they’re a couple and they’re all female pictures from way back." Since I started this I'm realizing that we need to put some up to date photos in here ![]() | |||
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"What about a profile makes you immediately say/think no thank you? A major one for us is... only play bareback. There is a beautiful single woman who often visits our profile, and she states that protection is stupid on her profile, and that is enough for us to pass on that mythological unicorn. Mrs. Xx No pics/just cock pics Will fill in later Dom/daddy etc Need to empty my balls type status I could go on...... ![]() All of these, and the word bull. I really don't know how ( or even if) they manage to get any meets at all. I suppose it what some ppl want, but not me. X | |||
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"- Silhouette profile picture - No public pictures - Every picture being a cock pic - Just crap pics - messy backgrounds, no thought etc. etc. - Single profiles with pics balls deep in other people (always wonder if they have permission) - Any pic showing them bareback - No face pic attached - Just a “hi”, “hey” “how are you” type of message … booooooring!!! - Any crude message - “FAF”, “meet me now at this hotel”, “can I fill your holes” etc. - Any mention that they are a “Daddy” 🤢 - Shit bio - “will fill in later” or just no effort They tend to be my straight up delete filters 🍭 " Absolutely all of these! No thank you! 😊 | |||
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"What about a profile makes you immediately say/think no thank you? A major one for us is... only play bareback. There is a beautiful single woman who often visits our profile, and she states that protection is stupid on her profile, and that is enough for us to pass on that mythological unicorn. Mrs. Xx No pics/just cock pics Will fill in later Dom/daddy etc Need to empty my balls type status I could go on...... ![]() I suppose some people are ok with that, but that doesn't cut it with us either. ![]() | |||
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"What about a profile makes you immediately say/think no thank you? A major one for us is... only play bareback. There is a beautiful single woman who often visits our profile, and she states that protection is stupid on her profile, and that is enough for us to pass on that mythological unicorn. Mrs. Xx No pics/just cock pics Will fill in later Dom/daddy etc Need to empty my balls type status I could go on...... ![]() Also usernames like suck me dry or pussylicker.....makes me shudder 😬 | |||
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"I don't bite unless you ask me too, hehehehe. Just, No! " Maybe we should put, won't punch you in the throat unless provoked, hehehe ![]() ![]() | |||
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"What about a profile makes you immediately say/think no thank you? A major one for us is... only play bareback. There is a beautiful single woman who often visits our profile, and she states that protection is stupid on her profile, and that is enough for us to pass on that mythological unicorn. Mrs. Xx No pics/just cock pics Will fill in later Dom/daddy etc Need to empty my balls type status I could go on...... ![]() Right! Oh, hello pussy destroyer, I was hoping someone would come along and try to ruin my beautiful vagina ![]() | |||
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"I don't bite unless you ask me too, hehehehe. Just, No! Maybe we should put, won't punch you in the throat unless provoked, hehehe ![]() ![]() Thats not a bad idea, altho just typing hehehehe makes my eye twitch! | |||
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"What about a profile makes you immediately say/think no thank you? A major one for us is... only play bareback. There is a beautiful single woman who often visits our profile, and she states that protection is stupid on her profile, and that is enough for us to pass on that mythological unicorn. Mrs. Xx No pics/just cock pics Will fill in later Dom/daddy etc Need to empty my balls type status I could go on...... ![]() ![]() Or. I will have you begging. You won't. You really really won't. | |||
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"Cut and paste spam mails that are clearly sent en masse. Nothing personal about you or your file. Anyone saying “can I ask you a question?” You just did, womble Anyone who messages “what yous up to” etc. all insta blocks (anyone who says ‘yous’ tbf haha)" I've had the same message from the same " female " 7 weeks running. I would normally block but I'm interested to see how long they persist. 🤷 | |||
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"What about a profile makes you immediately say/think no thank you?" My Profile does that without me typing anything lol... But as stated above "Will Fill in Later" after being Here for Months. | |||
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"I don't bite unless you ask me too, hehehehe. Just, No! Maybe we should put, won't punch you in the throat unless provoked, hehehe ![]() ![]() Funny what things can give is the ick in an instant ![]() | |||
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"What about a profile makes you immediately say/think no thank you? A major one for us is... only play bareback. There is a beautiful single woman who often visits our profile, and she states that protection is stupid on her profile, and that is enough for us to pass on that mythological unicorn. Mrs. Xx No pics/just cock pics Will fill in later Dom/daddy etc Need to empty my balls type status I could go on...... ![]() ![]() I won't even beg my husband, might get a bit stroppy if he denied me...who am I kidding, he doesn't deny me sex ![]() | |||
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"Any that mention breeding " Yeah....let's not and say we did ![]() | |||
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"The words "we are not looking for single men" instant block. We generally are hardly ever actively looking for single men, but now and again someone will catch my eye. Sometimes it can be a profile of a man who is nearby, or even a wink or random unsolicited message. You never know who or when someone will spark an interest. We can be a contradictory at times...we all have flaws ![]() Then you're lying in your profile which isn't a great start. | |||
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"The words "we are not looking for single men" instant block. We generally are hardly ever actively looking for single men, but now and again someone will catch my eye. Sometimes it can be a profile of a man who is nearby, or even a wink or random unsolicited message. You never know who or when someone will spark an interest. We can be a contradictory at times...we all have flaws ![]() You can call it lying if you like, you're welcome to your opinion. It does say in our profile that we will find you when the mood strikes. To us that means it's not something we regularly want, but do (on occasion) meet single men. You saying we are lying makes us think you didn't fully read our profile, or if you did, you didn't understand the information that was given. We've had loads of single men messaging asking if the mood has struck...they understand the assignment, and get full marks for reading our whole profile. Also, we have veri's from single men. Not many, (as it isn't our priority) but some men just catch my attention. | |||
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"Statuses that moan about being bored/everybody is fake/why dies nobody meet/soliciting illegal substances " 100% agree with this. Such a turn off. | |||
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"I’m not a fan of people saying they will fuck me better than Sean. We aren’t here because our sex life is lacking, we just want extra fun. " Absolutely!! Nobody is going to come close to making me feel the way my husband does. If you think you are...you can jog on. | |||
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"The words "we are not looking for single men" instant block. We generally are hardly ever actively looking for single men, but now and again someone will catch my eye. Sometimes it can be a profile of a man who is nearby, or even a wink or random unsolicited message. You never know who or when someone will spark an interest. We can be a contradictory at times...we all have flaws ![]() Not calling you liars but if anyone puts "we are not looking for single men" but they do meet single guys on their profile then they're lying. | |||
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"No photos Nothing about there self " I think profiles like like should not reach out in any kind of way. Just look and enjoy profiles and move on with your day. They can't seriously think someone going to take a shot in the dark and meet them with no info ![]() | |||
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"I’m not a fan of people saying they will fuck me better than Sean. We aren’t here because our sex life is lacking, we just want extra fun. " Exactly the same with us. We even had a message with someone demeaning Mr, like they thought Mrs would like that. Mrs does not like that! | |||
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"Old, or no, pictures. It’s not too much to ask to see pictures from within the last 12 months. Single guys who say they’re looking to cuck or humiliate. Not kink shaming, but it’s not for us. " The profiles that want you to perform like a circus act are a pet peeve. | |||
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"Not calling you liars but if anyone puts "we are not looking for single men" but they do meet single guys on their profile then they're lying." I'm not looking for more giant neon tentacle dildos, but if one that utterly appeals to me pops up in a sale when in in the right mood, you bet I'm buying it anyway. Still not looking for one though 💜 | |||
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"What about a profile makes you immediately say/think no thank you? A major one for us is... only play bareback. There is a beautiful single woman who often visits our profile, and she states that protection is stupid on her profile, and that is enough for us to pass on that mythological unicorn. Mrs. Xx" Same the bareback one for me as well and those that send random friends invites without chatting | |||
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"I’m not a fan of people saying they will fuck me better than Sean. We aren’t here because our sex life is lacking, we just want extra fun. Exactly the same with us. We even had a message with someone demeaning Mr, like they thought Mrs would like that. Mrs does not like that! " We had a cuck couple reach out once and happily chatting, then she says she wants me (Mrs.) sat in the corner with her husband while my husband fucks her and tells me how he likes fucking her more than me and her pussy so much better than mine, and so on. Ummmm...yeah.... no! That is y'all's kink, and that is perfectly fine, but that is definitely not for us. | |||
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"For us it’s 420, we’ve no interest in it, just our choice we don’t vilify those who do. " Yeah, lots of people out there going skiing, that's fine, your choice, but not for us. | |||
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"Not calling you liars but if anyone puts "we are not looking for single men" but they do meet single guys on their profile then they're lying. I'm not looking for more giant neon tentacle dildos, but if one that utterly appeals to me pops up in a sale when in in the right mood, you bet I'm buying it anyway. Still not looking for one though 💜" This woman gets it!! Thank you for the analogy, maybe they'll understand it that way. 🤣 | |||
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"Preferences. I mean it’s all good to say you do have a preference, but please just put that at the beginning as I have to read through the whole thing just to find out I am not your type 🤷♂️" To us it doesn't matter where in the profile certain information is located. I'm just happy they have actually given the information instead of a skeletal profile. | |||
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"Where do I start 😂 Gapping holes on photos Bare back photos Like to bare back Holes dripping with cum photos Words such as daddy, bull etc Reference to drugs or drug use No photos No veris Photos full of cocks " That seems to be the standard list plus text speak, and one/two word messages. | |||
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"Couples profiles that are all pictures of only one of them and not a mix of both. Anyone thats bareback only. The phrase "we are all here for the same thing". References to 420, snow or sesh MM profiles in general Dom, Bull, Top or anything similar " Never really given any thought to MM ( not actual MM couples but guys teaming up) until one said we were lying on this exact thread. Now that we recognize this MM dynamic, it is also a no thank you. | |||
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"No pics, No verifications, 1 word messages, Profiles with no info, Pics of just a cock, Cock pics taken over a toilet, Boring profiles with no info, If I have to lead the conversation.... the only place I'm leading it too, is my block list. I'm also a bit of a nightmare for zooming into the background of people's pictures too 🙈. Which often doesn't end well. " I forgot about the cock over the toilet pics....why!?! Just why!?! ![]() | |||
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"I forgot about the cock over the toilet pics....why!?! Just why!?! ![]() THIS^^^ 100% | |||
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"I forgot about the cock over the toilet pics....why!?! Just why!?! ![]() I watched a whole video of someone ejaculating earlier. Purely so I could try and work out what's on that workbench, is there something in that shredded cardboard box, what is that stain on the wall, what the fuck is that pile over there 💜 | |||
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"I forgot about the cock over the toilet pics....why!?! Just why!?! ![]() That is absolutely hilarious!!! | |||
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"*Worriedly checks own profile aftet reading this tread* 🙈 Agree with all of the above ... and the line "No way you're 50!!" Why would I lie about that? " God bless the people who say "you look great for your age" That is not the compliment they think it is 😂 | |||
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"*Worriedly checks own profile aftet reading this tread* 🙈 Agree with all of the above ... and the line "No way you're 50!!" Why would I lie about that? God bless the people who say "you look great for your age" That is not the compliment they think it is 😂" "No way you're 38!" Fuck off, if you think 38 is haggard and past it then I've got zero use for you 💜 | |||
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"*Worriedly checks own profile aftet reading this tread* 🙈 Agree with all of the above ... and the line "No way you're 50!!" Why would I lie about that? " This and I give the same response. 🤣 | |||
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"We may have too many close up pics after reading this haha " _xtrafun2, irresistible close up pics to fab ![]() | |||
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"Couples profiles that are all pictures of only one of them and not a mix of both. Anyone thats bareback only. The phrase "we are all here for the same thing". References to 420, snow or sesh MM profiles in general Dom, Bull, Top or anything similar Never really given any thought to MM ( not actual MM couples but guys teaming up) until one said we were lying on this exact thread. Now that we recognize this MM dynamic, it is also a no thank you. " That's why we blocked you. | |||
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"We may have too many close up pics after reading this haha " No, your pics are great, you can't cater for everyone. | |||
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"Only pictures are taken in bathroom, that’s not a red flag that’s just a no thank you!" 😂🤣 most of mine are in the bathroom, I have a busy home so that’s the only place I get privacy | |||
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"Couples profiles that are all pictures of only one of them and not a mix of both. Anyone thats bareback only. The phrase "we are all here for the same thing". References to 420, snow or sesh MM profiles in general Dom, Bull, Top or anything similar Never really given any thought to MM ( not actual MM couples but guys teaming up) until one said we were lying on this exact thread. Now that we recognize this MM dynamic, it is also a no thank you. That's why we blocked you." In my opinion that makes us all winners. Everybody is in agreement and happy. Happy fabbing fellas 😊 | |||
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