FabSwingers.com forum: Are you gay if you like

By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

Pegging or rimming

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By *vaRoseWoman
12 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

If the person you’re pegging or rimming is the same gender as you yes. If not no

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By *cgmcgMan
12 weeks ago

kingston

I don't get that at all. At the very least you could consider being bi, hete

exible or sapiosexual...

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Look at my profile, if you get hard your gay, simple

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By *cgmcgMan
12 weeks ago

kingston

"Look at my profile, if you get hard your gay, simple

Nice, but not for me. What does that make me?

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By *J_OuizziCouple
12 weeks ago

Nottingham

"Pegging or rimming"

No. Clearly not unless you only do that with a member of your own sex.

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By *nthony_60Man
12 weeks ago

ipswich

I think you just turned me !

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"Look at my profile, if you get hard your gay, simple

Nice, but not for me. What does that make me?"

I guess your straight then, maybe I should try make it a personal project to turn you haha

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By *adbody84Man
12 weeks ago

swindon

I love my wife pegging me x

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By *eaSlutsCouple
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

Definitely not. I really enjoy both being pegged and rimmed, but I have zero attraction to or interest in men/masculine people performing those acts whatsoever.

Just because you enjoy anal play doesn't define your sexual identity. It just means that you like that certain act.

C x

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
12 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

Is a woman pegging you or are you rimming a woman? Than no it isnt gay.

Are you doing it to a man? Thats the gay one.

If you enjoy both then you are bisexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Yeah and lesbians are really secretly straight because they use a dildo.

Come on.....🙄

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
12 weeks ago

Bristol

Obviously not.

Playing sexually with people of the same gender as you makes you gay (or bi, or whichever flavour you identify as).

The specific sexual act isn't gay.

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By *RcplSldnCouple
12 weeks ago

London

What are you, 15?

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Bristol

"Look at my profile, if you get hard your gay, simple

Yes. This.

Although you're probably bi.

TBF, only a very narrow group of people are actually 'straight'.

Stop with the labels. If you like what you see then...

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By *unmatt888Man
12 weeks ago

Duns

You’re gay if you’re a man and you are sexually into other men, exclusively.

Otherwise no, you’re not gay.

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By *wunk2025Man
12 weeks ago

newcastle

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By *xciter7169Man
12 weeks ago

The Midlands

"Look at my profile, if you get hard your gay, simple

Its made me hard

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By *ust want fun 888Man
12 weeks ago

nearby

I think, sexual pleasure is in arousal, I don’t think it has to be labelled gay, heterosexual or anything, simply pleasure

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Chichester

"Pegging or rimming"

Only if you push back

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By *igT-Kis-Showa-Fuk-OralMan
12 weeks ago

Dunstable Lu5 Nr m1 j11a let's chat social-fun if Click

"Look at my profile, if you get hard your gay, simple

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I did not get hard

So Bi.Curious is fine for me then

I would still fuck and suck both ways though if asked nice for awesome fun

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By *ay5043Man
12 weeks ago

London

What if you like guiding another man in to your female partner. Does that make you gay?

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
12 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

"What if you like guiding another man in to your female partner. Does that make you gay? "

You answered that by having a female partner

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By *utlongjohnMan
12 weeks ago

Hope not, i love being rimmed and my ass played with lol

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By *hat.coupleCouple
12 weeks ago

Kent

Being "gay" means you are attracted to a person of the same sex as you, a sexual act is not gay unless it is only something that same sex people can do to eachother. Example: scissoring.

Mrs x

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
12 weeks ago

Manchester

"Look at my profile, if you get hard your gay, simple

Yes. This.

Although you're probably bi.

TBF, only a very narrow group of people are actually 'straight'.

Stop with the labels. If you like what you see then... "

Nonsense. From beginning to end.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
12 weeks ago

Manchester

"Pegging or rimming"

I think it’s best to assume this question was being asked ironically.

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By *eyeYCouple
12 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Who cares.. 😉😘

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By *teinsGateDuoCouple
12 weeks ago

Newcastle under Lyme

Super gay.

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By *nkedIrishMan
12 weeks ago

Bideford

Is this a serious question? No, absolutely not. And what does it matter anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"Super gay."

Lol "I'm super, thanks for asking, all things considered I couldn't be better I must say.

I'm super, no nothing bugs me, everything is super when your,. Don't you think I look cute I. This hat"

Best song fro. The south park movie

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Chichester

"What if you like guiding another man in to your female partner. Does that make you gay? "

Proper gay that. Handling another fellows meat todger. Gosh

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By *wlmanMan
12 weeks ago

Rugby

"Look at my profile, if you get hard your gay, simple

I must be gay.... fantastic photos and what a body

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By *aizyWoman
12 weeks ago

west midlands

"What if you like guiding another man in to your female partner. Does that make you gay?

Proper gay that. Handling another fellows meat todger. Gosh

What if the first man's todger is having difficulties finding its way into the lady cave, and the second man puts gloves on and only uses a finger and thumb to guide the first man's todger in?!?

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By *hat.coupleCouple
12 weeks ago

Kent

"What if you like guiding another man in to your female partner. Does that make you gay?

Proper gay that. Handling another fellows meat todger. Gosh

What if the first man's todger is having difficulties finding its way into the lady cave, and the second man puts gloves on and only uses a finger and thumb to guide the first man's todger in?!?"

Mmmmm not gay as long as he is wearing gloves and only uses his fore finger and tip of his thumb.

Mrs x

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
12 weeks ago

Ipswich

No, I'm not gay, but I am bisexual and enjoy all forms of sex with all genders

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By *iddle ManMan
12 weeks ago

Walsall

No, that's like asking are you blind if you close your eyes.

You are what ever you like to be these days, I just don't see why people have to fit into this or that label.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
12 weeks ago

Manchester

"No, that's like asking are you blind if you close your eyes.

You are what ever you like to be these days, I just don't see why people have to fit into this or that label.

Labels are a useful and appreciated form of shorthand which helps set expectations and limitations. When scrolling through hundreds or thousands of profiles it helps to identify kindred spirits with a minimum of time being wasted in unnecessary communication.

Of course this only works if people are honest when describing themselves.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Chichester

"No, that's like asking are you blind if you close your eyes.

You are what ever you like to be these days, I just don't see why people have to fit into this or that label.

Of course this only works if people are honest when describing themselves. "

I do agree some labels are handy at times for time saving. Though personally how people perceive frankly is of no consequence to me ultimately

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By *onstrositieMan
12 weeks ago

Ashton Under- Lyne

Backstreet boys and baby wipes…

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By *ddfellowMan
12 weeks ago

wirral

"Pegging or rimming"
you are gay if you only like men.

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By *tuvyMan
12 weeks ago

bedford

"Pegging or rimming you are gay if you only like men."

Thank god for being bi

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By *inkyRebelMan
12 weeks ago

Swindon

Fish sticks. ( southpark quote)

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By *ackgroundTV/TS
9 weeks ago

BARROW-IN-FURNESS

I'm into being pegged and rimmed but that meant I wanted to try real thing.

As a crossdresser from 14 years old I knew I was going to end up sucking and being fucked. I have a MRS but love cock also.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
9 weeks ago

Norwich

As others have said depends who is doing the pegging/rimming. Same as being sucked or giving anal.

To flip it round a lady taking anal doesn’t count as homosexual does she?

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By *K herts mMan
9 weeks ago

Fleetwood

I love being pegged my ex and her friend used to take turns pegging me.

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By *B24Couple
9 weeks ago

Durham

We do it from time to time and absolutely not gay like everyone else mentioned on here.

Its a turn on as its something a bit taboo and I enjoy being used rather than me in control all of the time!

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By *ycleguy300Man
9 weeks ago

Ely

"Look at my profile, if you get hard your gay, simple

I’m gay then it seems!!! Ooops haha

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