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By *immers123 OP   Woman
14 weeks ago

South Molton

The other week I had a 2nd meet with someone and I paid for a cheap hotel room.

My thinking was it was a Sunday night, he had work in the morning so he could shoot off and I could make my way home without him messing around taking me early am.

But he asked me in the morning what I was doing and I said well I don't have to leave until 12 so I'll have a shower and a coffee then head home. He was acting a bit off, and kept saying have fun.. have fun then left without a shower or anything and never messaged again.

I just thought did he think I was going to have another bloke in there?? Tbh I was just enjoying a couple of hours peace, coffee hot shower then head home to the madness of family life.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
14 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

Does it matter what he thinks?

Let him think what he wants to think, and let you react in a way that brings you fun and joy. We can’t control the thoughts and actions of others. Only our own.

So enjoy the room, get another over if you would like more, or coffee and chill. Life is waaaaay too short to worry what others are thinking about as we’ll never know anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Should’ve told him to hurry up and leave before the rugby team arrive.

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By *inbad1976Man
14 weeks ago

Bristol

Sounds like he was starting to get possessive. Totally your call to do whatever you want, when and with who.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago


"Should’ve told him to hurry up and leave before the rugby team arrive. "

League or Union? The extra two might make it a squeeze for time.

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By *immers123 OP   Woman
14 weeks ago

South Molton


"The other week I had a 2nd meet with someone and I paid for a cheap hotel room.

My thinking was it was a Sunday night, he had work in the morning so he could shoot off and I could make my way home without him messing around taking me early am.

But he asked me in the morning what I was doing and I said well I don't have to leave until 12 so I'll have a shower and a coffee then head home. He was acting a bit off, and kept saying have fun.. have fun then left without a shower or anything and never messaged again.

I just thought did he think I was going to have another bloke in there?? Tbh I was just enjoying a couple of hours peace, coffee hot shower then head home to the madness of family life."

Don't matter a shit, was just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago


"Should’ve told him to hurry up and leave before the rugby team arrive.

League or Union? The extra two might make it a squeeze for time."

Let him ponder the possibilities. Could of been

‘Sevens’

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By *ea monkeyMan
14 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

This sounds like another instalment in the story of ‘people not using their words’! He was clearly thinking and feeling something and chose to get bothered by whatever it was.

It sounds very much like a him problem. I hope you enjoyed the room

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By *eroLondonMan
14 weeks ago

Covent Garden

I agree with him ⬆️. There is nothing more appealing than enjoying the solace and the solitude of a hotel room, either post coital or just for the heck of it.

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By *immers123 OP   Woman
14 weeks ago

South Molton


"This sounds like another instalment in the story of ‘people not using their words’! He was clearly thinking and feeling something and chose to get bothered by whatever it was.

It sounds very much like a him problem. I hope you enjoyed the room"

I did, it was only a cheap room but to have a couple of hours just to myself and be me, a nice hot shower and peace. Was lovely

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By *idden gemMan
14 weeks ago

sale

And there's nothing wrong with that you both had your fun that's what you were there for don't worry about it someone was clearly getting attached

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By *ssexfootmanMan
14 weeks ago

Essex

I'd just enjoy the quiet and have a chill. Just don't get enough of the time these days in this hectic world

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By *eed.a.signalMan
14 weeks ago

Local

Lucky it was a hotel, imagine it was your house!

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By *un4everMan
14 weeks ago

Near Edinburgh

Sounds to me like he was having trouble separating the sex from the hanging out afterwards. He sounds a bit awkward about it, perhaps outside his comfort zone. Anyway, dont worry - not your problem ultimately!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
14 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Fuck all to do with him.

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