FabSwingers.com forum: How big is too big an age gap

By *syoulikeit69 OP Man
14 weeks ago

North London

I've developed a very strong relationship with a lady at work who is 16 years younger than me. I want her so much, and I'm pretty sure she feels the same, but is the gap too much?

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By *IXEN200Woman
14 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

Age is just a group of numbers and you are both over the age of consent so why would it be a problem, other than working together

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By *easeandplease99Man
14 weeks ago

exeter

To me i think it depends on the situation. Makes no difference if your fuck buddies but not so easy if its a full on relationship

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By *obert 323Man
14 weeks ago

Hastings

Age is just a number, if two people are attracted to each other then they should try to get together.

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By *ucka39Man
14 weeks ago

Newcastle

I wouldn't worry about it, are many people in a bigger age gap difference and in a relationship or even married

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By *ike_looking_forMan
14 weeks ago

Cumbria

numbers are numbers, but when work is involved makre sure it's not going to go bad

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

My sexy lady is many many years younger than me but says she can't see the difference between us - I can

She is sexy and I am old

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By *aizyWoman
14 weeks ago

west midlands

You're both consenting adults 🤷‍♀️

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By *samyhotwifeWoman
14 weeks ago

Dublin

"You're both consenting adults 🤷‍♀️"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

"You're both consenting adults 🤷‍♀️"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

If say the Mr is 50 and the female is 20 then the male would have been 30 when the female would have been born personally we think that is sick to think of and when people say age is just a number well that's exactly what pedos say

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By *xfordjohnMan
14 weeks ago

Oxford

"You're both consenting adults 🤷‍♀️

Exactly this"

My view too. There are plenty of women on here who express a wish to meet older men and it's surprised me how much older in some cases. They know what they are doing.

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By *issmorganWoman
14 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm guessing she's aware you're married and knows your age too. If so and she's still happy to get involved knowing those things, that's totally her decision.

You'd only be having fun & many people have larger age gaps on here.

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By *irwanksalot69Man
14 weeks ago

Birmingham

When I was in my 20s, I was the bigger younger cock for a married lady that must have been in her 60s. It was a v hot experience for all

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By *mfao88Man
14 weeks ago

north yorkshire

I don't think there is such a thing, as long as works for all concerned

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By *ampire69Man
14 weeks ago

Birmingham West Midlands

i dont belive there is such a thing as too big an age gap its just numbers and as we know numbers can be twisted to mean anything , its more about mental awareness and undestanding which does not equate to a persons age

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By *orkshirecouple69 returnCouple
14 weeks ago

doncaster

Got to be from 25 to 75 for us both

My wife has a kink for both older and younger men

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

"I've developed a very strong relationship with a lady at work who is 16 years younger than me. I want her so much, and I'm pretty sure she feels the same, but is the gap too much?"
nope I date a lady for 4 yrs 17 yrs different and was kinky and fun too

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By *ensman100Man
14 weeks ago

Hounslow

"I've developed a very strong relationship with a lady at work who is 16 years younger than me. I want her so much, and I'm pretty sure she feels the same, but is the gap too much?"

Nope! Not as long as you are both happy.

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By *espacito56Man
14 weeks ago

Orkney

No such thing as too big if it feels right to both parties.

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By *ickRoseBothBiCouple
14 weeks ago

Canterbury

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By *ack1971Man
13 weeks ago

Cork

I'm 53, she's 36. Best relationship we both have had. 6 years and neither of us planned it or looked for it.

We have no expectancy on each other. Age concerns me as I get older and we've no intention of parting, so I look after my health as much as I can.

For once in my life I have something to live for rather than drinking, smoking, or wasting my life thinking I'm having a great time.

The age gap made me stop, think, and act. I've never looked back and we do a relationship check every couple of months to keep things they way we want them to be.

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By *ainted_RomanceCouple
13 weeks ago

Guildford

33 and 53 here 5 years togethor, been amazing and eye opening x

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By *ayswings69Man
13 weeks ago

walsall

"33 and 53 here 5 years togethor, been amazing and eye opening x"

Awww sounds amazing xx

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
13 weeks ago

falkirk

18 and 52

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