FabSwingers.com forum: 3 men and 1 woman

By *harmizard OP Man
10 weeks ago

London

Why is it so hard to organise a group meet these days? So many women on this site pretend they are interested and then either go quiet or stand you up when a hotel is booked. Any real ones out there that are serious ?

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By *aizyWoman
10 weeks ago

west midlands

I expect it is a fantasy for many women, but like me they wouldn't meet three men they didn't know, It is nerve wracking enough meeting one man for the first time, never mind three.

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By *harmizard OP Man
10 weeks ago

London

We always offer to go for a drink publicly first to see if the vibe is right etc. I just wonder why people aren’t upfront about being nervous if that’s the case rather than causing time wasting

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By *aizyWoman
10 weeks ago

west midlands

"We always offer to go for a drink publicly first to see if the vibe is right etc. I just wonder why people aren’t upfront about being nervous if that’s the case rather than causing time wasting "

Maybe they just enjoy the fantasy, think it is best meeting for a socail first before booking a hotel, that way if they don't turn up you haven't lost any money.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
10 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

Maybe you would have more luck with a cuck couple?

She would have her husband there for a bit of security.

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By *harmizard OP Man
10 weeks ago

London

It’s always an option

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10 weeks ago

"Why is it so hard to organise a group meet these days? So many women on this site pretend they are interested and then either go quiet or stand you up when a hotel is booked. Any real ones out there that are serious ?"

It would be a foolish woman who would meet 3 complete strangers for a group sex in a hotel. It's not safe for a lone female to do that. It's 3 against 1 if it went tits up and extremely hard for a female to protect herself in that situation. Most females looking for group sex will have at least one man they already know and trust present. What you are wanting is unrealistic. Basically are 3 guys that want any female you can get to share around between you. Obviously you aren't trustworthy because you don't even have an MM profile or info that you are MMM in your text, when clearly from your profile picture you are a group of men not a single male.

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By *xfordjohnMan
10 weeks ago

Oxford

Interesting as I've been asked by a woman to arrange exactly this, possibly at my house or a hotel. We haven't met yet but I do intend to meet socially first so we can be sure we don't find each other repulsive. But, yes, I'm half expecting this idea to fizzle out.

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By *andb69Couple
10 weeks ago

leeds

The serious ones go to clubs - it's safer, you can pick your men when you've seen them, and you can generally have as many as you like. I regular have 3 or 4 men when we go to a club.

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By *erbys_coupleCouple
10 weeks ago

Derby

The serious ones go to clubs - it's safer, you can pick your men when you've seen them, and you can generally have as many as you like. I regular have 3 or 4 men when we go to a club. "

Great point. OP just visit a GG night at a club

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By *issmorganWoman
10 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'd just echo what others have said op.

The majority of women wouldn't meet 3 strangers for sex. I appreciate you say you'd meet for a social first,maybe do that without the pressure of having a hotel booked, as that obviously causes expectations/pressure.

Also your profile isn't verified as a group profile, so maybe they think you're not all you're saying you are too and flake out.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
10 weeks ago

Norwich

Maybe just maybe you are being duped by men pretending to be women.

As others have said GG events at clubs offer a safer environment and more guarantee of not being let down.

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By *ordan39TV/TS
10 weeks ago

Leicester

I think would be fantastic but in a swingers club or somewhere safe

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