FabSwingers.com forum: Questioning veris

By *eryBigGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I've had someone contact me about a guy I've left a veri for. Now I'd never do this and think its a bit out of line but maybe that's just me! Thoughts anyone??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think as a single female safety is a massive issue and someone may just want as much information as possible Pre meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah i think that's a bit odd and if anyone mailed me asking about any i left i would tell them t ask the person in question.

What makes a good meet with one person might not with another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had something similar and politely said i am not divulging infornation as the meet and subsequent veri was personal.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've had someone contact me about a guy I've left a veri for. Now I'd never do this and think its a bit out of line but maybe that's just me! Thoughts anyone??"

One of the reasons I hid mine! Some people don't mind, I personally thought it inappropriate.

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By *eryBigGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Glad it seems its not just me then!! Needless to say I won't be telling her anything and have contacted the guy in question!!

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By *eryBigGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"I think as a single female safety is a massive issue and someone may just want as much information as possible Pre meet. "

Yeah as a fellow single female I totally agree about safety but still I'd never question a previous veri plus the stuff she's asking certainly ain't about the safety aspect of the meet!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had that from a very strange person saying "we've shagged the same person"

I said I never shagged him it was a social meet if you read it properly you'll see that

She wanted a MFF meet with him and it wasn't going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think they're doing it for suspicious reasons - report them.

There's a big difference between a polite general enquiry from a safety point of view and snooping or asking for details that are private and personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what they're asking. Like Obi says-if it's checking someone out for safety reasons we wouldn't have a problem endorsing someone but if they're just being nosey we'd tell them to jog on. Either way, we'd never give any personal or intimate information.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on what they're asking. Like Obi says-if it's checking someone out for safety reasons we wouldn't have a problem endorsing someone but if they're just being nosey we'd tell them to jog on. Either way, we'd never give any personal or intimate information."

This ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done this once. On a couple profile nearly 2 years old with one very old Verification.

The couple we asked told us they wished they could delete the verificationas things went bad afterwards.

So our suspicion was justified.

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

had this happen to me a few times,asking me if the veri was a good shag! i never reply cos what's a good shag to one might not be too another!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had someone let me know that they'd been messaged and asked questions about me - kind of uneasy about that - made me feel uncomfortable about the person in question

I'd rather they asked me anything they want to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you think they're doing it for suspicious reasons - report them.

There's a big difference between a polite general enquiry from a safety point of view and snooping or asking for details that are private and personal."

Said perfectly

I would also let the person being enquired about, know I'd had the email.

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