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By *cunthorpe123 OP   Couple
11 weeks ago

scunthorpe

So, we aren’t actively looking for single men but if they message respectfully, I try to at least respond with a polite no thank you.

But why do so many men try to act like they can out do Sean in the bedroom in the first message?? Like we’re here because Sean’s in some way lacking??

I adore sex with Sean, he knows exactly what buttons to press for me but I’m a dirty bitch and I want extra!

A lot of single men seem to assume we’re here because our sex life is lacking which is far from the case!

Donna

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By *ust want a smileMan
11 weeks ago

whitby

I would love to watch Sean make love to you and would wait to be invited to join in

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Maybe it comes down to porn influences. As in the slightest mention of a wife looking for more automatically means a hotwife and cuck scenario.

Or its inflated egos and a poor sense of reality?

Either way, there doesn't seem to be a shortage of them.

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By *exiiKa25Woman
11 weeks ago

City Centre

I hate when single men do that it's irritating, not here cause sex is lacking in relationship, here to explore with people and make friends and have some fun.. I'm part of a couple and we both play solo, feel free to check out profiles and dm if intrested.

I find alot of couples or women don't respond really either

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
11 weeks ago

Manchester

In my opinion I think a fair few of single men on here think that they are guaranteed sex on tap and misbehave. When they don't get what they want they create forums spouting nonsense then quit Fab. Unfortunately this makes interactions slightly harder for the respectful single types who actually want connection with people.

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By *exiiKa25Woman
11 weeks ago

City Centre


"In my opinion I think a fair few of single men on here think that they are guaranteed sex on tap and misbehave. When they don't get what they want they create forums spouting nonsense then quit Fab. Unfortunately this makes interactions slightly harder for the respectful single types who actually want connection with people."
agreed there is some nice single men on here and respectful too

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By *exiiKa25Woman
11 weeks ago

City Centre

I find women and couples are harder to get a response from

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By *otuseater11Man
11 weeks ago

kilwinning

Hiya would just like to say not all men are the same.there is definitely some decent guys on here that know how to conduct them selves in a proper matter

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

It's a good filter, those men have zero idea about swinging, just block and move on.

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By *aomilatteCouple
11 weeks ago

Midlands


"So, we aren’t actively looking for single men but if they message respectfully, I try to at least respond with a polite no thank you.

But why do so many men try to act like they can out do Sean in the bedroom in the first message?? Like we’re here because Sean’s in some way lacking??

I adore sex with Sean, he knows exactly what buttons to press for me but I’m a dirty bitch and I want extra!

A lot of single men seem to assume we’re here because our sex life is lacking which is far from the case!

Donna

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You're unlikely to get an answer to your question unfortunately. If you go to "Account", then "Message filters", you can block them from messaging.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
11 weeks ago

Coventry

Over our years on the scene we've found although lone men are numerous the right man is the true illusive unicorn (far more some than single ladies). Genuinely the only thing we find difficult on the scene to find is the right lone men.

I don't get how some guys think such tact and attitude will get them anywhere? Although I suspect they genuinely don't understand what they do and why their attitude and approach is problematic. Sometimes its like they put so much effort in trying to be what they think they should be than just coming genuinely as they are. Not realising just coming as a normal genuine human who is just comfortable in their own skin is far more attractive than the big I am. Personally though I prefer guys show their true colours from the off off though, makes it far easier to filter them out.

Futher to your point its's funny that some many men don't realise that even in a heterosexual male couple how they get on with and are perceived by the male is important. My Girl is everything to me, I'm not going to give the green light to any man I don't respect or I get bad vibes about or who doesn't respect both of us. Be that team encounter or a lone side mission for her. Futher more I know Mrs Misfit wouldn't have any intrest either and any disrespect or bad vibes is just an instant turn off for her.

On the bright side we've also found unicorns do exist (and often just find you when your not looking). Lone men who just get it and gel effortlessly into a couple dynamic (for 3some or a lone side mission) do exist, they're just few and far between.

Mr

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By *est_Yorkshire_GentMan
11 weeks ago

Leeds

I never understood this point of view from single guys! When I was on here as part of a couple there was no bigger turn off for my partner than those guys giving it the big speech about how much better they are

It’s about a single guy joining the fun and adding to it, not replacing anything

As others have said, how the 2 guys get on typically is the most important part of it all working out anyway

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