FabSwingers.com forum: Mrs tells me her mate on here

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tried broaching the subject to get the Mrs throughs on the life and concept of swinging with a view to say let's have a go... Other posts in forum looking for some advice on the approach.

Anyway during the suttle chat she said her mates into swinging and her and her fella get people round of a site. Partially mentioned fab.

Question is do I find them, block and avoid or risk it and message them. I'm here without permission

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

F.ck it message them and live life dangerously it would be like a game of Russian roulette

*disclaimer.. in the event of you being dumped or having your balls removed I’m not responsible

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By *ike_looking_forMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

what's the worst that could happen.....

well lets not think of that, do you fancy her mate?

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By *vonne5exMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Tried broaching the subject to get the Mrs throughs on the life and concept of swinging with a view to say let's have a go... Other posts in forum looking for some advice on the approach.

Anyway during the suttle chat she said her mates into swinging and her and her fella get people round of a site. Partially mentioned fab.

Question is do I find them, block and avoid or risk it and message them. I'm here without permission "
become friends, keep your friends close and your enemies closer, what I mean by this is you'll always be one step in front of them in regards to where they're going.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Tried broaching the subject to get the Mrs throughs on the life and concept of swinging with a view to say let's have a go... Other posts in forum looking for some advice on the approach.

Anyway during the suttle chat she said her mates into swinging and her and her fella get people round of a site. Partially mentioned fab.

Question is do I find them, block and avoid or risk it and message them. I'm here without permission "

It’s a trap !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?

You’re really asking us if it’s a good idea to message your wife’s friend looking to meet? A friend who is clearly close enough to divulge details about her sex life.

How do you think that will play out OP?

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By *ilverfox for youMan
over a year ago

Hull

Ask her if you both should look together ? She might get a kick out of searching

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By *econdtimelucky101Man
over a year ago

Near Birmingham.

"Really?

You’re really asking us if it’s a good idea to message your wife’s friend looking to meet? A friend who is clearly close enough to divulge details about her sex life.

How do you think that will play out OP? "

If he needs clarity, I would say not good!

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By *elshnewbies69Couple
over a year ago

valleys

There's playing with fire and then there's completely shooting yourself in the foot, I'd say it falls into the latters category.

Speak to your partner about it and see if it's something she wants to do and if it isn't, we'll that's another chat altogether

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By *ornym66Man
over a year ago

Col /ips

Don't go there let your missus do the first move with her mate just give sutle hints do go mad at it

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By *ornym66Man
over a year ago

Col /ips

Sorry don't go mad at it

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By *pace cowboy05Man
over a year ago

wales/london/ southwest

What did the rest of the conversation go like op? Did it just end, you got far enough to discuss the fact she has a swinger friend, was she interested or dismissive?

Either way it sounds like a recipe for disaster to seek them out before your Mrs knows.

Suggest you ask her to have a look together, but let us know rest of convo

Good luck

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By *r.EdibleMan
over a year ago

Fraserburgh

Of course it could well be that your wife knows you are playing away and already knows you have a profile on Fab, hence the subtle mention of her friends situation.....

Either way, it looks like you're going to get rumbled at some point if you think messaging the friends is a good idea!!!

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Deary deary me.... So many red flags here I could make bunting to wrap around the equator...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's either gonna find out about your profile....and you're stuffed.

Or agree to swinging, and promptly run off with a taller, richer, better hung stranger (who makes better decisions).

Or something..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course it could well be that your wife knows you are playing away and already knows you have a profile on Fab, hence the subtle mention of her friends situation.....

Either way, it looks like you're going to get rumbled at some point if you think messaging the friends is a good idea!!!"

This is exactly what I think has happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask her if you both should look together ? She might get a kick out of searching "

Make it like its her idea

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why don't you show your wife your profile....see if she wants to make a couples account.. 🤔

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

M54

"Why don't you show your wife your profile....see if she wants to make a couples account.. 🤔 "

Reading between the lines she already has a single profile so it makes sense

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Why don't you show your wife your profile....see if she wants to make a couples account.. 🤔

Reading between the lines she already has a single profile so it makes sense

Her mate probably helped her set it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really?

You’re really asking us if it’s a good idea to message your wife’s friend looking to meet? A friend who is clearly close enough to divulge details about her sex life.

How do you think that will play out OP? "

Honestly - men.... I have no words....

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Are you sure your wife doesn't know you're here? It sounds like she's dropping a hint to get your reaction. Either way the fact you're considering messaging her friend sounds like you're on borrowed time

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

as soon as they posted this post up it wont be long before there found out

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