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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

to me they are ppl who message for weeks,but do nothing bout meeting.

just saying like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or people who message, but wont show themselves? x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And a lot of people are absolutely genuine too but they are judged harshly because of the timewasters...

It's part of the game I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What tosh!

I speak to people on here who are on my friends list that I will never meet so are they are me time wasters??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've a friend in here who I met through the forums he's in America we won't ever meet but we are friends on fab, is that so wrong?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"to me they are ppl who message for weeks,but do nothing bout meeting.

just saying like."

don't keep replying! Z

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By *ombowieMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Been on here a few months now spoken to a few (ladies) arranged meets for them never to show up or when you do arrange a meet they stop chatting what's a boy to do ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a timewasting thread from a woman..thats unheard of!

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By *abulous cleavageWoman
over a year ago

Central


"I speak to people on here who are on my friends list that I will never meet so are they are me time wasters??"

I agree, I chat with guys who live miles away and we both know we will never meet. Does that make us both time wasters? Not in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to me they are ppl who message for weeks,but do nothing bout meeting.

just saying like."

They might be thinking the same about you if you've not tried to arrange a meet.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

What is stopping you doing something about meeting them???

If they start on excuses not to meet....stop wasting your own time and move on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I speak to people on here who are on my friends list that I will never meet so are they are me time wasters??

I agree, I chat with guys who live miles away and we both know we will never meet. Does that make

us both time wasters? Not in my opinion."

Exactly they become fab friends

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like chatting to people on here. I doubt if I will meet them all. I wish I could though! But I'm not a timewaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is stopping you doing something about meeting them???

If they start on excuses not to meet....stop wasting your own time and move on...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as u both know that u won't meet and make the choice just to chat then that's your choice .. I have lots of friends I've said "thanks but no thanks" to and they have asked if we can still chat ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

it was just my opinion.

so i will sit in the corner.bad me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"it was just my opinion.

so i will sit in the corner.bad me"

No, good you for having an opinion. It would be a dull place indeed if we all agreed.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"to me they are ppl who message for weeks,but do nothing bout meeting.

just saying like."

An actual time waster is someone who arranges a meet and doesn't show up! I think you need to rethink!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks,but now i feel bad.it was just my idea of this game.everyone wants diff things,i understand that.xx

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

I'm a timewaster! Apparently because I said no thank you to a couple recently I'm wasting peoples time being on here. Further I shouldn't have looking for couples on my profile if I'm not prepared to meet when they offer. Silly me I didn't realise that I was obliged to meet anyone who offered

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"thanks,but now i feel bad.it was just my idea of this game.everyone wants diff things,i understand that.xx "

There's something for everyone on this site which is one of the reasons why I like it so much. Maybe the person who kept messaging you thought that was what you wanted too. I message people on here, sometimes a lot of messages then nothing for a while, sometimes

intense sexual stuff, sometimes not.

Agree with Foxy. Timewaster is someone who says they will meet ans makes firm arrangements, then simply doesn't turn up.

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Is there a timescale for time wasting ? Shouldn't you set a limit

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"to me they are ppl who message for weeks,but do nothing bout meeting.

just saying like."

people move at different speeds on here....

if they are wanting to take it a pace that doesn't work for you... move on... simple as

I wouldn't call someone a timewaster for wanting to take their time.... but that is me!

the "t" word is one of those that is very easy to throw out there.. but you'll find people never apologise and take it back....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we chat to one or two people on here who we are highly unlikely to meet due to location or other factors. Its fun, it can be sexy and its good to be friendly.

Its a different story however if people give the impression that they are going to meet you when they have no intention of doing so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to me they are ppl who message for weeks,but do nothing bout meeting.

just saying like."

If you really want to meet them then YOU should suggest it. Least we forget, on Fab "The Pussy has the Power!"

It is very likely some of those people do not want to ask the $64,000 question because when polite fun chat turns to "can we meet?" it usually takes less than 3 nano seconds for some people to hit the block button.

So its a double edged sword. Good luck anyway.

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