FabSwingers.com forum: Timewasters

By *andyh78 OP Man
3 weeks ago

manchester

What is the point of chatting for two days, then sending a friend request and them agreeing to meet next week if they then block you?

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
3 weeks ago

They got cold feet 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *arialoueWoman
3 weeks ago

Doncaster

This is y I don't meet anymore

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Central

Interests change, they find more information, that makes someone more or less mutually compatible: their home/life circumstances change, including romantic life, etc.

Virgin chat, progressing through learning someone and their tastes, can also include someone learning about themselves, including what they really need and want.

Making realistic expectations is up to each of us, so we stay grounded etc. Do things your way, not dictated to by others

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By *ustus5555Woman
3 weeks ago

Mansfield

Being a little pessimistic here maybe, but it's probably the male of a cpl (if indeed it is actually a cpl) that's been messaging. She probably has no clue. 🤷

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Northumberland

"Being a little pessimistic here maybe, but it's probably the male of a cpl (if indeed it is actually a cpl) that's been messaging. She probably has no clue. 🤷"

Spot on!

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By *punk n gushCouple
3 weeks ago

deal

Does happen on here alot

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Chatting for days?

Shit, I'm lucky if I get an hour at best until you can literally spot the moment they cum and block you...

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

We are lucky we get any messages hahaha

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By *phrodisiac2000Man
3 weeks ago

saddleworth NW

"They got cold feet 🤷🏻‍♀️"

Didn’t that use to be a program on telly

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By *iss DevilWoman
3 weeks ago

Bedford

People are allowed to change their minds, OP. As others have said, the more you chat with someone and get to know them and their preferences, sometimes red flags can come out. Ones that you couldn't see in the initial chat. Or it could be even something as simple as you're supporting the "wrong" football club or wearing wrong colour/style underwear in your picture. Trying to figure out the reason is going to make your head hurt, so just block them back and move on. It's part of life on Fab, unfortunately, and doesn't happen just to men.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
3 weeks ago

Chatham

They get cold feet.

You say something that changes there mind.

They meet someone else and prefer they're company.

They have a medical issue and don't want to play anymore.

It always baffles me when people say the scenario you describe is time wasting, consent can be revoked at anytime. It may be give you big emotions to deal with and that's ok, but people can change they're mine for any reason.

Given you know with a week in advance they didn't really waste your time, you have time to rearrange.

Blocking with no communication is shitty but, people be weird

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By *aomilatteCouple
3 weeks ago

Midlands

"What is the point of chatting for two days, then sending a friend request and them agreeing to meet next week if they then block you?"

Is it because it's a man pretending to be a woman or a couple and they get a kick out of it?

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By *tanlee1512Man
3 weeks ago

Epsom

Plenty of timwasters on here unfortunately

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By *xxblackcatxxxMan
3 weeks ago

NEWBURY

Mmm yes there are plenty of time wasters here the challenge is trying to navigate around them

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By *andyh78 OP Man
3 weeks ago

manchester

[Removed by poster at 28/04/25 23:25:24]

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By *andyh78 OP Man
3 weeks ago

manchester

"What is the point of chatting for two days, then sending a friend request and them agreeing to meet next week if they then block you?

Is it because it's a man pretending to be a woman or a couple and they get a kick out of it?"

No. It was a verified couple.

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By *isitingbiMan
3 weeks ago

London

It happens. Move on. Fewer social niceties on line. Just because someone is chatting does not mean they are going to meet.

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By *Silver-Man
3 weeks ago

North Wales

"What is the point of chatting for two days, then sending a friend request and them agreeing to meet next week if they then block you?

Is it because it's a man pretending to be a woman or a couple and they get a kick out of it?

No. It was a verified couple. "

You have been a member for over a year, I would have thought you knew that this happens on here. Take it on the chin pal..

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By *phrodisiac2000Man
3 weeks ago

saddleworth NW

"People are allowed to change their minds, OP. As others have said, the more you chat with someone and get to know them and their preferences, sometimes red flags can come out. Ones that you couldn't see in the initial chat. Or it could be even something as simple as you're supporting the "wrong" football club or wearing wrong colour/style underwear in your picture. Trying to figure out the reason is going to make your head hurt, so just block them back and move on. It's part of life on Fab, unfortunately, and doesn't happen just to men. "

This is a good response tbf

You just never know with people and as she says just block them back and move on pal

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By *atchbewatchedMan
3 weeks ago

Wakefield

I've blocked after chatting before, because you agree how far you are comfortable going and orange to meet, the the other party suddenly starts pushing for more and more beyond what you originally agreed.... Instant block

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By *cgmcgMan
3 weeks ago

kingston

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By *cgmcgMan
3 weeks ago

kingston

1. It's a guy who likes to catfish

2. You said something they didn't like

3. They didn't like your pics

Of these, I would put 70% on 1

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