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"Yep. Concentrate on helping her feel good about herself. She might not want to come back to swinging, why do you want her to?" We both loved the lifestyle it wasn’t all about play a lot of times was fantastic social events | |||
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"Yep. Concentrate on helping her feel good about herself. She might not want to come back to swinging, why do you want her to? We both loved the lifestyle it wasn’t all about play a lot of times was fantastic social events " That's the problem when one half of a couple stops wanting to do something they both previously enjoyed. There's no compromise because either one gives something up or the other does something they don't want to. | |||
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"Yep. Concentrate on helping her feel good about herself. She might not want to come back to swinging, why do you want her to? We both loved the lifestyle it wasn’t all about play a lot of times was fantastic social events That's the problem when one half of a couple stops wanting to do something they both previously enjoyed. There's no compromise because either one gives something up or the other does something they don't want to. " Yes I certainly wouldn’t want her to do anything she doesn’t want to | |||
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"Yep. Concentrate on helping her feel good about herself. She might not want to come back to swinging, why do you want her to? We both loved the lifestyle it wasn’t all about play a lot of times was fantastic social events That's the problem when one half of a couple stops wanting to do something they both previously enjoyed. There's no compromise because either one gives something up or the other does something they don't want to. Yes I certainly wouldn’t want her to do anything she doesn’t want to" You want her to feel able to enjoy swinging again? Is it 100% her weight that's stopping her or is she using that as the reason when she just doesn't want to do it any more? Find out which it is. You can help her with the weight aspect either by encouraging her to lose it or by ensuring that she knows she's gorgeous at any weight. If she doesn't want to do it at all then there's no more you can do | |||
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"Been fabbing for years however she has lost interest in the site as she feels she has put to much weight on. Any ideas " I’m in the same position as your wife. I’m wanting to get back into meeting but my confidence isn’t great. We are planning on attending a few groups social events in the near future, I figure that’s a way to get back out there with no pressure. Maybe that could be an idea for you both. Donna | |||
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