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Importance of personality in profile content ?

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London

If I message you looking ultra hot and my profile's dull as dishwater five mins after an average looking guy has messaged who sounds a right ol cheeky monkey which um " me " would you choose to fuck ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's important I'd say. I updated mine to sound much more 'me' the other day and its garnered results!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the one with the nicer more interesting profile who sends a better message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not gonna lie and say looks don't count but I go for a good personality every time. If you are super hot but have the personality of a wet dishtowel, what's the fun in that?

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London

Have read yours and you sound like a guy singing from the same metaphorical hymn sheet as myself mate .

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Think it can sometimes be hard getting your personality across in a profile or any text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be that Solent air!

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London

Can't be anything else mate.

Was an " ex " standup in the " big smoke " although fair to say that the " ex " prefix merits further inspection.

We should team up and try and laugh em into bed as a double act like um Morecambe+Wise or indeed er Gilbert and George.

Can I be George ta,please,fanx ?

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London

Tis true BENDAROOS but giving it a crack eh ?

On inspection of your pics you'll do fine with blank text on your profile lol.

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By *orsetandheelsWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

I would go for the more interesting profile/message

I don't tend to look for eharmony levels of personal expression on here but it's good to know that you've got a sense of humour and something between your ears.

HTH!

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London

Just inspected your profile _orsetandheels and all is " highly agreeable " as you sound intelligent,chilled with a teasing pic that leaves much to ponder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I message you looking ultra hot and my profile's dull as dishwater five mins after an average looking guy has messaged who sounds a right ol cheeky monkey which um " me " would you choose to fuck ?"

average with the sense of humour everytime. personality counts a lot

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Personality every time....

what do you do with Mr Dull as dishwater when you need a break from the marathon all night sex session?

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By *ooking4you69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

The majority don't bother to read profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go for a hot looking guy with a good personality lets face it there are that many single guys on here u are sure to find one

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Personality every single time - I would simply be so bored with a guy that has nothing but his cock to offer. And when I am bored I can be mischievous - not a good combination

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London

simplyforfun and _pecifically1 warm the heart re the championing of substance over mere visual allure then spiderbaby goes and gets all greedy on us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would message the better looking one first in hope he had a good personality if we got chatting for a while, if it turned out he had'nt id wait till another good looking man mailed me who did. I wouldn't settle for a guy I wasn't attracted to just because he was a nice guy

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"simplyforfun and _pecifically1 warm the heart re the championing of substance over mere visual allure then spiderbaby goes and gets all greedy on us lol"

That is the beauty of Fab - we are all different...and there is enough for everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its often the case that after receiving a "fancy a fuck" message from a guy we check his profile & its says something like "will fill in later".

It actually tells us everything we need to know about the persons personality.

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London

Jimp1 looking at your red dress pic there's a touch of the Suzanne Danielle essence apparent.

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By *allen MadonnaWoman
over a year ago

In my own little world

a guy that can make me giggle has more chance of getting into my knickers than a guy with the toolage but no personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jimp1 looking at your red dress pic there's a touch of the Suzanne Danielle essence apparent."

Had to do a quick google search on that one but thank you.

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London

You're welcome jimp1.

A popular schoolboy pinup in the 80's was Suzanne.

Any blue tac marks on you can be removed via surgical spirit lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go for people with lots of personality because I don't have one. No point us both lying there like a wet fish looking at the ceiling.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If I message you looking ultra hot and my profile's dull as dishwater five mins after an average looking guy has messaged who sounds a right ol cheeky monkey which um " me " would you choose to fuck ?"

are you writing a paper on swinging James

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think it can sometimes be hard getting your personality across in a profile or any text.

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That depends on your personality of course!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like reading people's profiles, you can always tell who has gone the extra mile, it doesn't "always"come across in a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average cheeky chap probably

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Mr Average if his profile/message makes me smile or laugh like yours did

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I like reading people's profiles, you can always tell who has gone the extra mile, it doesn't "always"come across in a message. "

I don't think it is even the fact of going the extra mile... just a case of someone putting some actual thought into what they write and who it is aimed at.... as opposed to dulling out a tons of generic phrases which don't mean anything......

a lot can be said for personality.. and individuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like individuality in a profile, and humour too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could u tell me who the other guy is and I'll make a decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found that lots who message me obviously haven't read my profile :/

In answer to the OP, yes I think it is very important to 'sell yourself' with the real you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a guy that can make me giggle has more chance of getting into my knickers than a guy with the toolage but no personality"

I totally agree! I think my profile may come across as a little angry and scary which are two things I am not but I have found that it has helped attract peeps who can see the intended humour in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like reading people's profiles, you can always tell who has gone the extra mile, it doesn't "always"come across in a message.

I don't think it is even the fact of going the extra mile... just a case of someone putting some actual thought into what they write and who it is aimed at.... as opposed to dulling out a tons of generic phrases which don't mean anything......

a lot can be said for personality.. and individuality"

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

A good message, average face picture and bland profile = ok

A bad message, average face picture and bland profile = no

A good message, average face picture and an interesting profile = let me at 'em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would prefer the funny interesting message than an uninspiring message from a hot sex god. I'm not impressed by hot bodies, I can't keep up with the gym types either. A guy I can get on with, have silly chats with is more important to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes personality wins over on looks any day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having over the years come to realise just how important the right kind of chemistry is when it comes to swinging, I did my best to ensure that my profile was written in such a way as to outline pretty much exactly what it is I'm looking for out of swinging, though sometimes, I wonder if the whole thing reads a bit heavy and perhaps alienates me from swinging newcomers.

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By *otwifeguyMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"I'd go for a hot looking guy with a good personality lets face it there are that many single guys on here u are sure to find one "

I hear this so much on this site !!! Is there any point being a single guy on here ? Given how many there are . Would I be better off on another site ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone has the ability to write good prose, then they can make themselves seem far more interesting in their profile spiel than may actually be the case :D

Of course, for me at least, being able to string a sentence or two together in a pleasing fashion is a couple of points in the positive column already. Sad how few actually manage it *Insert comment about the woeful state of national education as you please*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality! A good intro message certainly helps too. Mr Gorgeous, with the big tool, who can't be bothered......he probs can't be bothered putting the effort in to please me.

Of course, we're all a bit shallow.....looks help!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Personality, personality, personality.

Unless you're an ugly fucker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much personality, if a guy can make me smile and laugh, then he's almost on to a winner, there still has to be some physical attraction tho, gorgeous but dull doesn't work for me.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"If I message you looking ultra hot and my profile's dull as dishwater five mins after an average looking guy has messaged who sounds a right ol cheeky monkey which um " me " would you choose to fuck ?"

Both.... together if possible.

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By *BW100Couple
over a year ago

Suffolk/Norfolk border


"the one with the nicer more interesting profile who sends a better message."

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London


"If I message you looking ultra hot and my profile's dull as dishwater five mins after an average looking guy has messaged who sounds a right ol cheeky monkey which um " me " would you choose to fuck ?

Both.... together if possible."

Ha! Ha! nice one original polo you greedy girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion none work on here as i'm obviously a witty, intelligent sex god with the profile to match but still don't get much attention on here.

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