FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Soft play

Jump to newest
 

By *asps OP   Man
12 weeks ago

dundee

Speaking to a great couple last nite who are looking to spice up there lives ... they want to start with soft play not swapping fully ..when I asked how far is soft play as every one's boundaries are different. They didn't know and hadn't really discuses it ... I advised before any play with anyone they talk to each other first .... what are your boundaries when it comes to soft play ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *heonixrising500Man
12 weeks ago

Barnsley

Anything up to penitration

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss DevilWoman
12 weeks ago

Bedford

Basically, soft play = foreplay, in most cases. So everything apart from sticking your cock in one of them for anal or vaginal sex. But yes, do get them to discuss boundaries as some couples, for example, don't kiss anyone but their own partners.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *asps OP   Man
12 weeks ago

dundee

Yeah I think k they think soft play is more bit kissing and a bit of touching. Don't think they know just how far soft play covers

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss DevilWoman
12 weeks ago

Bedford


"Yeah I think k they think soft play is more bit kissing and a bit of touching. Don't think they know just how far soft play covers "

Maybe you can help them decide, and set clear boundaries then, by listing the activities and asking if they'd be ok with those or not. I'd say it's much better to set the boundaries before the meet than do something at the meet they're not comfortable with. If they are a new-ish couple, they may not know how far they'd be happy to go.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"Basically, soft play = foreplay, in most cases. So everything apart from sticking your cock in one of them for anal or vaginal sex. But yes, do get them to discuss boundaries as some couples, for example, don't kiss anyone but their own partners. "

This☝️☝️

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *r.EdibleMan
12 weeks ago

Fraserburgh

Can't really see the point in it myself, but I would say it's fingering, oral and kissing.

Why would you bother 🤷‍♂️ I can understand doing soft play at a party where harder stuff us going on and you want an introduction or just something light. But to actually arrange a meet with a couple to soft swap seems crazy to me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *cottish guy 555Man
12 weeks ago

London

It might seem crazy to you, but it's a lot of fun.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
12 weeks ago

Stoke

It's like going to McDonald's for a salad!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"It's like going to McDonald's for a salad! "

Pahahahahaha

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *londie 777Couple
12 weeks ago

Brighton

As a soft swap couple as very new we allow everything but sex. But we all have our own bonderies and enjoyment I guess

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *veragecouple2000Couple
12 weeks ago

South Wales

I would say it’s everything except penetration……however lots of couples have different boundaries with kissing etc. it’s a conversation that’s definitely needed between them before considering a meet. If they don’t know their boundaries then the person they’re meeting won’t either xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eautyabcCouple
12 weeks ago

bridgend

Boundaries are important and we can’t stop looking at your profile

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *asps OP   Man
12 weeks ago

dundee


"Boundaries are important and we can’t stop looking at your profile "

Why ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ccasional.coupleCouple
12 weeks ago

midlands, but travel to clubs

We are supersoft, as in we are happy to play in rooms with others, and only have light touching. Not even oral swap

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *asps OP   Man
12 weeks ago

dundee

Had a good chat with the couple that I was on about ... tho I kept my original profile I only come on here if I have another half or im single but been on here nearly 20 years and have a good understanding of swinging etc. The couple came in to this blind almost. I don't think they really sat down. Talked about the whole swinging etc let alone playing ...talking to them and letting them read reply to this topic has really opened there eyes. ... I told them to take a few weeks away from here and talk to each other first. Some times fantsay is better than real thing

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *cunthorpe123Couple
12 weeks ago

scunthorpe

We met a fantastic soft swap couple. Before we met, we discussed their boundaries.

For our meet, everything was ok until penetration.

That was fine for us and we still had a fantastic time

Donna

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top