FabSwingers.com forum: Women. What Do You Want?

By (user no longer on site) OP
2 weeks ago

Afternoon all,

So I’m not technically “new” here. I’ve been on and off for a while and spat my dummy out a few months back due to lack of finding what I wanted, but I’m back and more interested than ever to have some fun.

So anyway. As a woman what makes you reply to a message (the ones you see anyway)? I get the ratio of men to women is well weighed in one way, but even so I find it very difficult to get a reply. I get the whole verification thing and some people won’t meet someone who isn’t, but how is a guy meant to get verified, if no one wants to meet, or even chat to get verified? I also get that everyone is different in terms of what they want, but come on! We’re all here for something similar aren’t we?

Rent over. Over to you lot 😝. Also if you recognise me and want to verify me again crack on. Any help is appreciated 😉

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By *itty69xWoman
2 weeks ago

all over

I reply if there’s an attraction basically 🤷🏼‍♀️

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By *_n_HCouple
2 weeks ago

donegal

We reply if it’s not a one word message dick pic , if you can’t hold a conversation on here what would make anyone think you could in person

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By *opedomMan
2 weeks ago

Hayle

Don't know if this helps but my reply ratio goes up the more thought I put into it. I think there's never a shortage of one sentence messages out there and if yr showing genuine interest then why not make some effort. That said, the most well thought out message often isn't even read, that's just how it goes. I've experience of having a couples and then a single male account. The difference is considerable and I can only imagine the constant bombardment that some single women get on here. So there is always that to remember before you let it get to you on a personal level.

Where I live, the pool is small and overfished, it is what it is. It just makes the meets you do get a bit more special.

Best of luck

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Central

Someone who is attractive to me, physically and their personality, has complementary interests, meeting arrangements, reliability etc all as a bare essential minimum.

My sexual interests will vary, so there's a moving target.

1% of people matching is perhaps a very optimistic expectation. OP - you need to have absolutely realistic expectations here and to be prepared to invest serious graft

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

Nowadays I reply if I feel like it. I know that sounds like a cop out but often I read a message and just have nothing to say in response that would in any way be useful or appropriate.

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By *aoirse NaughtyWoman
2 weeks ago

Cork

The majority of chats I ahbe had with single guys have started as exchanges on the forums, if a single guy messages me out of the blue I'll generally just deleate it without even reading

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By *elshdragon900Woman
2 weeks ago

Swansea

I’ll look at the profile before the message, if the profile has more than one sentence, that’s a good start, it has to state something about my profile to show you’ve read it, I don’t do face pics or dic pics, if there’s a good banter on the messages, that usually gives me a good indication if I’ll have a laugh on a social first xx

Enjoy xx

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
2 weeks ago

Leeds

I've just deleted my singles profile but if I liked the profile I'd reply unless it was a cock pic or some copy and paste shit.

Doesn't matter so much on the messages if I didn't like the profile I wouldn't respond.

Mrs

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't usually reply to profiles with the age range set between 18-99...just comes across as you'll fuck anything with a pulse.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'd reply if I liked their profile, pics and they weren't a million miles away.

I always reply when it's clear someone has read my profile too, even with a no thanks.

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By *aizyWoman
2 weeks ago

west midlands

Did you do a forum rant before you left last time OP?

To answer your question, I answer a msg if it catches my attention, hi's or can I ask you a question type msgs just get deleted, and before I answer a msg I always have a look at the profile.

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By *aoirse NaughtyWoman
2 weeks ago

Cork

"Did you do a forum rant before you left last time OP?

To answer your question, I answer a msg if it catches my attention, hi's or can I ask you a question type msgs just get deleted, and before I answer a msg I always have a look at the profile."

The "can I ask you a question" ones always gets me courious and then they always disappoint by asking something silly haha

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"Did you do a forum rant before you left last time OP?

To answer your question, I answer a msg if it catches my attention, hi's or can I ask you a question type msgs just get deleted, and before I answer a msg I always have a look at the profile.

The "can I ask you a question" ones always gets me courious and then they always disappoint by asking something silly haha"

I don't let them ask now lol, but in the past it was always do you mind if someone is cut or uncut!

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By *aizyWoman
2 weeks ago

west midlands

"Did you do a forum rant before you left last time OP?

To answer your question, I answer a msg if it catches my attention, hi's or can I ask you a question type msgs just get deleted, and before I answer a msg I always have a look at the profile.

The "can I ask you a question" ones always gets me courious and then they always disappoint by asking something silly haha"

They just annoy me, just ask me the question 🤬

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By *ndymac888Man
2 weeks ago

Dumbarton

"Did you do a forum rant before you left last time OP?

To answer your question, I answer a msg if it catches my attention, hi's or can I ask you a question type msgs just get deleted, and before I answer a msg I always have a look at the profile.

The "can I ask you a question" ones always gets me courious and then they always disappoint by asking something silly haha

They just annoy me, just ask me the question 🤬

Can I ask you a question ? 😜

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By *ootypleaserMan
2 weeks ago

New Brighton

I don't know about others but in my opinion this site is an ego booster for alot of members, you can read what they put up on their profile and you can match in everything there looking for but yet they won't answer back to a well thought out introduction or a simple hello and that's because there's shit load for them to choose from, it's a matter of keep going don't let it bug you out, I remember once I meet this woman in a club, we were all over each other, had her squirting like a fountain, she asked me to look her up here on fab stay in touch and all, I found her but could not contact her as I was to old

I think fab is like fishing, got to be prepared that even if you get a bite, might not catch the fish.

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By *aizyWoman
2 weeks ago

west midlands

"Did you do a forum rant before you left last time OP?

To answer your question, I answer a msg if it catches my attention, hi's or can I ask you a question type msgs just get deleted, and before I answer a msg I always have a look at the profile.

The "can I ask you a question" ones always gets me courious and then they always disappoint by asking something silly haha

They just annoy me, just ask me the question 🤬

Can I ask you a question ? 😜"

🥊

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By *tr8MrEMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"Did you do a forum rant before you left last time OP?

To answer your question, I answer a msg if it catches my attention, hi's or can I ask you a question type msgs just get deleted, and before I answer a msg I always have a look at the profile.

The "can I ask you a question" ones always gets me courious and then they always disappoint by asking something silly haha

They just annoy me, just ask me the question 🤬

Can I ask you a question ? 😜

🥊"

I can show him how it's done....grab your cheese grater, you've pulled 🤣🤣

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By *ndymac888Man
2 weeks ago

Dumbarton

Head pats and bum slaps mostly I’ve found 😉.

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