Since reading a thread from a single male looking for advice on going to clubs, I've had 3 negative instances weighing on my mind that I would like to get off my chest.
My ex-wife and I would occasionally visit a club maybe only once a year, maybe not even that, over a 10 year period and can only think of 3 or 4 clubs we went to. The majority of the experiences were good ones, and always the best part for us was how good the sex was between us after the partying stopped, whether that was if we stayed over or if we had to stop and get her over the bonnet beside the road.
Anyway, to the point. Over that time we had 3 negative experiences that I feel males could avoid. (in no particular order)
1. In our favourite club on a Sunday afternoon, we thought we would like to go and use the Jacuzzi and other spa type facilities as it's what we enjoyed most. There was only us and a single male there, we were in the pool, he sidled up to us, not saying a word, my wife and I looked at each other and moved away, he followed, we left the pool, he followed. We ended up locking ourselves in a playroom, he tried the door and we could hear him waiting outside. when we felt the coast was clear, we got our things and left the club. In hindsight, I should probably told him a polite "No" but surely he should be able to take a hint? He was very creepy, don't be that guy.
2. Same club, busy-ish night lots of fun things happening, I'm sitting having a chill whilst my wife is playing with a few gents and 2 single (I assume) males, just within earshot and start discussing what's going on and how if they had significant others in their lives, they wouldn't let their women come to "a place like this"
Double standards much? please be a bit more respectful. It didn't affect our night, but we only went to couples only events after that.
3. At a couples only event in a club that we hadn't visited before, the wife and I are in a corner of a room where lots of couples are going at it. The wife is riding me and there is a small crowd of mostly males gathering in the doorway. Quite often we liked to be watched, as she's riding me, she very obviously has an orgasm, all I hear from the crowd was, "I didn't think he was big enough to make her come like that" Now, it may not have been directed at me, could of been a coincidence, could have been meant as a compliment, but I'm probably a little smaller than average in both length and girth and can get a little insecure about it. The comment did nothing for my self confidence and there was no more play that night until the drive home.
If you've got to the end of this, well done, I didn't intend it to be this long, but I wanted to get it off my chest and I felt this community would be the best place to vent it. If anyone can take anything away from it then great.
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Thank you for the insight. Definitely something to think about. 
