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Hotel meets first - good or bad?

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By *arparkquicky OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Harpenden

I personally often feel more nervous attending a hotel meet with new people for the first time. However I have set one up for Wednesday thinking people would feel more comfortable and wondering if it was the right thing to do. How do others feel about hotels for first meets?

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By *orseman82Man
3 weeks ago

Wiltshire

I guess it’s a neutral territory so it’s safer, either party don’t feel pressured and it’s less of an issue if there isn’t my chemistry and either party need to leave.

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By *aizyWoman
3 weeks ago

west midlands

If there is a bar that is great for a first meet, you can sit and have a drink and if you agree go upstairs to a room, if you're not feeling it, no hard feelings just have a drink and leave.

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By *arparkquicky OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Harpenden

Yes, I like that element.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
3 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane


"If there is a bar that is great for a first meet, you can sit and have a drink and if you agree go upstairs to a room, if you're not feeling it, no hard feelings just have a drink and leave."
^

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By *obajxMan
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

And if the person stands you up, you have a lovely quiet room to crack one out undisturbed

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By *im JomesMan
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

I don’t know about you but I love that you don’t have to care too much about the clean up if all goes well !

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By *arparkquicky OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Harpenden


"And if the person stands you up, you have a lovely quiet room to crack one out undisturbed"

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By *opedomMan
3 weeks ago

Hayle

I find noise levels an issue, even a good spanking can bring a knock at the door for sound levels. Rather an Airbnb where there's some privacy.

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By *midnight-Woman
3 weeks ago

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I think meeting someone for the first time is always nerve-wracking, regardless of the location.

As I female I feel safer going into a manned hotel and knowing I could scream for help if things went really tits up

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I'd prefer to meet in a close by pub/coffee shop then back to the hotel if all was well.

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By *uckus-MaximusMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester


"If there is a bar that is great for a first meet, you can sit and have a drink and if you agree go upstairs to a room, if you're not feeling it, no hard feelings just have a drink and leave."

Hotels too expensive if not meeting during the week.

Normal bar and if we like each other, back to hers or mine

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'd meet socially in the hotel bar, then take it futher if we both wanted to, after a couple of drinks and a chat.

I wouldn't go straight to someone's room, when we hadn't met socially first though.

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By *atty CoramWoman
3 weeks ago

Wimbledon

No expectations social first... to establish chemistry.

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By *hil most chillMan
3 weeks ago

London, South East & Europe

I usually only meet once I've chatted and built a rapport with someone, and we both have a good idea of what we both want. Regardless, I don't take anything for granted on the first meet, so a bar or coffee shop is always best, with a nearby hotel as an option if things go well.

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By *ral_lover55Man
3 weeks ago

Gravesend

I have a hotel booked this Thursday but it's second date, first always a social.

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By *yeSureMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *ycleguy300Man
3 weeks ago

Ely

Good.

Met a woman for a blind date type meet (we both had a rough idea having chatted for a month or so). She booked the hotel and told reception to give me a card when I got there. Went up and we had the most amazing afternoon!!

Great on neutral territory as we both felt at ease.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
3 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Personally being a single woman, I wouldn't meet anyone in a hotel, I value my safety to much, especially a room booked my a man.

I wouldn't know who or how many were in the room.

Also I don't particularly want all the staff knowing what I am up to.

Believe me from working in a hotel they know.

As for the that do the hotel walks be careful as by the time you go down for breakfast in the morning most of the guys would have seen the CCTV footage.

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