FabSwingers.com forum: Involving the Mrs

By *te0151 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

Save the energy if your response is "ask her"...

Really want to get away from this playing away business and involve the Mrs. I know we would have much more fun and don't know where to even start...

She is definitely got a potential swinging side in here I just know I need to get it out in the right way. All advice welcome. TIA

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By *iHungMan
3 weeks ago

blackpool

Pre arrange to get chatting to someone out but tell her it’s an old colleague, getting chatting as a 3, drinks flow, it’ll come naturally

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By *aizyWoman
3 weeks ago

west midlands

I know you say you don't want to hear ask her, but really OP it is the only way, when me and my partner started in this lifestyle I had no clue about any of it, he explained to me he would like to try a swinging club, we chatted about it for a while then tried it, and here we are.

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By *erICorknowCouple
3 weeks ago

cork

Watch some amature swinging porn with her and ask her what she thinks!

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
3 weeks ago

falkirk

Very good advise talk to her watch some porn and explain how much it turns you on. Take her out and encourage her to flirt with guys too.

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By *eekendVixenCouple
3 weeks ago

Leicester

Ask her but be patient. I introduced the idea to vixen and got knocked back a couple of times before we even considered taking it further.

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By *te0151 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Little update for you guys who helped me each phase 1.

So posted few days back looking for advice on getting the Mrs interested. Just thought I'd update following last nights discussion... Big thanks to everyone for their advice who replied and messaged me directly

It went like this..Nothing on TV as per usual, knew C4 would have some sort of swingers program. Was actually looking for open house as Jess and Mike are hot. Long story comes across young swingers first and the blurb pulled me in, bit of a mistake not good watch. So I made a comment and said let's see what goes on with this... Worst program ever sat there in masks throughout, intimidating rather than sexy.

Starts talking about could you would you etc... and my head could have fell off. She said X her mate and her fella as into swinging and use a site called fan something! My heart went nuts. To the point I was shaking, she picked up on it about 5 mins later and asked why I was shaking! Need to be extra careful now as I am here without permission!

Discussion went ok, talked about a fantasy of mine I sometimes use to wank over a MMF/MMFF with hermshe didn't engage loads but said she's not sharing me, half said well if you want me sha.. then and didn't finish the sentence. Felt the convo didn't have any legs and she wasn't opening up. At this point I was steaming especially knowing her mates at it. Finished off with a naughty shag and give her something to think about for a bit!

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By *utdoors584Man
2 weeks ago

Houghton-le-Spring

Slightly off subject but you mentioned your on here without her knowledge.. How's it planning out for you..I'm in a similar situation but can't get any action due to being married and my OH not being on here with me. Seems married guys are not very desirable. I've been accused on here as being a cheat.

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By *te0151 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Mate this place has been brilliant, been here a long time. I've met complete strangers and formed friendships and met people who I know which is always strange.

Unfortunately the sites had it's days. For me it feels like you have to go to a party or club both of which I really want to. Relationship is ok, sex is a process 17 years down line and I think we could both enjoy being in the lifestyle.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"Pre arrange to get chatting to someone out but tell her it’s an old colleague, getting chatting as a 3, drinks flow, it’ll come naturally "

Don't do this, it's crappy behaviour and pressuring her.

If she's told you she won't share you, then you have your answer I'd say op.

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