"Hi everyone, me and my partner (33F) have set up a new couples profile (obvs not this one), looking for single men. Still have it set to hidden, to avoid the barrage of messages, but are putting a lot of thought into our profile description.
We are planning on meeting a number of guys over the coming months, but want each guy she meets to be successively more experienced and with more stamina. This will mean opportunities for lots of different guys on here.
The reason being, she has only been with three men in her life, and only me for the past ten years. I suffer with pretty bad premature ejaculation, so her experience of sex is me cumming in less than a minute, and this has been the case for most of our relationship.
We don't want to go from that - to mindblowing sex over several hours with an experienced, fit, guy, straight away. Because where do we go from there? The bar will immediately be set very high, and her body probably won't be ready for it. Mentally, sex with less capable men might not be as satisfying for her after expeiencing that.
I know she would enjoy even just making out and touching with a new guy, given she's not been with many guys and is used to very mediocre quality in bed with me. At this point she won't mind if the meet is mostly kissing and foreplay, and he cums quickly (providing he ideally does his best to make her cum first).
We would greatly appreciate any tips on finding guys in this way. Should we explain this on the profile? Like: phase 1 - "we're looking for early cummers or virgins/inexperienced guys, lots of kissing and foreplay". Then once she's enjoyed meets like this, phase 2 would be something like - "younger guys with one or two decent verifications who can last a few minutes".
Eventually we would like her to meet with the upper echelons of Fab, the muscular hunks with stamina for days and tens of verifications. But only once she's enjoyed a wide spectrum of new guys with varying ability in the bedroom.
How would you recommend we describe this, and how would you recommend we search for guys for these first couple of phases? Obviously we don't want fakes. And guys without experience are hardly going to advertise that fact in their profile. We would prefer to do the searching/hunting ourselves rather than relying on only guys that message us.
Thanks for reading. I hope this plan makes sense, and wonder if any other hotwife couples have used this approach? Do you think it makes sense from a new hotwife perspective, given her limited experience?
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I think ultimately as long as you’re honest about what you’re looking for then you’ll get interest.
You’ll probably find that the vast majority of guys will fit the first couple of phases for you just fine!
Honestly, it would be really refreshing to know I’d not be expected to last for ages!  |
Got a couple of verifications on here if you want to look at them and some pics too
Hit me up if you want to find out more
Kevin 
