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"Are we the only people on Fab to experience yet another let down? This is the fourth one over a couple of months. All of them were meet verified, 2 gave the usual excuses but 2 just stopped messaging on the day. Where are all of the genuine guys gone?" you’d be surprised the few of us that are left are also getting a lot of let downs or time wasters I’ve had multiple in the last two weeks | |||
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"Where are all of the genuine guys gone?" got swomped during/after lockdpwn times | |||
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"Happens all the time. It’s why we deleted our previous account. Only log in now to check for social and club events " I'm thinking of deleting the profile, what's the point if no one meets anymore | |||
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"Happens all the time. It’s why we deleted our previous account. Only log in now to check for social and club events I'm thinking of deleting the profile, what's the point if no one meets anymore " Looking at your profile, cant believe they let you down, very sexy looking and would be great to have a play with you both | |||
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"Are we the only people on Fab to experience yet another let down? This is the fourth one over a couple of months. All of them were meet verified, 2 gave the usual excuses but 2 just stopped messaging on the day. Where are all of the genuine guys gone?" just wanna volunteer not to be a dissapointment and not turn up  | |||
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"Yeh. Arrange 4X more than you need then if you have too many, it’s a better problem than none and a waste of time haha" I like your way of thinking | |||
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"Are we the only people on Fab to experience yet another let down? This is the fourth one over a couple of months. All of them were meet verified, 2 gave the usual excuses but 2 just stopped messaging on the day. Where are all of the genuine guys gone?" I know the feeling of being let down and time wasters OP but genuine guy here | |||
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"Are we the only people on Fab to experience yet another let down? This is the fourth one over a couple of months. All of them were meet verified, 2 gave the usual excuses but 2 just stopped messaging on the day. Where are all of the genuine guys gone?" That is ridiculous, you look like everymans dream woman to me. (Hubby). | |||
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"Are we the only people on Fab to experience yet another let down? This is the fourth one over a couple of months. All of them were meet verified, 2 gave the usual excuses but 2 just stopped messaging on the day. Where are all of the genuine guys gone?" Unfortunately we've lost track of the number of let downs we've had via Fab which is why we try to ensure all first meets are at clubs now. Even the most 'genuine' looking profiles who state they are 'not like the others' can be capable of disappointment. And we might add, it's not just single guys  | |||
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"Happened to me loads times. The amount of women that start period early just as you say your setting off. Unreal" Ahh yes, the old “Mother Nature hates me” message……  | |||
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"If no shows and let downs are happening to you on a regular occurrence maybe change the way you carry out your due diligence. Continue with the same pattern you will get the same result." Yes I get what you are saying but the same due diligence has worked for the last 8 years without any problems. Why in the last 6 months or so has all of the time wasting started? | |||
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"We get it too This is why we now only meet single males in clubs unless we're in the mood to invite one to ours (and even then we get the oh I can't make it tonight can I come on Wednesday instead 🤦 no if we wanted you to join us then we would have said would you like to meet on Wednesday)" We don't always want to go to a club, our local one only holds an event to suit us once a month so we want to host occasionally. Why is it so difficult. | |||
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"Happens all the time. It’s why we deleted our previous account. Only log in now to check for social and club events I'm thinking of deleting the profile, what's the point if no one meets anymore " People do meet though. Maybe it's time to change how you go about things | |||
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"Are we the only people on Fab to experience yet another let down? This is the fourth one over a couple of months. All of them were meet verified, 2 gave the usual excuses but 2 just stopped messaging on the day. Where are all of the genuine guys gone?" I'm not far from you, you should keep me in mind as back up incase of a no show  | |||
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"Are we the only people on Fab to experience yet another let down? This is the fourth one over a couple of months. All of them were meet verified, 2 gave the usual excuses but 2 just stopped messaging on the day. Where are all of the genuine guys gone?" When the Ex and I started, there was no internet lol and in Africa. We relied on word of mouth and Taxi drivers. When the internet came along we were living here and found it difficult to find anything so we turned our attention to Dogging which was full of fun. The only 2 good swinger sites we had ever found was when I got a long term contract in Oz. Met many fantastic single/married men who didn't let us down. Also met a good few couples that were into the same thing as us over there. | |||
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"Are we the only people on Fab to experience yet another let down? This is the fourth one over a couple of months. All of them were meet verified, 2 gave the usual excuses but 2 just stopped messaging on the day. Where are all of the genuine guys gone?" It happened to me last night. A couple approached me on here. Swapped photos etc kept asking me to come over. When I agreed, they vanished🤷🏻♂️ I’m not bothered by it and you shouldn’t be. I think some are either attention seeking, not ever planning to meet. They’ve found something “better” or just bottled it. Don’t worry about it. Be you and enjoy it when it happens 😉 | |||
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"We get it too This is why we now only meet single males in clubs unless we're in the mood to invite one to ours (and even then we get the oh I can't make it tonight can I come on Wednesday instead 🤦 no if we wanted you to join us then we would have said would you like to meet on Wednesday)" Nothing worse than entitled couples who think a guy will come running at the drop of a hat, just because they’re free that evening….
After over 13 years in Fab, I’ve never let anyone down for a pre-arranged meet. I have been cancelled on last minute, and ghosted plenty of times though, and even taken the oft-quoted advice of “Just go to a club”……..only to discover what discrimination actually feels like… | |||
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"If no shows and let downs are happening to you on a regular occurrence maybe change the way you carry out your due diligence. Continue with the same pattern you will get the same result. Yes I get what you are saying but the same due diligence has worked for the last 8 years without any problems. Why in the last 6 months or so has all of the time wasting started? " Maybe the advice this poster is giving couples to better their chances is how the folk arranging meets are managing their meets. 'Arrange 4X more than you need then if you have too many, it’s a better problem than none and a waste of time haha' For every meet there will be 3 let downs.... you (not personally) become the timewaster. Ergo this is shit advice🤷♀️🙄 This place is like everywhere, peaks n troughs of meets n dry spells. Nature of the game 🥰 | |||
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"Are we the only people on Fab to experience yet another let down? This is the fourth one over a couple of months. All of them were meet verified, 2 gave the usual excuses but 2 just stopped messaging on the day. Where are all of the genuine guys gone?" Genuine from Bath here x | |||
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"Are we the only people on Fab to experience yet another let down? This is the fourth one over a couple of months. All of them were meet verified, 2 gave the usual excuses but 2 just stopped messaging on the day. Where are all of the genuine guys gone?" I will not confirm a meet until certain if making time/place/date.... Recently been chatting to a few couples/ladies... All seems fine then suddenly no longer there!! Annoying especially on one where I had set off to meet train journey... Luckily checked phone at station!!! | |||
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"Are we the only people on Fab to experience yet another let down? This is the fourth one over a couple of months. All of them were meet verified, 2 gave the usual excuses but 2 just stopped messaging on the day. Where are all of the genuine guys gone? I'm not far from you, you should keep me in mind as back up incase of a no show "I had a guy that I could have messaged and he would have arrived within minutes (he lives a 2 minute walk away) but I just cba, it's so disheartening. But thank you for the offer | |||
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"Are we the only people on Fab to experience yet another let down? This is the fourth one over a couple of months. All of them were meet verified, 2 gave the usual excuses but 2 just stopped messaging on the day. Where are all of the genuine guys gone? The is a well known dogging site not far from us. It's not something that we've ever been tempted to try. What if we make the effort to go and there's no one that I would want to have sex with, another wasted night. When the Ex and I started, there was no internet lol and in Africa. We relied on word of mouth and Taxi drivers. When the internet came along we were living here and found it difficult to find anything so we turned our attention to Dogging which was full of fun. The only 2 good swinger sites we had ever found was when I got a long term contract in Oz. Met many fantastic single/married men who didn't let us down. Also met a good few couples that were into the same thing as us over there." | |||
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"Are we the only people on Fab to experience yet another let down? This is the fourth one over a couple of months. All of them were meet verified, 2 gave the usual excuses but 2 just stopped messaging on the day. Where are all of the genuine guys gone? I will not confirm a meet until certain if making time/place/date.... Recently been chatting to a few couples/ladies... All seems fine then suddenly no longer there!! Annoying especially on one where I had set off to meet train journey... Luckily checked phone at station!!!" Date and time was confirmed, I had given him our postcode but not house number. I messaged him 2 hours before he was due to arrive and radio silence and not heard from him since. | |||
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