FabSwingers.com forum: Too old for clubs?

By *ill and Ben69 OP Couple
6 weeks ago

Worcestershire

We haven’t been to a club together (male has been with previous partner), and wondered if it would be awkward being so much older than the average club-goers, who seem to be in their 40s? Would it bother you having oldies around?

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By *ick1111Man
6 weeks ago

Near Spalding

Watching this post closely.

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
6 weeks ago

South Wales

I find clubs are welcoming to people of all ages. We’re all there to mingle, chat and have fun regardless of age xx 😘

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
6 weeks ago

Stoke

"I find clubs are welcoming to people of all ages. We’re all there to mingle, chat and have fun regardless of age xx 😘 "

Agree with this 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Iv been in the club and people over 65 be there! Your fine, go have fun

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By *nebworthMan
6 weeks ago

Knebworth

"We haven’t been to a club together (male has been with previous partner), and wondered if it would be awkward being so much older than the average club-goers, who seem to be in their 40s? Would it bother you having oldies around? "

You are both welcome to any of my parties anytime.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
6 weeks ago

Cardiff

Go I’d say enjoy the experience of a club

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By *icecouple561Couple
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6 weeks ago

East Sussex

The oldest person we spoke to at Eureka was 82. So if say no, you're not too old

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By *eed.a.signalMan
6 weeks ago

Local

Get yourself to one, just the nerves playing up

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By *hat.coupleCouple
6 weeks ago

Dartford

Go for it!, we are regulars at a few clubs and generally all ages are welcome. Age is just a number after all

Mrs x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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6 weeks ago

East Sussex

I would say that if anyone is bothered by having older people around that's on them. We're allowed to be seen out, take up space and do things we want to do.

As my 98 year old dad says "you have to live until you die". If you really think about that he's right.

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By *ibby_cd2TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Leicester

I'm on the opposite side of this

Before I went to one I was slightly put off as I'd probs it was looking like I was the youngest one there by at least 10ish years

But when I went everyone was super nice and welcoming

So I doubt youre too old to a club

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By *lipy123TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Birmingham

Just go chill out and enjoy

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By *cottish guy 555Man
6 weeks ago

London

"Just go chill out and enjoy

Great advice. I know lots of people who are older than I who enjoy clubs. A certain gentleman celebrated his 71st birthday last week at a club being spoilt by 9 ladies.

He's a lucky old bugger.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

ill say one thing thats to me makes a club night a very good club night and i truly mean this the best nights are when the club is totally mixed ie all shapes n sizes all age groups all sex's and str8 bi gay trans tv/cd all cultures and thenall kinks/sexual preference/play those nights are normally magical.

i cant stand clubs /parties/nights that are hand picked to suit a certain size or age.

so older swingers are essential to this scene and our clubs and are respected and loved by many

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By *utualMan
6 weeks ago

Bawtry

"ill say one thing thats to me makes a club night a very good club night and i truly mean this the best nights are when the club is totally mixed ie all shapes n sizes all age groups all sex's and str8 bi gay trans tv/cd all cultures and thenall kinks/sexual preference/play those nights are normally magical.

i cant stand clubs /parties/nights that are hand picked to suit a certain size or age.

so older swingers are essential to this scene and our clubs and are respected and loved by many "

Well said - I could not agree more!

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By *pforanything22Man
6 weeks ago

March

I was in a club in Leicester, two females 71 and 74 in the afternoon chatting up the man, he was about 35 and she said well are you going to take me to a private room and he noddy yes and she said can my mate join in as well. Bless them x

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
6 weeks ago

Dudley...kinda

Older swingers are the backbones of local swinging communities.

So yes, absolutely welcome.

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By *evonFbsCouple
6 weeks ago

Devon

Lots in our local club scene in their 70s.

Always welcome and fun to be around

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
6 weeks ago

Coventry

Mid 60s if definitely not too old. You maybe be a less numerous demographic on the club scene but theres still a fair few in your age range (and probably more represented than those in their 20s). In our time on the club scenes we've meet some awesome people 60+. And we know there are some 70+ on the club scene. I think like us most people don't really consider age, they just take people as they find them and are attracted to who they're attracted to. So if you want to go to a club don't waste any time and go. You will be very welcome.

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By *ill and Ben69 OP Couple
6 weeks ago

Worcestershire

Thanks for so many thoughtful and encouraging replies.

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By *itty9899Man
6 weeks ago

Craggy Island

"I find clubs are welcoming to people of all ages. We’re all there to mingle, chat and have fun regardless of age xx 😘 "

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By *ouple2playCouple
6 weeks ago

Solihull

Never too old and it’s great to have clubs with a mix of people, including ages - they would be boring if everybody was the same. And agree that they are welcoming to all and probably less intimidating than other scenarios. Hope to see you at one soon! x

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By *andb69Couple
6 weeks ago

leeds

I guess it depends upon how you present yourselves. We still enjoy the clubs and rarely leave without a few successful encounters, often with much younger people. S is particularly popular with the younger guys.

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