FabSwingers.com forum: Female Dom advice

By *ositiveVibes OP Woman
12 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

This isn’t really a “swinger’s” issue but figured this was the best place

Long story short I have a fwb who is quite submissive… he can very much switch but he loves a woman to take control and dominate him…

I’m so new to being more dominant that I’m really struggling…. I’m happy to try new things and I know it’s not something I can just pick up overnight… but he’s challenged me to come up with 3 scenarios I’d like to try with me dominating him sexually…

Could anyone help me with this… not specifically asking for people to write me a scenario (although ya know… if ya wanna) but just give me advice so I can put together something in my mind that I actually want to try and can put it out there to him.

Thanks!

By *pontaneous_coupleCouple
12 weeks ago

Hoddesdon

I’ve had my struggles with this especially as it doesn’t feel natural to me, but I’ve picked up that , using for own pleasure for however long it takes is hot for them, punishments and rewards and being selfish, one scenario could be pampering you and pleasing you in the bath, depends on how they are submissive and what the fantasy and boundaries are xx

By *ositiveVibes OP Woman
12 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

He’s not very forthcoming with exactly what kind of play he wants… it very much isn’t natural for me, I’m the throw me around and hog tie me kinda woman… but he makes the effort to do that for me so returning it is definitely needed and who knows… it could be really fun

By *otgirl32Woman
12 weeks ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Here's a couple

1. Come home with a lover's spunk in you. Ring him in advance to be naked at home and ready for you. Walk in, command him to be on his knees and tell him to clean you up then cum-kiss you

2. Tell him to walk in and "find" you in bed with a FWB, strip and watch you

By *d4funtimesMan
12 weeks ago

Cambridge

Tie his wrists and ankles, blindfold him, cover his mouth with a gag, lub his bum while playing with your fingers inside him, then peg him or use your dildo until he cums.