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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know everyone gripes about messages not being replied to but we find messages not being read the most irritating. We often send a couple a message and they do not read it even though they have been online several times.

Reading messages is the first thing we do so we find it puzzling why some couples go on but never read their messages.

Any thought?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Do they never read the message or come on to the site several times before they open it? Some couples might save all the messages to read when they're both present but log on separately throughout the day.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

We don't always read messages straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't read very quickly, I log on and come to the forums, without even looking at my account page.

I sit and deal with my inbox when I am in the right mood, otherwise I'd just delete all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they havent got ti your message yet

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I always look at the profile first, if they have cut and pasted out of that....I delete

And I look at the pictures...... Cus I'm kinky. Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a bit of abuse over this and ive only recently realised that my phone stays logged in even if my internet browser isnt open. This could be the case for others

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By *adkatWoman
over a year ago

Alfreton


"I have a bit of abuse over this and ive only recently realised that my phone stays logged in even if my internet browser isnt open. This could be the case for others "

I get that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a bit of abuse over this and ive only recently realised that my phone stays logged in even if my internet browser isnt open. This could be the case for others

I get that x"

Mine must do that aswell. I'm not on here perving 24/7 honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or if it's a short message they can see all they need to in the preview without flagging it as read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know everyone gripes about messages not being replied to but we find messages not being read the most irritating. We often send a couple a message and they do not read it even though they have been online several times.

Reading messages is the first thing we do so we find it puzzling why some couples go on but never read their messages.

Any thought?"

People use the site as they please and can respond to messages if and when they choose. I find the idea of knowing that someone has logged on several times quite odd and stalkerish but each to their own.

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By *at2Couple
over a year ago

north Down

We log in and out separately through out the day and usually leave the messages to the evening to read through together also we tend to not read and delete one liners mostly from single guys and people being rude as you can read a bit of the MSG before opening it ....

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By *at2Couple
over a year ago

north Down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mobile (sam gal) logs me in automatically when I walk into a recognised wifi

My handbag is the biggest perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do this all the time

I have at this moment messages that are unread and have been for 2 days. I've been on and off the forums for short periods over those 2 days.

The reason I do it is because I just can't be arsed to read them. There's no other hidden meaning behind it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we send messages we forget about it until we get a reply. We certainly wouldn't be checking how many times they've logged on since! Touch of bunny boiling there lol.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I know everyone gripes about messages not being replied to but we find messages not being read the most irritating. We often send a couple a message and they do not read it even though they have been online several times.

Reading messages is the first thing we do so we find it puzzling why some couples go on but never read their messages.

Any thought?"

yep... i wish they would get rid of the message unread/read/deleted options... so fixated about how others go about their swinging

If people are getting upset or ulcers over the trivial things... I would hate to see how some deal with the big stuff in life........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh I can relate so well to threads like this

Never understand it myself, as soon as that little box goes yellow I read and reply.

Really gets me down when people delete or ignore a polite message.

Even a no thanks isn't a lot to ask for in this day and age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know everyone gripes about messages not being replied to but we find messages not being read the most irritating. We often send a couple a message and they do not read it even though they have been online several times.

Reading messages is the first thing we do so we find it puzzling why some couples go on but never read their messages.

Any thought?"

Time is precious for many, they may be chatting to people on line that they are looking to meet shortly and prioritise giving attention and time to them. Unopened is not looked at yet, its someone's choice and if it bothers you then the best bet is to block the people who don't reply or alternatively respect their choice as to how they conduct their profile and deal with messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahh I can relate so well to threads like this

Never understand it myself, as soon as that little box goes yellow I read and reply.

Really gets me down when people delete or ignore a polite message.

Even a no thanks isn't a lot to ask for in this day and age"

How many messages a day do you get though? Couples and single ladies can easily get dozens a day. I saw a new single female profile the other day and she'd had 97 messages in 3 minutes! There's no way anyone can reply to that.volume of messages without a full time secretary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get many though so yeah that's why I check them so quickly,

I see your point, it's true that new single ladies do get absolutely tormented on here, but then there are times when you can just tell that the other person is just ignoring you too

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