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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you consider giving someone a facial as cheating? No contact involved...

Just a topic that came up with a mate...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you consider giving someone a facial as cheating? No contact involved...

Just a topic that came up with a mate..."

If it counts as sexual activity I'd say yes it's cheating... but if it's just purely for the skin-cleansing goodness then no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But isn't it just like watching porn? Is that cheating too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But isn't it just like watching porn? Is that cheating too?"

I think if you feel like your cheating you probably are......its like saying what's art. It's up to interpretation....only you can know the answer to such a question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But isn't it just like watching porn? Is that cheating too?"

If your woman was masturbating over a guy in front of her would you class it as cheating?

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

I'd say shooting your load over someones face counts as sexual activity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put it this way if you found out your partner / girlfriend / wife /boyfriend /hubby had dun it would you be ok . If not then don't do it !!! This aplys not only to facial s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you consider giving someone a facial as cheating? No contact involved...

Just a topic that came up with a mate..."

No contact involved?

You really need to work on your aim!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Cheating to my mind is doing something that you know someone who loves you wouldn't want you to do, then keeping it a secret. Trying to get round it by using definitions is just trying to justify it to yourself, it's the intent behind the action that counts.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


" I'd say shooting your load over someones face counts as sexual activity!"

Wouldn't have put it quite that way but I agree.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If it involves getting your cock out in front of someone who isn't your other half and they have no idea you are doing so? Then, yes, you are cheating! Unless it is the doctor of course (even that could be questionable)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheating to my mind is doing something that you know someone who loves you wouldn't want you to do, then keeping it a secret. Trying to get round it by using definitions is just trying to justify it to yourself, it's the intent behind the action that counts."

That is a most excellent definition. Case solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheating to my mind is doing something that you know someone who loves you wouldn't want you to do, then keeping it a secret. Trying to get round it by using definitions is just trying to justify it to yourself, it's the intent behind the action that counts.

That is a most excellent definition. Case solved "

Yeah I like that also.

Watching porn ....with someone else and acting it out isn't all that innocent either Knocking one out on your own is not cheating though

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By *lipperyWhenWet!Couple
over a year ago

Rochester

Yes, unless your Bill Clinton! LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what your partner thinks doesn't it. If they don't like it then it's cheating. Not up to you is it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very much cheating.

I mean your dick would be hard from sexual thoughts would it not?

And ejaculating over someones face is most definitely sexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But isn't it just like watching porn? Is that cheating too?"
Its just like watching porn lmfao

* cReEpS rOuNd cRyPt * -|-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But isn't it just like watching porn? Is that cheating too?"

wow lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok quick and easy test if something is cheating.

Do you hide it from your partner? If so, yes it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'd say shooting your load over someones face counts as sexual activity!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok quick and easy test if something is cheating.

Do you hide it from your partner? If so, yes it is."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a sexual act so absolutely yes it is.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Ok quick and easy test if something is cheating.

Do you hide it from your partner? If so, yes it is. "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets face it mate its all cheating anything that involves a person other than you're partner. No matter how you try to justify it even just having a snog with someone else is cheating and I don't mean a little peck hello or goodbye. And it does not matter that you don't touch the woman Because you are doing it for satisfaction arn't you ? Mean you're not doing just to help someone out are you

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

My general view is if you wouldn't tell your parnter about something you've done then you are cheating.

Whether thats a facial or going for a quick drink with a female colleague.

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley


" I'd say shooting your load over someones face counts as sexual activity!

Wouldn't have put it quite that way but I agree. "

Having just read my post again I think I could have written it a little more politely..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheating to my mind is doing something that you know someone who loves you wouldn't want you to do, then keeping it a secret. Trying to get round it by using definitions is just trying to justify it to yourself, it's the intent behind the action that counts."

That sums it for me. If you are looking for something to justify it to yourself then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'd say shooting your load over someones face counts as sexual activity!

Wouldn't have put it quite that way but I agree.

Having just read my post again I think I could have written it a little more politely.."

It was to the point. Hit the nail on the head.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheating to my mind is doing something that you know someone who loves you wouldn't want you to do, then keeping it a secret. Trying to get round it by using definitions is just trying to justify it to yourself, it's the intent behind the action that counts."

This

There's an awful lot of wisdom behind that fan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a cheat...lol

Susan....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you consider giving someone a facial as cheating? No contact involved...

Just a topic that came up with a mate..."

would you tell your wife you did it?

No? then its cheating

Yes? then its not cheating as you've told her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna say no, its just like oral and they say "eating aint cheating" so I recon your safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna say no, its just like oral and they say "eating aint cheating" so I recon your safe "

Youd be cool with your OH doing the same then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna say no, its just like oral and they say "eating aint cheating" so I recon your safe

Youd be cool with your OH doing the same then? "

JOKE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you don't see it as someone coming on your face without the knowledge and blessing of your other half as cheating?

Loon alert I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any contact is

if u have a partner u dont say i was flirting with a woman and going out for lunch next week

if u cheat..u say fuckall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you don't see it as someone coming on your face without the knowledge and blessing of your other half as cheating?

Loon alert I think "

tastyarse alert

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Watching porn is the same as shooting your load over someone's face???

Crikey I learn summat new on here every day...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watching porn is the same as shooting your load over someone's face???

Crikey I learn summat new on here every day... "

Only if your watching it upside down, laying against the wall with your legs over your own shoulders and with your tackle above your mush!!

*allegedly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watching porn is the same as shooting your load over someone's face???

Crikey I learn summat new on here every day... "

watching porn with someone that is contactable is something different lol

i have absolutely no interest in porn unless im with someone and watching...

I would class having a wank online with people viewing as a form of cheating

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

If he was a bad shot and missed her face would that still count as him cheating

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Watching porn is the same as shooting your load over someone's face???

Crikey I learn summat new on here every day...

watching porn with someone that is contactable is something different lol

i have absolutely no interest in porn unless im with someone and watching...

I would class having a wank online with people viewing as a form of cheating"

Yeah! I took it to mean watching it on his own. Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's very much cheating.

I mean your dick would be hard from sexual thoughts would it not?

And ejaculating over someones face is most definitely sexual."

True!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just things you keep hidden that can be classed as cheating. If you slept with someone else etc then told your partner, that's still cheating. If you threatened to do it as some form of control, then did it, that's still cheating.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"But isn't it just like watching porn? Is that cheating too?"

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Put it this way, if your partner came home with a face like a plasterer's radio what would you think?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's not just things you keep hidden that can be classed as cheating. If you slept with someone else etc then told your partner, that's still cheating. If you threatened to do it as some form of control, then did it, that's still cheating. "

Yep! The only time it isn't cheating is if it is with the full knowledge and happy, uncoerced consent of your partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you consider giving someone a facial as cheating? No contact involved...

Just a topic that came up with a mate..."

..If you do anything without your partner knowing it is cheating,if your partner met another man and he just gave her a facial..would you be happy

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By *ysteryboatMan
over a year ago

Brighton

I'm just wondering how anyone can possibly seeing it as not cheating.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"I'm just wondering how anyone can possibly seeing it as not cheating."

If you were single it probably wouldn't be

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm just wondering how anyone can possibly seeing it as not cheating."

No one can, but some people will convince themselves of anything to avoid facing facts.

Just ten minutes ago I convinced myself that chocolate cake was one of my five a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put it this way, if your partner came home with a face like a plasterer's radio what would you think?"

Best analogy I've ever heard!!

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"I'm just wondering how anyone can possibly seeing it as not cheating.

No one can, but some people will convince themselves of anything to avoid facing facts.

Just ten minutes ago I convinced myself that chocolate cake was one of my five a day "

That's easy. Chocolate is cocoa. Cocoa is s bean. Beans are one of your five a day!!!

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By *b586Couple
over a year ago

pemberton twp


"Ok quick and easy test if something is cheating.

Do you hide it from your partner? If so, yes it is."

k

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just wondering how anyone can possibly seeing it as not cheating.

No one can, but some people will convince themselves of anything to avoid facing facts.

Just ten minutes ago I convinced myself that chocolate cake was one of my five a day

That's easy. Chocolate is cocoa. Cocoa is s bean. Beans are one of your five a day!!!"

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By *ysteryboatMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"I'm just wondering how anyone can possibly seeing it as not cheating.

No one can, but some people will convince themselves of anything to avoid facing facts.

Just ten minutes ago I convinced myself that chocolate cake was one of my five a day

That's easy. Chocolate is cocoa. Cocoa is s bean. Beans are one of your five a day!!!"

Continuing that theme, man juice is allegedly good for a woman's skin so maybe covering her in cum isn't cheating but merely helping her to maintain her complexion ?

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Or some extra protein helping her in her healthy eating regime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you consider giving someone a facial as cheating? No contact involved...

Just a topic that came up with a mate..."

If it was a stranger on a bus then it's also illegal !

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By *ysteryboatMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"Or some extra protein helping her in her healthy eating regime "

They'll soon be selling it in chemists and supermarkets at this rate - a black market could evolve - mr big would be a spunk smuggler, and every man would be registered as a factory. and all because she's worth it.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Call me a Good Samaritan if you like but I'm more than willing to help women promote healthy eating

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By *ysteryboatMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"Call me a Good Samaritan if you like but I'm more than willing to help women promote healthy eating "

You're all heart !

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