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By *irtyDiamonds OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

High Wycombe

So we are a very secure couple who share everything and talk openly about our sexual lifestyle with no repercussions or judgement

We have played over the years with Single Females, couples, single guys and TS/TV

I, Mrs D usually does the messaging, but Mr D is with me, we both like the naughtiness of the not normal scenario of having fun with older guys or guys who think they don’t fit the criteria, and those not necessarily gym fit, for us it’s doing the unexpected and not what people expect, it turns us both on knowing that the guy also knows it’s wrong but can’t resist playing, we don’t choose race or body type but mental stimulation in the initial message

Mr D is straight but has no issues in close contact and he and I get more turned on seeing the other one turned on, as I have seeing him with another female, we only ever play together as it just wouldn’t work being apart

We love spontaneous quick meets where I am blindfolded despite having spoken to the person

Unfortunately people skirt around what they like for fear of offending or too direct, yet our messages are private and, even though we may not agree with their fantasies we still don’t judge

We know it’s not for everyone but it does seem to be quite frowned upon by some because it’s outside the norm in the scene

So what are your thoughts?

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By *eonCMan
4 weeks ago

Romsey

Not judging either but I read many profiles that are also very vanilla and wonder if that's normal or they are hiding kinks too

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By *apkingMan
4 weeks ago

Stockport

Some people skirt around then there is me calling myself _apking even tho I have never done double anal pen. But it’s up there on my things I would like to do

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By *irtyDiamonds OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

High Wycombe

Thoughts are people play it safe to maximise responses and too worried about wanting attention; rather than thinking it’s about sex not connections.. it should be about meets that fulfil needs for everyone.. not just to have a meet..

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By *apkingMan
4 weeks ago

Stockport

I think especially for single guys on here they have to be like that. If mine was to say I want to fuck your girl preferably with another cock or two at the same time… chances of getting a reply from someone would be slim to none

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By *opedomMan
4 weeks ago

Hayle


"Thoughts are people play it safe to maximise responses and too worried about wanting attention; rather than thinking it’s about sex not connections.. it should be about meets that fulfil needs for everyone.. not just to have a meet.."

If yr not fulfilling yr needs then what's the point.

People are here to fulfill their needs, in whatever form they take. It should be a judgement free environment but that's never quite the case.

Risky sex can be done fairly safely, whatever, you shouldn't have to explain yrselves or be made to feel guilty for what turns you on.

Fill yr boots. 🤣🤣

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'm struggling to see why what you describe is wrong.

I think lots of people very clearly say what they want and set about achieving it. It's possible that some will be a bit reticent about opening up because they're trying to be all things to all people but you can easily spot them

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By *irtyDiamonds OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

High Wycombe

But then is better to wait for right people to play with for quality or have meets that don’t meet needs for all? Quality first always..

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