FabSwingers.com forum: Would your friends be surprised?

By *portinglegend OP Man
13 weeks ago

Stamford

I’m guessing that most people here keep their swinging exploits somewhat under wraps. Would your vanilla friends be surprised if they find out what you get up to?

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By *r Black 85Man
13 weeks ago

nottingham

Not mine

My lifestyle choice isn't a secret from them and I can honestly say most were not the least bit surprised😎😎😎😎😎

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By *oppet22TV/TS
13 weeks ago

huddersfield

Yes that i dress but not that i play

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Yes and no.

No in that most might think I'm a dirty bugger. Yes if they knew just how much. 🤣🤣

I do keep my private life private, it saves having to almost explain yrself. But that's not hard a bridge to cross if needed since I don't really care what others think anymore.

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By *r.EdibleMan
13 weeks ago

Fraserburgh

They were, but also very supportive and interested. Now they use it to make jokes and innuendo, which I don't mind in the slightest.

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By *ee1967Man
13 weeks ago

watford

My best mate knows as does his wife. My sister knows too

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
13 weeks ago

Aberdeen

No, most of my friends know as do my family.

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By *elightful 2Couple
13 weeks ago

Not living in the UK

I'm guessing most of our friends would be mortified.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
13 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

They would be shocked

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
13 weeks ago

Next Door

There are 1 or 2 close friends that would be totally shocked and think it's a free for all fuck session. So they won't be told. I have told 2 other friends, and they are ok with it

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By *cgmcgMan
13 weeks ago

kingston

No clue. And I'll keep it that way..

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Yes, I'm the sweet and innocent next door type.

The ones who do now know where definitely surprised!

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By *na3444Woman
13 weeks ago

Aviemore

O yes very.

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By *riel13Woman
13 weeks ago

Northampton

They weren't

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Nothing to report and no friends so it's a moot point for me.

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By *illie99TV/TS
13 weeks ago

Central Scotland

Some yes, some no

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
13 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

I told one friend, thinking she would fully support me... but it didn't go well.

Be careful who you tell.

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By *ustus5555Woman
13 weeks ago

Mansfield

All my friends think I'm little miss perfect, the butter wouldn't melt type. They would be very shocked to say the least.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
13 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Nah.

Friends, family and colleagues all know that I'm a big sex fan, have multiple relationship and like to spend my free time in dungeons.

No-one who knows me even a little is going to be shocked 💜

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By *hat.coupleCouple
13 weeks ago

Kent

Not at all but I've always been very open about my sexuality, most of my friends know x.

Mrs x

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By *hesubtlegentMan
13 weeks ago

surrey

My cousin knows, that’s it. I’ve made some great friend from fab and they obviously know. I like having a ‘naughty secret’

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By *ugarbearCouple
13 weeks ago

Tredegar

Oh my friends wouldbe shocked if they knew the amount of cocks i have had up me

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
13 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

Not a single one of them was shocked when we told them 😂

One of them straight up said "yeah checks out"

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
13 weeks ago

London

Some probably; other not so much.

Strangely, I have seen a few people I know on other dating sites and they must have seen me. So some know about my sexuality.

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By *ravellerukMan
13 weeks ago

Burnham

Some know and most of them were surprised when they found out.

Any that don’t know would probably be very shocked!

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By *ust want fun 888Man
13 weeks ago

nearby

Not really, the ones that know me, even my aunt knows I’m on a site like this but wouldn’t have an idea of what type of content I would upload of myself, but I told my friends during lockdown that I joined a site but never told them the name in case they went looking it up

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By *Xtriple7Couple
13 weeks ago

N Peterborough.

Most definitely, for both of us.

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By *ain and sortedMan
13 weeks ago

Old Harlow Essex

"I’m guessing that most people here keep their swinging exploits somewhat under wraps. Would your vanilla friends be surprised if they find out what you get up to?"

Most certainly would have no idea friends , work colleagues , family, however if they did ask or find out I don’t think they would be shocked . Not that I’m a dirty dog , just very social and non judgemental. If I date a new lady I would always be honest and open that I swing and enjoy clubs etc if not for them then I will not be for them as being deceitful is not for me .

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By *roxhotwifecpl4funCouple
13 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Friends and relatives would be shocked 😳

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By *nsanityBohemianstyleWoman
13 weeks ago

Worsley, Manchester

I’d be sent to the tower, excommunicated!!

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By *oppet22TV/TS
13 weeks ago

huddersfield

Right all the way

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By *k98765Couple
13 weeks ago

birmingham

For me no for the wife definitely x

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By *ain and sortedMan
13 weeks ago

Old Harlow Essex

"I’d be sent to the tower, excommunicated!!"

I’ll go to church either you ! Haha

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By *oughmanMan
13 weeks ago

Sunderland

Well I haven't done anything (yet) except visit a club. I don't have many friends, but I could think of a few that would be surprised. They think I'm good boy. I think a couple might be discussed.

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By *enatton2Couple
13 weeks ago

West Midlands

All but three of Bens would be surprised, one because he’s played with us and the other two because they declined the opportunity to.

Quite a few of Tani’s friends know now. Too many girlie chats after a few drinks

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By *portinglegend OP Man
12 weeks ago

Stamford

Anyone else?

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By *oung40Man
12 weeks ago

thirsk

Majority of our friends don’t know, they’d be super interested but they wouldn’t dabble.

3 friends do know and were often playing with them especially her best friend

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By *couseTravisMan
12 weeks ago

liverpool L4

Some would be surprised.

And some would be surprised I’m not doing something filthier

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By *eglegMan
12 weeks ago

Coventry & Telford

Of those that know they weren’t all that surprised.

One was but that was more about the type of situations my and my ex enjoyed, not that we were in this lifestyle

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By *ozzybear1981Man
12 weeks ago

preston

My closest friends that I completely trust have known for over a decade that I’ve had this side of my life to me.

They don’t judge, they are curious and ask but don’t want to partake either.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
12 weeks ago

Castlebar

I've told 3 vanilla friends, 1 was thrilled and so excited for me. The other 2 were not so shocked. We grew up together so they know me 😅🤣

They were just surprised that I'd still be interested in sex at my age

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By *rogalCouple
12 weeks ago

Falkirk

They definitely would be! Some of our friends constantly make swinger comments but they definitely don't know and definitely don't swing themselves so we always have an amused knowing look between us

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By *ddie7XXXMan
12 weeks ago

wigan

Yes and no people always say I have that look in my eye

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By *olds CoupleCouple
12 weeks ago

Louth Lincolnshire

Not in the least surprised, in fact they’d be more surprised if we weren’t.

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
12 weeks ago

kendal

A couple of my closest friends know, and weren't surprised in the slightest....and love hearing about my escapades....

I do prefere that it isn't common knowledge though, I've got a reputation to uphold, and I live in a very small rural community.

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By *edhead72Man
12 weeks ago

Cheltenham and Ashby

My partner told a few of her friends which was interesting when I walked into an ambush of excitable questions.

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By *dalisqueWoman
12 weeks ago

land of make believe

Everyone I love & care about knows I am here,except the children,obviously.

I mean ,I don't discuss details,however noone would be shocked.

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By *xxMandLxxxCouple
12 weeks ago

Southampton

Most, including employers would be mortified, hence why we protect our online anonymity and use the relatively impersonal world of clubs only.

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By *apperleymanMan
12 weeks ago

Leicester

Probably a mix of ‘wow’ and a few who have already guessed at it.. I don’t hide it but then again I don’t shout it from the rooftops either.

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By *ravellerukMan
12 weeks ago

Burnham

Quite a few of Tani’s friends know now. Too many girlie chats after a few drinks

Girlie drinks are Kay’s weakness lol. Doesn’t take much for her to be sharing all the sordid details of our sex life. And in quite sure most of them have seen what I have to offer

just wish more were keen to follow up

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By *tr8MrEMan
12 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

Holy fuck, they'd be utterly mortified...then intrigued 🤣🤣

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By *vaRoseWoman
12 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

My best friend knows but everyone else would be shocked

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By *herrybakewellCouple
12 weeks ago

Staffordshire

They were shocked when I told them lol.

Mr.

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By *oralltherightreasonsCouple
12 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

Very much so yeah

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By *ongandharderMan
12 weeks ago

Rotherham

Yes somewhat

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By *et and WillingCouple
12 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Most would shocked but theres a two who we think have an idea x

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By *heshire fun couple 123Couple
12 weeks ago

Nantwich

What has surprised us is the amount of people who presume we must be gay to be in the close proximity of people of the same sex when swinging.

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By *ornycouplepzCouple
12 weeks ago

here and there

All our friends know we are in the lifestyle x

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By *enatton2Couple
12 weeks ago

West Midlands

Quite a few of Tani’s friends know now. Too many girlie chats after a few drinks

Girlie drinks are Kay’s weakness lol. Doesn’t take much for her to be sharing all the sordid details of our sex life. And in quite sure most of them have seen what I have to offer

just wish more were keen to follow up

Haha yeah exactly! Apparently they all ask so many questions too. Only one of Tani’s friends has accepted our invite, one was very close recently, I’m hoping we can close that deal eventually

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By *pinningfasterWoman
12 weeks ago

Birmingham

No. At my work christmas do I had my colleagues scrolling through my other 3some app account and matching people they thought I'd like 🤣

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By *ave1976XXXMan
12 weeks ago

newmarket

Male friends would be surprised but a female friends not so much

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By *reyeyesesMan
12 weeks ago

Birmingham

Friends? Probably not, they know I'm a bit of a 'sex people'. Acquaintances and work colleagues, definitely :D I do a serious job where I have to appear respectable

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
12 weeks ago

scunthorpe

Most of my friends know and weren’t at all shocked about me, they were about Sean though 😂

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By *emporary satisfactionMan
12 weeks ago

middle of no where

I think I told my friend they’ll find super weird

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By *wing2023Couple
12 weeks ago

london

Scandalised beyond imagination - all except one perhaps

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By *punk n gushCouple
12 weeks ago

deal

Some friends know as we meet on here but certainly not family or older friends wouldn't tell them

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By *RWoodyCouple
12 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

One particular friend of R's, no probably not, but he's very discreet so nothing to worry about. My friend circle wouldn't believe it in a month of Mondays, and that is definitely how it's staying 😁

J x

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By *tr8MrEMan
12 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"One particular friend of R's, no probably not, but he's very discreet so nothing to worry about. My friend circle wouldn't believe it in a month of Mondays, and that is definitely how it's staying 😁

J x"

"Say ello to ma little friend" 🤣🤣

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By *yanShireMan
12 weeks ago

Motherwell

Two best mates not surprised when they found out - only very curious to know more about the lifestyle and what’s out there on sites like this and places like swingers clubs

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
12 weeks ago

Debauchery

My best friend is on here and 7 friends have or also found me on here so they can’t all be that surprised

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By *ucka39Man
12 weeks ago

Newcastle

Nope most of my friends know and some are interested in this lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

We have told most of our friends and a lot wish there other half would go for it haha

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By *mf123Man
12 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

I dont do swings so dunno if that surprises

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
12 weeks ago

falkirk

Wifes older sister and 2 friends know

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By *i_alternative_coupleCouple
12 weeks ago

cradley

Some of our friends know. But we don't sort of openly advertise it.

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By *erbysGentMan
12 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Some of my friends know, not my beat friends though but sure they would be happy I'm doing something that makes me happy. I did bump into a mate on here and we had some excellent 3somes

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By *taxenCouple
12 weeks ago

North West.

Think our circle would be shocked, some wouldn't understand as I'd expect to hear " how can you let ur wife do that with other men".

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By *llGoodFun76Couple
12 weeks ago

Angus

Ours probably not lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I'm honest with my friends... If I dissappear anytime.. They have a place to look

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By *stoppMan
12 weeks ago

Durham

2 friends know and 1 family member

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
12 weeks ago

southam

i found it so erotic when my wife told her best freind about how she cukolds me her freind looked so siympathetic towards me but she couldnt resist teasing me about it out of curiosity that i accepted it,.

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By *eyeYCouple
12 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

"I'm honest with my friends... If I dissappear anytime.. They have a place to look

Good point 😂

So me know, the majority don't..

But then we don't know what they get up to behind closed doors or care to ask 😉

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