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By *pen2offersx OP   Couple
over a year ago

kettering

Please women - enlighten me and every other poor man that spends their life trying to express just how amazing their other half looks just to be told

'You never tell me I look good'

Why don't you bloody listen ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please women - enlighten me and every other poor man that spends their life trying to express just how amazing their other half looks just to be told

'You never tell me I look good'

Why don't you bloody listen ?????

"

Don't forget...

Does my ass look big in these jeans?

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By *pen2offersx OP   Couple
over a year ago

kettering


"Please women - enlighten me and every other poor man that spends their life trying to express just how amazing their other half looks just to be told

'You never tell me I look good'

Why don't you bloody listen ?????

Don't forget...

Does my ass look big in these jeans? "

Was going to suggest men listed more but figured it would happen anyway !

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Please women - enlighten me and every other poor man that spends their life trying to express just how amazing their other half looks just to be told

'You never tell me I look good'

Why don't you bloody listen ?????

"

Why don't you say it in a way that we understand? Or when you aren't after a shag? Or use words other than "ok", "nice" while staring at Match of The Day ?

Seriously though not all women are like this so pelase don't generalise

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Please women - enlighten me and every other poor man that spends their life trying to express just how amazing their other half looks just to be told

'You never tell me I look good'

Why don't you bloody listen ?????

Why don't you say it in a way that we understand? Or when you aren't after a shag? Or use words other than "ok", "nice" while staring at Match of The Day ?

Seriously though not all women are like this so pelase don't generalise "

Or have I got this wrong and you want us all to look at your wife and say how gorgeous she is? Because she is undoubtedly extremely good looking

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By *pen2offersx OP   Couple
over a year ago

kettering


"Please women - enlighten me and every other poor man that spends their life trying to express just how amazing their other half looks just to be told

'You never tell me I look good'

Why don't you bloody listen ?????

Why don't you say it in a way that we understand? Or when you aren't after a shag? Or use words other than "ok", "nice" while staring at Match of The Day ?

Seriously though not all women are like this so pelase don't generalise

Or have I got this wrong and you want us all to look at your wife and say how gorgeous she is? Because she is undoubtedly extremely good looking "

Nope - and I purposely used the word fantastic !!

I don't like football and I'm always after Sex so maybe I'm just being nice !

Ps - reality is she probably listens to other people more than me so shall pass on the compliment x

Is this a look at me quest ? No, but if it turns into one and she starts listening a little more then I will take it

Pps - not and avid forumite so be gentle

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

i listen to all my hubby's compliments and never use those whinging words!

We have noticed that some,not all!!,fem halfs of cpls indeed need constant reasurance throughout the night + during play from their guy + others.Found that constant fishing for compliments offputting

We like confident swingers and i think any bodyhang-ups are best left home when meeting others to play with

(susie)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Please women - enlighten me and every other poor man that spends their life trying to express just how amazing their other half looks just to be told

'You never tell me I look good'

Why don't you bloody listen ?????

Why don't you say it in a way that we understand? Or when you aren't after a shag? Or use words other than "ok", "nice" while staring at Match of The Day ?

Seriously though not all women are like this so pelase don't generalise

Or have I got this wrong and you want us all to look at your wife and say how gorgeous she is? Because she is undoubtedly extremely good looking

Nope - and I purposely used the word fantastic !!

I don't like football and I'm always after Sex so maybe I'm just being nice !

Ps - reality is she probably listens to other people more than me so shall pass on the compliment x

Is this a look at me quest ? No, but if it turns into one and she starts listening a little more then I will take it

Pps - not and avid forumite so be gentle "

ok I hear what you're saying and I am ALWAYS gentle .

I am the female half of this couple so my compliment was genuine and not hormone based .

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"i listen to all my hubby's compliments and never use those whinging words!

We have noticed that some,not all!!,fem halfs of cpls indeed need constant reasurance throughout the night + during play from their guy + others.Found that constant fishing for compliments offputting

We like confident swingers and i think any bodyhang-ups are best left home when meeting others to play with

(susie)"

Yep agree!

Not all women are insecure about how they look and in need of constant reasurance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never asked a man how I look, or asked does my bum look big in this.

I do have a big bum though.

I do however, ask my friends when going shopping there opinion as I am really bad of impulse buying and loving something in the shop, then taking it home and not loving it all.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"i listen to all my hubby's compliments and never use those whinging words!

We have noticed that some,not all!!,fem halfs of cpls indeed need constant reasurance throughout the night + during play from their guy + others.Found that constant fishing for compliments offputting

We like confident swingers and i think any bodyhang-ups are best left home when meeting others to play with

(susie)"

And they are appearing more and more in the forums too: very ugly this neediness. They must be right nightmares to live with!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"i listen to all my hubby's compliments and never use those whinging words!

We have noticed that some,not all!!,fem halfs of cpls indeed need constant reasurance throughout the night + during play from their guy + others.Found that constant fishing for compliments offputting

We like confident swingers and i think any bodyhang-ups are best left home when meeting others to play with

(susie)"

agreed....

Screams insecurity to me....

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian


"i listen to all my hubby's compliments and never use those whinging words!

We have noticed that some,not all!!,fem halfs of cpls indeed need constant reasurance throughout the night + during play from their guy + others.Found that constant fishing for compliments offputting

We like confident swingers and i think any bodyhang-ups are best left home when meeting others to play with

(susie)

agreed....

Screams insecurity to me...."

you right,it does.

(susie)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a big bum too - and it's out and proud!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men don't even think just take for granted that you made the effort . There may be needy women out there but there's also thoughtless men

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