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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why the fuck will people not read a profile, or if they do, take some notice of it

Weve advertised a meet tonight, and updated our status to say we are looking. It says PLEASE read our profile...

our profile says "You MUST accomodate and we do not play outside"

first person to mail us, wanna chat meet etc all ok, then, 'i cant accomodate cos my bro/sis/mother/cat etc is in....'

ffs

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

You've been here long enough to know a lot of people don't do that, and no amount of complaining, will change the attitude of the masses.

Put it in your meet request instead

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Yes it can get frustrating but most of us have the same problem.

9/10 messages we get are from those who clearly haven't read our profile.

Our delete button is almost worn out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit like getting mad at bad drivers.....they will always exist......just go around them....

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Because in their eyes they might just be the ones to make you change all your preferences - just for them...

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By *eonlylive1seCouple
over a year ago

Atherstone

We have had that problem, every time we have put one up, its nearly always guys too young or `not our type` we always answer with GO BACK AND READ THE PROFILE !!!!!!, some still persist with...`oh ok let us know if you change your mind, or next time your looking, give us a shout, and I`ve sent you a friends request ....Thats when the `block em button` gets activated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my instance, i read a profile and maybe read into it a bit too much lol

...dont think i should be sending messages as long as the profile text itself lol

Good.luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are simply winding you up why not block them immediately anyway - you don't want or need them

- separate the chaff......

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

For all the meet today posts and all the status updates of couples/singles wanting a decent looking guy with a big dick... Their profiles may as well be in Kazakhstani as for some reason, all my attention to their profiles doesn't get a reply, 9/100 times.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Well I'm surprised anyone contacts you at all! My personal bete noire people who don't accommodate but insist you do. Your added cheek of telling people to wash and tidy up before your state visit beggers belief.

I have a sense people are contacting you to wind you up, you don't know why? Honestly?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read all profiles of the few people who message me, else how do you know if they are for you or not? I ask for a pic too, doesnt always happen, is annoying but those who dont I just say no thank you and delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the others, most people will tidy up if their place needs it before you go there. Ive not had many meets inhouse, place has always been tidy, one guy's place was immaculate. felt uncomfortable tbh. You've done alright for meets, why not ask to meet them again and you could always take a bottle with you? I admit to never taking wine with me cos the guy has brought me home after and if he cant drink, neither will I.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Because they can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isxno point getting wound up about it, everyone gets messages outside their preferences. You are not obliged to read or contact them.

Your profile is basically a list of do's and dont's so it's not the most inviting of profiles, I can understand why people won't

I also agree on the accommodating issue whereby insisting that people not only accommodate but clean their homes and provide wine for you extremely cheeky and it gives a very negative image of you as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm surprised anyone contacts you at all! My personal bete noire people who don't accommodate but insist you do. Your added cheek of telling people to wash and tidy up before your state visit beggers belief.

I have a sense people are contacting you to wind you up, you don't know why? Honestly?!! "

Your profile does come across as a very one sided list of expectations. Most of them are reasonable like cleanliness and hygiene. The bit that did surprise me is your request for those accommodating to buy you wine. That comes across as cheeky to me and for that reason alone I would have made an overall judgement on you guys.

As for guys leaking pre-cum I didn't think they could help it! I take it as a compliment that I am making them horny

Good luck anyway guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is basically a list of do's and dont's so it's not the most inviting of profiles, I can understand why people won't

I also agree on the accommodating issue whereby insisting that people not only accommodate but clean their homes and provide wine for you extremely cheeky and it gives a very negative image of you as a couple. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They dont read profiles because they cant b bothered, or if they dont meet yr list of requirements they r hoping they can change yr mind.

Just ignore or block. And forget them, best way

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