FabSwingers.com forum: Are some Fab profile names off putting?

By *erbys_couple OP Couple
12 weeks ago

Derby

Because we think so!

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By *alloSpaceboyMan
12 weeks ago

The Fortress of Solitude

I agree.

The overly coarse ones imply a lack of imagination or eroticism.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
12 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

We have deleted a message or three because we couldnt get past the username.

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By *w funwifeWoman
12 weeks ago

near taunton

yes very much so .

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By *erbys_couple OP Couple
12 weeks ago

Derby

Glad to hear it’s not just us

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By *andalustCouple
12 weeks ago

Guildford

Yes. Some profile names can be very off putting

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By *orphia2003Woman
12 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Yes, some aren't appealing to me, but we are all different and it acts as a good filter.

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By *issmorganWoman
12 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Yep any overly crude ones or the 50 shades, daddy references put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Yes, definitely. There's certain words we just won't entertain at all either in the user name or if the bio goes gown a certain path.

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By *eeshelleTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Marlow

Some of them definitely give you an idea of their IQ, I think

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By *tr8MrEMan
12 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

I think some profiles are off putting regardless of name!!

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By *r-Mrs BackagainCouple
12 weeks ago

Perthshire

100% there are some names which are so cringe you just wouldn't even look at the profile . They don't do themselves any favours.

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By *erbys_couple OP Couple
12 weeks ago

Derby

"I think some profiles are off putting regardless of name!!"

Not really what the forum post was about…

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By *erbys_couple OP Couple
12 weeks ago

Derby

"100% there are some names which are so cringe you just wouldn't even look at the profile . They don't do themselves any favours. "

Absolutely!

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By *ineapplePixie69!Couple
12 weeks ago

Neverland/Wales

Yes definitely, and the wording in some profiles too 🤨

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By *rStroker69Man
12 weeks ago

…

Haha I don’t know what you’re on about

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By *ust want fun 888Man
12 weeks ago

nearby

"Haha I don’t know what you’re on about

I hope mine is okay, pretty straight to the point but not offensive I don’t think

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By *oughnutandDanishCouple
12 weeks ago

Ware, Hertfordshire

Just out of interest what do people think of ours ? Xx

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By *rStroker69Man
12 weeks ago

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I really wouldn’t worry too much, they’re both fine. It’s a name..some are tongue in cheek, some are crass, some are just random but is that not similar to the whole of fab? What will we be put off by next? Inadequate URLs?

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By *alahadLadMan
12 weeks ago

Pembs

I find certain types of usernames annoying because they often fall under stereotypes:

"MrWillyandMrsFanny": Childish names make me cringe so hard! Their latest photos are from 2016, which are so zoomed in it stops being sexual. But they'll make their daily status some cheesy sex joke straight out of a Carry On film

"HornyHubbyandTheMrs": I can't stand hubby as a term of endearment. Will usually have a couples profile, but the other name will be something like "Just M". But will still imply the wife reads the messages.

"KnickerSmeller73": One note fetish accounts that will let you know exactly what their fetish is. You get one of these in your inbox asking how you are. You'll never guess where the conversation leads to, two messages later. Stop projecting your kinks onto me!

Apologies for the rant, thank you for coming to my TED talk

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By *each needs some creamWoman
12 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I am not that shallow and petty.

What is on their profile bio and pictures may.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
12 weeks ago

Stoke

We don't care! 🤣

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By *rStroker69Man
12 weeks ago

…

"We don't care! 🤣 "

Welcome my shamed friends

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By *r.EdibleMan
12 weeks ago

Fraserburgh

"We don't care! 🤣 "

I would say your user name was a pretty fair assessment, so no one can really complain about it

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By *rivate_userMan
12 weeks ago

Near by

Is mine off putting? Very intrigued

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By *ndymac888Man
12 weeks ago

Dumbarton

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By *rivate_userMan
12 weeks ago

Near by

Aw man... a deleted post after mine doesn't do too much for mu ego

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By *ubikslongswordMan
12 weeks ago

Rubiksville

I hope my name isn't off putting but yes there are some that make me not talk to them

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By *ineapplePixie69!Couple
12 weeks ago

Neverland/Wales

"We don't care! 🤣

I would say your user name was a pretty fair assessment, so no one can really complain about it

And yours fits pretty well too 😈

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By *rtwisted98Man
12 weeks ago

Market harborough

It's just a name really I guess I don't know mine may come across off putting for some people. There are some usernames I look at and think mmm but I try look past it. It's no pictures or a one liner bio I find off putting.

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By *RcplSldnCouple
12 weeks ago

London

We quite like when they mention being "Alpha", "Bull" or "Lone Wolf." Saves time figuring out what sort of person they are.

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By *alahadLadMan
12 weeks ago

Pembs

"We quite like when they mention being "Alpha", "Bull" or "Lone Wolf." Saves time figuring out what sort of person they are."

I can't believe I forgot this one when I was coming up with stereotypes! They say they're a Dom, but really they just don't like being told no

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By *isterMushroomMan
12 weeks ago

Warrington

Is mine off putting?

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By *RcplSldnCouple
12 weeks ago

London

"Is mine off putting?"

Not to us.

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By *RcplSldnCouple
12 weeks ago

London

"We quite like when they mention being "Alpha", "Bull" or "Lone Wolf." Saves time figuring out what sort of person they are.

I can't believe I forgot this one when I was coming up with stereotypes! They say they're a Dom, but really they just don't like being told no "

Also, shit in bed. They think having a big cock means they are dynamite lovers.

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By *eeshelleTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Marlow

I've just been viewed by 6inch slut tamer, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Absolutely

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
12 weeks ago

Coventry

Yes some are.

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
12 weeks ago

scunthorpe

Our name is terrible, we joined one night after a few drinks, fully expecting not to come back so used the first thing that came to us 🙈

so we really can’t judge others

Donna

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By *immers123Woman
12 weeks ago

South Molton

Yeah. Like I'll make you squirt or one was something like one time only. That put me off

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

I wouldn't say "off putting" but some unimaginative and crass profile names serve as a useful repellent. I keep away from them.

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By *osweet69Couple
12 weeks ago

portsmouth

Yes they do,but they are getting meets so its a case of one mans meat is another mans poison.

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By *dventuresofLandSCouple
12 weeks ago

Lincoln

Unfortunately yes, although we really shouldn't judge a book by its cover. It's hard not too with some names.

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By *amsubMan
12 weeks ago

hyde

User name doesn’t bother me it’s just a name

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By *ere4It3000Couple
12 weeks ago

Belgium

Haven’t been put off by one yet, ours is not the most original either 🤣

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By *avexxMan
12 weeks ago

cheshire

nobody uses dave

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By *teveanddebsCouple
12 weeks ago

Norwich

We always use the "could you shout the name across a crowded bar" test.

"Hey Slutfucker_vwe, no ice in the vodka please"

Although we do know some pubs no one would bat an eyelid.

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By *riel13Woman
12 weeks ago

Northampton

Yep

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
12 weeks ago

Somewhere Only We Know

There are no second chances when it comes to first impressions. I find them incredibly off putting or extremely arrogant. #1 Filter.

Mr x

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
12 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

"Also, shit in bed. They think having a big cock means they are dynamite lovers."

Size isn't EVERYTHING you know...

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
12 weeks ago

Norwich

Sure ours puts some off, but then it’s done its job I guess. If it’s not for you then they don’t have to look.

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By *adbodguyMan
12 weeks ago

Dublin

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By *hilled_CplCouple
12 weeks ago

Exeter

Yeah, anything with Dom or Bull in tend to get deleted immediately for us.

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By *oralltherightreasonsCouple
12 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

Yeap very much so

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By *alahadLadMan
12 weeks ago

Pembs

"We always use the "could you shout the name across a crowded bar" test.

"Hey Slutfucker_vwe, no ice in the vodka please"

Although we do know some pubs no one would bat an eyelid. "

This is a really good way of determining it!

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
12 weeks ago

Worcestershire

We totally agree some usernames make us steer clear

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
12 weeks ago

Kent/London/Greater London

Yes some defo are, I was advised by a guy when I first joined here to watch out for usernames, Sometimes you can tell alot by the name they choose like say for instance Hammerdom666 or Butcherevil

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By *BWmetalcouple666Couple
12 weeks ago

houghton

I’m sure ‘c*ntpuncher3000’ is a lovely guy in person.

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
12 weeks ago

Kent/London/Greater London

"Yep any overly crude ones or the 50 shades, daddy references put me off. "

^^^^^^^

This too, anything with Mr Grey in it, big no for me

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
12 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

We are all for a cheeky name, but guys messaging us called stuff like BBWSLUTFUCKER or whatever are a turn off. Double for usernames that let you know they are bell endowed or what inches they have.

Also anything with Dom or Bull. Apologies to guys called Dominic.

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
12 weeks ago

Bristol

Oh yes, there's some messages that have come in and the name alone has put me off before I've even read the message

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
11 weeks ago

Portstewart

We would agree op personally for us there are some profile names and we're think why on earth did they call themselves that and usually they get added to the block list immediately so we don't have to chance our paths cross

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By *ou only yolo onceCouple
11 weeks ago

Shropshire

I sometimes worry people don't realise ours is deliberately incorrect

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Some of the names are soo degrading you have to ask yourself really you would call yourself that ???

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By *otsossieMan
11 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Sorry

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By *eyeYCouple
11 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Some, the especially crude one's.. But if they're attractive and fun, we can look past a name.. 😉😘

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By *ustincider888Man
11 weeks ago

Preston Ish

Some names definitely have that "swipe left" look about them

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