FabSwingers.com forum: Red flags

By *iscreetstokecouple OP Couple
3 weeks ago

stoke

So when chatting with potential new people with a view to meeting what are immediate Red flags for you??

Old pictures are one for me. Just had a guy send 3 year old pictures

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By *.hrisMan
3 weeks ago

Bath

When I have a 'couple' messaging me and they reply 'mmmm' on everything, for some reason I just feel like it's a creepy old man instead of a couple, getting his kicks from fantasy talk 😂

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

East Sussex

I don't have one particular red flag but I can detect bs from many miles away.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
3 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

When it's a couples profile and they only have pictures of the female.

When they talk in singulars, me, I not us, we.

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By *eyeYCouple
3 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

We were going to put up a similar thread..

Us, Close up only pics ie no idea of overall physique.

Will not send face pics or if they do they are a dot in the distance or wearing shades.

As you, old pic's 🤷

One line messages, text speak or illiterate..

And a combination of all the above, there's probably a lot more that have slipped our minds.. 🤦

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By *ooliganMan
3 weeks ago

Preston

21 year old single women that have ticked every single box on the interests list

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By *immers123Woman
3 weeks ago

South Molton

Men who have pictures of naked women as their profile pic.. when it's definitely not a couples account. They get blocked instantly

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By *jgittes_ukMan
3 weeks ago

leighton buzzard

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By *jgittes_ukMan
3 weeks ago

leighton buzzard

"21 year old single women that have ticked every single box on the interests list

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By *heWanderer100Man
3 weeks ago

benfleet

When an unverified 18yo stunner decides that I, a chunky almost 50yo has “made me soaking wet!” Yeah, in that case sweetheart, you need help or tena lady!!

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

No pics at all, rightly or wrongly, I always assume they're hiding something.

Also any profiles that make derogatory status updates about other fab users.

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By *izzyrascalsCouple
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

Couples profile with only dick pics, been on here for years but neither photo verified or verified by other members. Those are always red flags for us, but pet hates are text speak, little or no grammar, spelling or punctuation, and basic lack of manners or etiquette.

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By *ereforfun200Man
3 weeks ago

North West

"When I have a 'couple' messaging me and they reply 'mmmm' on everything, for some reason I just feel like it's a creepy old man instead of a couple, getting his kicks from fantasy talk 😂"

I can agree totally with you there. It also makes me think that they're letting spaghetti hoops drip off their chin whilst looking totally vacant🤣

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By *eyond PurityCouple
3 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Couples profiles with only pics of Mrs - we have yet to be pleasantly surprised by the guy’s pics, if you eventually get them 😬

A single guy when we take them onto telegram to chat - they seem to want to display their cock as soon as possible - I’d say 4/5 guys do this and the chat doesn’t get off the ground.

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By *Ci LutherMan
3 weeks ago

Cumalot

‘Also find me on (name of another website) is a red flag for me

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By *ucka39Man
3 weeks ago

Newcastle

I use my mystical powers 🤷

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By *isandhers2Couple
3 weeks ago

Near

As we do solo meets, I prefer verified photos and maybe one or two veri’s.

But asking to meet straight away without asking my name always give me a red flag 😂

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By *oldyoudown41Man
3 weeks ago

caledonian

Friends request without even a basic (hello)first

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
3 weeks ago

the moon

Lots of veris ….. less is more

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By *eyeYCouple
3 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

"Couples profiles with only pics of Mrs - we have yet to be pleasantly surprised by the guy’s pics, if you eventually get them 😬

A single guy when we take them onto telegram to chat - they seem to want to display their cock as soon as possible - I’d say 4/5 guys do this and the chat doesn’t get off the ground.

Yup!!

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By *eyeYCouple
3 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

"Lots of veris ….. less is more "

Frankly heard that one before and think it's daft.

If it's multiple within a week maybe, however what about if they've been on the site multiple years and if they're mostly social? 🤷

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By *ondiego85Man
3 weeks ago

nottingham

Stuff like “find me on -another website-“, or “fab my pics to become friends”.

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By *ondiego85Man
3 weeks ago

nottingham

"Lots of veris ….. less is more "

Agree

I had a guy with dozen of veris that messaged me trying to organise a 3some and sending me pics of the girls. A quick picture search revealed that he was sending pics of content creators from the US

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
3 weeks ago

Leicester

"Lots of veris ….. less is more "

You're obviously entitled to your opinion but we would completely disagree with this. It's hard for us to see how few or no veris could be a point of reassurance and 'genuineness"

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By *Ci LutherMan
3 weeks ago

Cumalot

Buy me a subscription

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By *herrybakewellCouple
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Couples that question your preferences.

Also those couples who approach you and very bounty say we aren't interested in another male....but could we borrow your partner.

Boils my piss.

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
3 weeks ago

Scarborogh

Couples that give One line responses to messages, reasonable messages.

S/M, can I ask you a question 🙄.

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By *entleman JayMan
3 weeks ago

Wakefield

One word messages from people. No capital letter. No full stop.

Conversation is going nowhere.

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
3 weeks ago

the moon

"Lots of veris ….. less is more

You're obviously entitled to your opinion but we would completely disagree with this. It's hard for us to see how few or no veris could be a point of reassurance and 'genuineness""

And for me too many just tells me … nope ! ….

I pick my partners carefully 🍒💣.. each to their own

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By *lackssbbwukWoman
3 weeks ago

High Peak

- Trying to move to a different site

- Fake pictures

- Not willing to do a social

- Not wanting to swap face pics

There’s probably more but they’re the main ones I’ve come across

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