FabSwingers.com forum: Has foreplay gone

By *ollyPocket75 OP Woman
6 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Foreplay is important to me but I'm finding that less men want to do it. Foreplay meaning kissing, fingering, caressing the body. Stimulating the mind so the build up is there. Do you want a fuck just doesn't do it for me. Anyone else find this just as important?

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By *oughmanMan
6 weeks ago

Sunderland

Damn, I hope not. That would lead to massive disappointment all round. Foreplay is crucial.

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By *umblefunMan
6 weeks ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).

Love the foreplay, and the pre foreplay, sitting on the sofa, chatting , getting the conversation around to intimacy, that first brush of the face, smell of perfume and then the first kiss and fumble through the clothes….. bring it on!

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By *ollyPocket75 OP Woman
6 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I think so, but my last couple of meets there's been none, for me to them yes but not reciprocated. Even with my fwb this has happened Maybe I'm picking the wrong guys 🤷‍♂️

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
6 weeks ago

scunthorpe

It’s definitely a thing between me and Sean and I wouldn’t enjoy a meet if there wasn’t an a good element of foreplay.

I love being teased and the build up to having sex is really important for me

Donna x

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By *hat.coupleCouple
6 weeks ago

Dartford

Foreplay is definitely more for women, we need to build up to it and then sex is just a bit at the end. For men sex is the main event really. Men are hard wired to plant their seed so are keen to have sex subconsciously. I appreciate a quickie sometimes though, it can be very passionate and impulsive. But, the more foreplay I get the harder and more intensly I orgasm.

Mrs x

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By *IG G77Man
6 weeks ago

GATLEY

"I think so, but my last couple of meets there's been none, for me to them yes but not reciprocated. Even with my fwb this has happened Maybe I'm picking the wrong guys 🤷‍♂️"

Foreplay in all it's forms is so important I love it and is so essential part of sex xx

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By *ubmissive guyMan
6 weeks ago

Liverpool

Foreplay is the best part of having sex, so I hope not too. Ive noticed a lot of Women on here aren't interested in receiving oral.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
6 weeks ago

Cardiff

"I think so, but my last couple of meets there's been none, for me to them yes but not reciprocated. Even with my fwb this has happened Maybe I'm picking the wrong guys 🤷‍♂️"
I find this to it’s one sided

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By *dalisqueWoman
6 weeks ago

land of make believe

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By *dalisqueWoman
6 weeks ago

land of make believe

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By *umblefunMan
6 weeks ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).

"I think so, but my last couple of meets there's been none, for me to them yes but not reciprocated. Even with my fwb this has happened Maybe I'm picking the wrong guys 🤷‍♂️"

Definitely picking the wrong guys….. maybe they’ll read this and pick up what they’re not doing!

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By *layfullsamMan
6 weeks ago

Solihull

Very important it’s like having a main course without the build up and starter

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I think foreplay is the thing me & the husband do the most of, we rarely have the sex, but I don't think it's gone, some men don't understand the oven needs warming before the sausage goes in though.

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By *ollyPocket75 OP Woman
6 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Thanks all, i was beginning to think it was me

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By *upersonic SamMan
6 weeks ago

wigan

I think I'm a woman in disguise! No foreplay means no boner, if we haven't kissed, fondled, flirted and teased until I'm as hard as Blackpool rock then you aren't getting the D, that's why I hate gangbangs, too impersonal

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
6 weeks ago

Fucksville

"I think I'm a woman in disguise! No foreplay means no boner, if we haven't kissed, fondled, flirted and teased until I'm as hard as Blackpool rock then you aren't getting the D, that's why I hate gangbangs, too impersonal"

This made me giggle, hard as Blackpool rock 😂

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
6 weeks ago

Dudley...kinda

We wont even consider a guy who wouldn't indulge in some pre threesome foreplay.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
6 weeks ago

Fucksville

Foreplay seems to be a lost art to most, mainly the youth in my experience. It's all wham bam and a thank you if you're lucky...

Guys love foreplay done to them but seem to wobble when it comes to reciprocating... A good old fingering seems hard to find...

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By *ollyPocket75 OP Woman
6 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"Foreplay seems to be a lost art to most, mainly the youth in my experience. It's all wham bam and a thank you if you're lucky...

Guys love foreplay done to them but seem to wobble when it comes to reciprocating... A good old fingering seems hard to find... "

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By *rikki1967ukMan
6 weeks ago

peterborough

Love the exploration and sensuality. Sometimes bit of hair trigger so straight in is disappointing to me and any partner

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By *ikeandtheCityMan
6 weeks ago

colchester

I love it, i love feeling,touching and tasting. Straight to fucking is a total waste of a womans body and not to enjoy giving a woman different pleasures is bonkers.

Each to own but thats my pleasure

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By *ollyPocket75 OP Woman
6 weeks ago

Aberdeen

It can also be quite painful to the female when she isn't ready.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
6 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Foreplay being honest is my favourite part.

Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I think foreplay for me is more important than fucking. If I go straight to thrusting I don’t cum. Spending time exploring each others body, light caressing, kissing, the whole body before getting to the intimate parts is such a great build up and makes the final act so much more fulfilling.

Anyone near Stratford upon Avon fancy a meet?

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
6 weeks ago

Somerset

"Foreplay is important to me but I'm finding that less men want to do it. Foreplay meaning kissing, fingering, caressing the body. Stimulating the mind so the build up is there. Do you want a fuck just doesn't do it for me. Anyone else find this just as important? "
We only do soft swing with others so the entire thing is one long extended session of kissing, stroking, fingering, licking and sucking which may end orally or manually or fucking own partner. Its wonderful

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
6 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Absolutely fucking not.

Foreplay is never something I'm short of. Unless it's a predesignated quickie due to external time restraints of course 💜

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
6 weeks ago

Hatfield

Fore play is the best …. Sex is almost pointless ( almost) with some element of foreplay

I might be better at foreplay then the sex it self .. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I love foreplay!! Definitely important

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By *hegentlemanbullMan
6 weeks ago

Southam

By Christ I hope not. Kissing, stroking, fingerfucking, caressing are all a big part of meets for me...

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By *kmegoodWoman
6 weeks ago

bradford/ halifax

I make it clear before the meet that that’s what I want and like It’s worth them doing it to get the best out of me

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By *ickedtiesWoman
6 weeks ago

limerick

Foreplay is definitely important for me...its not at the start everytime either. Sometimes we just cant hold off on the sex for much longer. he will just go down and eat me for a long time in the middle of it then fuck me again after.

Of course if it's a quickie outside somewhere, we just go straight to sex.

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By *lasticpaddy1Man
6 weeks ago

Athlone

Not for me, foreplay means my whole encounter lasts a lot longer. There is nothing better than exploring each other's bodies and finding out the places that makes the other person move and squirm more. Sex and penetration is the final piece in the jigsaw.

There is nothing better than having a lady eating out of your hand bcoz you have turned her on so much or given her a clitoral orgasm before penetration and knowing that you have driven her wild that she wants you inside so much.

Sex is not just a quick fuck down the alley with a person you've just met in a niteclub

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By *ere4It3000Couple
6 weeks ago

Belgium

I might hope not!

Luckily Mr is super attentive to this. Always makes time for that. For me caressing the body is probably even the best way to get me in the mood!

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By *londie 777Couple
6 weeks ago

Brighton

Ohh no it's the best part, the build up is such a turn on, can't think of anything worse than straight into it

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Foreplay is crucial we spend about 1hr to 1.5hr before actual sex. By the end of foreplay she wants to be fucked hard.

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By *azmar62Couple
6 weeks ago

Hinckley

Foreplay is an art form. Shouldn’t be rushed.

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By *ire-runner-82Man
6 weeks ago

Notth Hanpshire

I always thought I was one of the rare ones - would choose the oral over the intercourse. I love the flirting, the teasing, the kissing, working all that into the foreplay. Biggest turn on ever. So much more intimate and get so much more of a connection from that over penetration

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

This 👌

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By *hogun300Man
6 weeks ago

Dundee

It's as if one morning it went out for a dildo and just never returned.

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By *tr8MrEMan
6 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

Oh bollocks, by that judgement I'm redundant 😭😭

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By *iss DevilWoman
6 weeks ago

Bedford

I very much enjoy "foreplay", I have been known to enjoy just that in a club, with someone new, without the need to be fucked. I usually make sure the person I'm playing with is looked after, too, unless my brain got too scrambled.

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By *r. JackMan
6 weeks ago

norfolk

With the right people foreplay can be better than sex.

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By *eo PublicMan
6 weeks ago

Lincoln

I find it's really important, love kissing, caressing, fingering etc before the main act.

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By *w funwifeWoman
6 weeks ago

near taunton

i always make sure they are into foreplay before hand otherwise im not meeting.

have been known to stop a meet with men who rush.

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By *yeSureMan
6 weeks ago

Glasgow

It's not gone. Wife loves it

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By *uenevereWoman
6 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

OP, you may need to be more assertive and ensure partners know what you expect and want from sex. Ideally well before you get to the bedroom.

If I'm not ready, they don't get the OK for penetration and that includes my husband.

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By *ot so needyMan
6 weeks ago

Galway

No its definitely not gone.

I love kissing and touching her body.I love the anticipation of what it leads to.

Usually we have sex straight away because we cant contain ourselves.

But then its kisses cuddles sensual touching and oral by both one finger inserted while she grinds on me. It lasts as long as needed till we are both ready for the next round of sex. The intimacy levels are unreal.this can go on for hours till we are completely spent🥵

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By *exyScientistsCouple
6 weeks ago

Castlebar

Definately not.

The most amazing sex comes from the most amazing foreplay 😈

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By *uffhandymanMan
6 weeks ago

selby/peterborough

I personally love foreplay!

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By *ifty69Man
6 weeks ago

north tyneside

I love foreplay and giving oral, ,kissing and exploring every part of a woman is so sensual with fingers,tongue and cock

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By *asy Rider 69Man
6 weeks ago

Liverpool

Foreplay is great the build up of anticipation of first contact feels amazing never mind fingers and licking

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By *wingerjay1987Man
6 weeks ago

Cumbria

For me foreplay is an essential part of sex and I absolutely love it. The tasting and teasing 😈, it’s what gets the atmosphere electric between the 2 of you.

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By *egoMan
6 weeks ago

Preston

Literally need it, or penetrative sex is difficult. At least a passionate snog is essential.

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By *ittyNCremeCouple
6 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

Definitely not for me the foreplay is the most fun part it builds everything up. DJ x

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By *loth280Man
6 weeks ago

Caversham

I enjoy the foreplay more than anything else....the tease and the mental build up, is far more satisfying than the explosion at the end!

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By *rettCoolMan
6 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Love lots of foreplay lots and lots

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By *punkyMcFuckKnuckleMan
6 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

If you've been brought up the right way you'll know how important a good fingering is and how to do it right.

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By *wabathMan
6 weeks ago

Bath

I’ll be honest , i actually prefer foreplay. The enjoyment I get from seeing the reaction of the lady is great xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

"I’ll be honest , i actually prefer foreplay. The enjoyment I get from seeing the reaction of the lady is great xxx"

Same here pal

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By *eys00Man
6 weeks ago

have boots will travel

We absolutely cannot let foreplay disappear!! Good lord it’s often the best part of it, it would be like having a shower without letting the water heat up. Let’s bring it back men! 💪

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By *orny PTMan
6 weeks ago

Peterborough

I've just dished out a good half hour's wort of foreplay this weekend, so this art is not going to die out on my watch (or metal bad with stocks).

Mashing brains and turning less to jelly is bloody good fun.

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
6 weeks ago

Rotherham

I've been in a chastity cage since 19 years old during that time I've been in 2 different cuckold relationship, foreplay is all I've really done and I never get tired or bored of it

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By *orny PTMan
6 weeks ago

Peterborough

TYPO: worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Definitely not.

I like physical and mental foreplay.

There’s so much more to sex than what people see in a porno.

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By *teamynSteCouple
6 weeks ago

Hull

my guy is a lover of foreplay, sometimes till i beg for more of him lol kissing caressing teasing eachother till we are fit to burst is devine 🩷

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By *orny PTMan
6 weeks ago

Peterborough

Hands up who thinks head, neck and breast caressing, with gloves, then gentle neck kissing is a knicker elastic snapper?

Purely for research purposes, of course.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
6 weeks ago

Castlebar

Mental foreplay is so 🔥

If my mind is turned on, you only have to be near me to turn my body on...

That's when you know it's gonna be 😈

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By *alentedfMan
6 weeks ago

Near Newbury

Sounds perfect to me, maybe it's a age thing?

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By *andemanMan
6 weeks ago

Newcastle

Fore play is the most important part of playing.

Slowly bringing the lady up to readiness.

Kissing fondling ,fingers.

Always take care of the lady first and foremost.

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By *erthyrmanMan
6 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

Foreplay is a massive must for me, passionate kissing, making my way down her neck and nibbling on her ears if that's what she likes,carresing her whole body, lightly running my finger tips up and down her inner thighs before kissing my way down,I absolutely love giving oral and fingering.I like to make sure my partner is very relaxed before penetration even enters my mind, the more relaxed and turned on she is the better the orgasm

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
6 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Foreplay seems to be a lost art to most, mainly the youth in my experience. It's all wham bam and a thank you if you're lucky...

Guys love foreplay done to them but seem to wobble when it comes to reciprocating... A good old fingering seems hard to find...

Yes fingering has disappeared, I also enjoy a good finger. I don't think it's just the youth though that have a wobble about going to tend to the lady garden, it's just lazy or selfish men. It would be interesting if men thought that about women."
to be fair I know myself and many other ladies actively discourage fingering from people at clubs as most people haven't got a clue....

I have had more injuries from fingers than anything else x

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By *latandTCouple
6 weeks ago

South Essex

Hi, as we are starting our journey by visiting a club in June, I am now a bit concerned about your experiences. I too love a good fingering, and Blat has got it down to a very fine art

What kind of injuries did you sustain and how?

Was it with single men or those with partners?

Hope it’s ok to ask. You could also reply in DM if you prefer or if it’s too graphic?…

I just want to know what to look out for to stay safe and have fun!

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By *ugarandspicecoupleCouple
6 weeks ago

Haywards Heath

Absolutely love foreplay , tbh sometimes as Important as the main event

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