FabSwingers.com forum: Whe you lost your perfect sexual match...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

.... is it worth having sex again?

(ooooh sounds deep... or depressing!

in fact the real question is: have you ever met you perfect sexual match?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes and so far still meeting him regularly

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

yes

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By *xxmale76xxxMan
over a year ago

inverness

i have, and we still mess around every now and agian. neither one of us have had better sex with anyone else. but it just didnt work out for us i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and fell in Love with him

Alas in ended because of circumstances beyond our control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same. He doesn't want me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes and fell in Love with him

Alas in ended because of circumstances beyond our control

Seems to be the case most of the time unfortunately...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

".... is it worth having sex again?

(ooooh sounds deep... or depressing!

in fact the real question is: have you ever met you perfect sexual match?)"

I thought so...not so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but for many reasons it didn't work out. sob

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

Yes for me too and fell in love with him too! Turns out he was a big fat liar and his head was turned by something else!

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

There was a line in Desperate Housewives: Don't ruin good sex with a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There was a line in Desperate Housewives: Don't ruin good sex with a relationship.

Ain't that the truth

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

Currently having the best sex I've ever had and very very happy about it

I'm hoping that it continues but if not, c'est la vie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There was a line in Desperate Housewives: Don't ruin good sex with a relationship.

Totally agree with that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Currently having the best sex I've ever had and very very happy about it

I'm hoping that it continues but if not, c'est la vie"

Rock on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have. Me and my man are so compatible....never knew sex could be so amazing

we have the same fetishes to go with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes and fell in Love with him

Alas in ended because of circumstances beyond our control

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Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There was a line in Desperate Housewives: Don't ruin good sex with a relationship.

Which is why I now have a lovely FWB and we both know where we stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yes of course its worth having sex again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And yes of course its worth having sex again

In that case, I want to make a public announcement:

I am currently looking for the perfect sexual match.... Feel free to apply

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By *exykirstyWoman
over a year ago

North of Manchester

"I have. Me and my man are so compatible....never knew sex could be so amazing

we have the same fetishes to go with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There was a line in Desperate Housewives: Don't ruin good sex with a relationship.

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By *adkatWoman
over a year ago

Alfreton

"Yes for me too and fell in love with him too! Turns out he was a big fat liar and his head was turned by something else!"

Yep that's the one and he's now back on here with a different name but same pictures, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And yes of course its worth having sex again

In that case, I want to make a public announcement:

I am currently looking for the perfect sexual match.... Feel free to apply

Your 25

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And yes of course its worth having sex again

In that case, I want to make a public announcement:

I am currently looking for the perfect sexual match.... Feel free to apply

Your 25

I know, but I thought I had found THE One and lost her...

Ohh well, as your smiley seem to say: I'm still young and probably will find another match soon enough

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

so do you believe that there is only one person who you can be 100% happy with in every way?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"so do you believe that there is only one person who you can be 100% happy with in every way? "

Damn, usually I don't have to answer that kind of question when I'm sober

No, of course... But I think there is a very limited number of people you are fully connected to. It doesn't stop you from having loads of fun with others, but these very few people are special!!

Do you see what I mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few

and hope to meet a few more

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"so do you believe that there is only one person who you can be 100% happy with in every way?

Damn, usually I don't have to answer that kind of question when I'm sober

No, of course... But I think there is a very limited number of people you are fully connected to. It doesn't stop you from having loads of fun with others, but these very few people are special!!

Do you see what I mean? "

I do see what you mean. I don't completely agree with you though, I think there are many people with whom we could make a very deep and fulfilling connection but if you are lucky enough to find one of them you have no need to seek out that connection elsewhere, this might lead you to believe that you can't find it elsewhere.

Sense? Or nonsense?

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

"Yes for me too and fell in love with him too! Turns out he was a big fat liar and his head was turned by something else!

Yep that's the one and he's now back on here with a different name but same pictures, lol"

Nope he hasnt changed his name or pics just his location!!

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"Yes and fell in Love with him

Alas in ended because of circumstances beyond our control

Same here

And another here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I had. Lovely guy, slim, nice, nonpushy, patient. did get some feelings for him, he backed off, then we got back for a chat and some sex. Hes moved house now and I havent heard from him - he said he would text me, but I was usual impatient self text him and havent heard from him. so definately done I reckon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do see what you mean. I don't completely agree with you though, I think there are many people with whom we could make a very deep and fulfilling connection but if you are lucky enough to find one of them you have no need to seek out that connection elsewhere, this might lead you to believe that you can't find it elsewhere.

Sense? Or nonsense?"

Actual sense

I never thought about it that way... Not every connection is the same and as long as you've got some kind of match with someone, roll with it!! I got it right??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so do you believe that there is only one person who you can be 100% happy with in every way? "

Never did until I met my man

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Sense? Or nonsense?

Actual sense

I never thought about it that way... Not every connection is the same and as long as you've got some kind of match with someone, roll with it!! I got it right??

Sort of. All I'm really saying is don't imagine that because you've had one "perfect match" that you can't find another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There was a line in Desperate Housewives: Don't ruin good sex with a relationship.

I second that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not met mine yet but i am having fun trying to find sumone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I no longer believe one gent can take all the boxes for me, sexually or otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sort of. All I'm really saying is don't imagine that because you've had one "perfect match" that you can't find another

Whichever part of the couple you are, you are wise!

Thank you for making me see the things through a brand new angle

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Sort of. All I'm really saying is don't imagine that because you've had one "perfect match" that you can't find another

Whichever part of the couple you are, you are wise!

Thank you for making me see the things through a brand new angle

I'm the female part of the couple

and you're welcome. I'm not wise...just old lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sort of. All I'm really saying is don't imagine that because you've had one "perfect match" that you can't find another

Whichever part of the couple you are, you are wise!

Thank you for making me see the things through a brand new angle

I'm the female part of the couple

and you're welcome. I'm not wise...just old lol "

You're definitely wise. Love your posts!

As for the OP, I have someone perfect now and I don't think anyone will ever tick as many boxes as he does. It won't last forever so I'm enjoying it while I can.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Sort of. All I'm really saying is don't imagine that because you've had one "perfect match" that you can't find another

Whichever part of the couple you are, you are wise!

Thank you for making me see the things through a brand new angle

I'm the female part of the couple

and you're welcome. I'm not wise...just old lol

You're definitely wise. Love your posts!

Thank you! That's a nice thing to say

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm the female part of the couple

and you're welcome. I'm not wise...just old lol "

Don't tell me you're the swinging nan they're talking about in another post

(only joking!)

Steelheels, nicecouple: you're really fab! Thanks for your replies...

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By *loxfordMan
over a year ago

Reading

"There was a line in Desperate Housewives: Don't ruin good sex with a relationship.

Wonder if the reverse is true: Don't ruin a good relationship with sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, married with him

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm the female part of the couple

and you're welcome. I'm not wise...just old lol

Don't tell me you're the swinging nan they're talking about in another post

(only joking!)

Steelheels, nicecouple: you're really fab! Thanks for your replies...

No I'm not, I'm not a grandmother although I'm certainly old enough to be.

Thank you for your nice comments.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i have found someone who matches my sexual preference. Me and her just click and she is constantly wet. So, i guess its a good thing.

..only thing is. She lives miles away from me, so meeting regularly is an issue.

Therefore, still on the search for someone quite local to me for a regular.

Good luck to Us all x

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

".... is it worth having sex again?

(ooooh sounds deep... or depressing!

in fact the real question is: have you ever met you perfect sexual match?)"
Yep, and Im very lucky to have him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense? Or nonsense?

Actual sense

I never thought about it that way... Not every connection is the same and as long as you've got some kind of match with someone, roll with it!! I got it right??

Sort of. All I'm really saying is don't imagine that because you've had one "perfect match" that you can't find another

Great post

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Yes

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