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By (user no longer on site) OP   
13 weeks ago

Hi guys and gals I'm interested in what everyone's, particularly the ladies of fabs, how long do you want and expect a guy to fuck you for? Howhow long would you find a bad or disappointing experience?

Personally I'm a very long stayer and cum is hard for me so can go for hours and still not cum. I think this might be an interesting thread.

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By *xfordjohnMan
13 weeks ago

Oxford

I'm the same as you - can keep going and not cum, so prefer to alternate what we do. Often the lady begins to worry about becoming sore, so usually an hour to an hour and a half (of course we are all older too so can't keep going for ever).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
13 weeks ago

I can go for hours and hours but love to fuck then keep licking women out for ages and the nipples

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

The thing is people who watch pron and stuff like is have the wrong idea for how long sex and stuff should last I see around 15 to 20 minute

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By *elly and daveCouple
13 weeks ago

gateshead


"I can go for hours and hours but love to fuck then keep licking women out for ages and the nipples"

As long as he's finished by the time I eat my pot noodle..I'm happy!

🤣🤣🤣

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By *vaRoseWoman
13 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Do you mean just penetration? Meh not that bothered as long as it’s more than a few min.

Sex to me is so much more than a quick hump. Teasing, edging, oral, hands, mouth, toys … I don’t like to rush things so a full afternoon is ideal

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"Hi guys and gals I'm interested in what everyone's, particularly the ladies of fabs, how long do you want and expect a guy to fuck you for? Howhow long would you find a bad or disappointing experience?

Personally I'm a very long stayer and cum is hard for me so can go for hours and still not cum. I think this might be an interesting thread. "

Personally you are my idea of hell

I want the session to last hours but if you're banging away for hours I'm out!

Bev

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
13 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

If the guy cant cum, then it ends when Mrs CD taps out from the pair of us.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
13 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

All in flux.

I'm very easily stimulated. I'm more than happy with a quickie when that's the mood.

If I'm seeing someone for the first time and it's a quickie and done then they're not coming back though.

Hours and hours gets tiresome and chafes.

Moods and contexts 💜

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Depends on situation, mood, person you’re with etc etc.

A “quickie” over the kitchen table or in the car, could become uncomfortable if it’s too long

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
13 weeks ago


"Hi guys and gals I'm interested in what everyone's, particularly the ladies of fabs, how long do you want and expect a guy to fuck you for? Howhow long would you find a bad or disappointing experience?

Personally I'm a very long stayer and cum is hard for me so can go for hours and still not cum. I think this might be an interesting thread.

Personally you are my idea of hell

I want the session to last hours but if you're banging away for hours I'm out!

Bev"

Hi bev I'd don't mean to be banging away in. You relentlessly all the. Time I mean hours and hours of foreplay. With lots of massage kissing stroking endless teasing and loads of pussy licking and fingering I always love to make the woman cum alot over my own. Orgasm as it takes ages to cum. Hope that makes it better for you bev xx

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
13 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Normally a couple of hours is enough for me with my partner,

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By *ucka39Man
13 weeks ago

Newcastle

Few hours to several hours depending upon the mix of foreplay and each other satisfied and not exhausted

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By *oughmanMan
13 weeks ago

Sunderland

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By *oughmanMan
13 weeks ago

Sunderland

I don't have any trouble but I'm usually good for a few rounds with little to no recovery. But I'll go with whatever pleases her. That's more of a high for me. So however long it takes. I usually like at least half a day though.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"Hi guys and gals I'm interested in what everyone's, particularly the ladies of fabs, how long do you want and expect a guy to fuck you for? Howhow long would you find a bad or disappointing experience?

Personally I'm a very long stayer and cum is hard for me so can go for hours and still not cum. I think this might be an interesting thread.

Personally you are my idea of hell

I want the session to last hours but if you're banging away for hours I'm out!

Bev

Hi bev I'd don't mean to be banging away in. You relentlessly all the. Time I mean hours and hours of foreplay. With lots of massage kissing stroking endless teasing and loads of pussy licking and fingering I always love to make the woman cum alot over my own. Orgasm as it takes ages to cum. Hope that makes it better for you bev xx"

It does, thank you.

I wasn't trying to offend, we are all looking for something different

I just meant for me personally, I love the foreplay & prefer someone that can cum, rest repeat....maybe its my ego, needing to know I'm doing a good job

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
13 weeks ago


"Hi guys and gals I'm interested in what everyone's, particularly the ladies of fabs, how long do you want and expect a guy to fuck you for? Howhow long would you find a bad or disappointing experience?

Personally I'm a very long stayer and cum is hard for me so can go for hours and still not cum. I think this might be an interesting thread.

Personally you are my idea of hell

I want the session to last hours but if you're banging away for hours I'm out!

Bev

Hi bev I'd don't mean to be banging away in. You relentlessly all the. Time I mean hours and hours of foreplay. With lots of massage kissing stroking endless teasing and loads of pussy licking and fingering I always love to make the woman cum alot over my own. Orgasm as it takes ages to cum. Hope that makes it better for you bev xx

It does, thank you.

I wasn't trying to offend, we are all looking for something different

I just meant for me personally, I love the foreplay & prefer someone that can cum, rest repeat....maybe its my ego, needing to know I'm doing a good job "

I adore hours and hours of foreplay Bev and trust me you would be doing N excellent job I stay hard forever just cumming and issue with me I would hope how I pleasure you showed I was loving it with you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
13 weeks ago

There is nothing better for me than to spend all night pleasuring a sexy woman with hands fingers and a talented tongue and getting her to cum over and over again with sensual arousal which in my personal experiences drives a woman wilder for a guy that just wham bam

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By *unx2019Couple
13 weeks ago

Moray

Rather have a good repeater than just be banged away at for hours. Good 20-30 minutes then the feeling as he comes, chat, foreplay, teasing, etc then back to being filled again.... Perfect afternoon for me

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By *andb69Couple
13 weeks ago

leeds

For casual encounters in a club I prefer men to cum reasonably quickly - it's flattering if I excite them so much they can't stop themselves. What is more I can then move on to the next guy! In arranged meets it depends on the man or men.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
13 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

From walking in to walking out about an hour, a bit longer if I know you for a long time and we have a bit of a natter after but not much longer.

If you arrive at 12pm by 1:10 I expected to have striped the bed freshened up and put the kettle on.

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By *hataliceinwanderlustWoman
13 weeks ago

Cambs

No more than an hour of action is fine for me, very busy person, don’t have time to be hanging around!

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

A quicky can be amazing, a hour can be amazing, going all night would bore me.

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By *iddle ManMan
13 weeks ago

Walsall

Look, if the whole thing is lasting longer than 30 seconds, everyone is happy.

Joking aside, I does vary a lot, depending on the situation, a quickie can sometimes be great, but other times it's good to savour the good things and enjoy it all, as long as we can. Many factors impact how long you are at it. No two are the same.

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By *untime650Man
12 weeks ago

south

However long you want if it includes forplay, if it’s just penetration it’s varies massively could be a few minutes to 15-20mins, any longer than that and I’ll pass out (lol).

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