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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else think there not enough sex involved? I been a couple of times but cant get into it all.Find it bit boring. Agree or disagree?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Anyone else think there not enough sex involved? I been a couple of times but cant get into it all.Find it bit boring. Agree or disagree? "

I thought BDSM wasn't necessarily about sex or the act of penetration anyway.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It's not about sex but that can be involved... It's about many things including trust and power exchange.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah kk that explains it lol thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The clue is in the name - BDSM.

I wouldn;t go to a swinging club/party and complain that there wasn;t enough kink. While there is a cross over between the 2 scenes, I'm really not sure why you'd go to a BDSM party expecting lots of sex.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Sounds rather exciting to me, sex is not all about penetration.

It is so liberating giving your total trust to someone. Very sensual indeed.

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

We had plenty of sex at BDSM party's held+attended by kinksters who are also Swingers

BDSM partys which are held for 'kinky' play only:yes not much or no sex.We still have lots of fun as all the ropework,flogging,spanking etc is a great turn on for us and we just have sex when we go home

(susie)

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By *nttake2Couple
over a year ago

South

we like both aspects!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The clue is in the name - BDSM.

I wouldn;t go to a swinging club/party and complain that there wasn;t enough kink. While there is a cross over between the 2 scenes, I'm really not sure why you'd go to a BDSM party expecting lots of sex."

Its mainly due to the amount of porn than says it bdsm but all it is, is kinky sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had plenty of sex at BDSM party's held+attended by kinksters who are also Swingers

BDSM partys which are held for 'kinky' play only:yes not much or no sex.We still have lots of fun as all the ropework,flogging,spanking etc is a great turn on for us and we just have sex when we go home

(susie)"

We love nothing better than a good play scene in kink, then a good fuck for afters, our way of finishing a scene

though we have been frowned upon once or twice or doing this in open space lol

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Sounds rather exciting to me, sex is not all about penetration.

It is so liberating giving your total trust to someone. Very sensual indeed. "

Trust! you said it xx It takes a special, very special person to explore such games with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because BDSM isn't about sex, it's about expression and just because it's a practice of an erotic nature, doesn't mean it has to involve anything penetrative or even directly sexual.

Sex afterwards is extremely sensual and erotic, and very much a heightening of the act of sex.

There's much more to sex than just fucking.

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Something we are definately looking to do and tbh playing isn't paramount. The sexy people and their outfits, the horny energy it would create would suffice, taking the experience away back home to continue in our home.

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By *ild n NaughtyMan
over a year ago

south Cheshire

I'd not got to a Bdsm event for the sex as its not about that its about domination an submission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd not got to a Bdsm event for the sex as its not about that its about domination an submission "

Don't forget the fetishists who want to indulge their kinks (wearing rubber, masks, cross dressing), the voyeurs, the exhibitionists, the role players, and those who want to indulge in kinky NSA sex with different partners. BDSM parties are more than just submitting or dominating (the good ones anyway).

crystal

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

And for some BDSM is all about sex. maybe not penetration but sex all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took gina to first bdsm party on sat , she loved it , she found it more exciting than dogging and playing with couples , no sex was had , but she was flogged buy a women , and know is a convert ,

D&G x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first time I ever went to a proper BD SM club, there was no sex but I was converted, I found what I craved

Now though, there is sex afterwards, which is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The first time I ever went to a proper BD SM club, there was no sex but I was converted, I found what I craved

Now though, there is sex afterwards, which is amazing "

pretty much sums it up for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

k loves the exhibitionist nature of it, being restrained and then visible to all as we play. The fact they can see her squirm and 'dance' as the sensations take over her body gets her very wet.

I suppose it could be seen as same room fun, all those people playing in the same place all feeding off each others excitement.

I suppose it all depends on your definition of 'sex', if that to you is just penetration then I would agree there isn't much 'sex' but if you see sex as encompassing a lot more areas of intimate play, feelings and reactions, it could be said a lot of sex takes place at BDSM events

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