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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, Mr Titus here.

I'm sure this topic has come up a million times before but you'll find I'm lazy and can't be bothered searching previous threads out....

I have been in the scene on and off for longer than I want to admit and in that time my _iews have changed dramatically around on a number of things including my personal preferences but what I have never understood in the scene are peoples _iews of bi men or specifically bi men within a couple.

Its almost taken for granted that in a couple the woman will be bi (and its actively encouraged in most cases) yet if the male of the couple says he is bi then it's an instant closing of the profile and continue the search.

Is it because the bi male might suddenly sneak up on him and try and shaft him?

I am a bi male but i have a brain, I can converse without needing to start groping you uncontrollably.

OK I get that everyone has their own likes and dislikes but then you find those same couples in clubs who you then end up playing with and he admits that it is something that interests him but he would never admit it on a website because of what people might think and the stigma attached to bi males.

The whole thing just seems a bit skewed to me.

Isn't swinging all about fun and enjoyment rather than having to repress though urges that we all joined the scene for in the first place?

I am pretty sure if you couples end up in a 4 some with a bi couple you will see that instead of it being just a bit of a play all together and then a swap and its all over that the whole dynamic and flow of the event changes constantly.

Anyway, not really a rant but I am personally very interested in what peoples thoughts on the subject are.

Oh and if any of you non bi couples are interested in getting to know us then be brave, we really don't bite and I promise not to molest you without asking first

Thanks for listening.

Mr Titus (but with Mrs Slinkys permission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And so we have the text on our profile to describe our feelings on this.

I' m finding that as time goes by I am less bothered in my bi side now, but sometimes it just clicks.

Profiles should read - could be bi lol. Then we can all point our fingers at the "gay" people as being those that would just jump on people without asking

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I couldn't care less what people think if they don't like me. I'm bi. No big deal. *looks down* def no big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am with you on this one brother .

When we joined this site with Mrs J profiled as Bi we found it as welcoming as LS with plenty of winks and messages then one day we decided that as Mrs J had tried and enjoyed finding her bi side that I should have a go.

We met a lovely guy at BGHS (Hi Steve) at it was fun.

We then updated our status on both sites and Ouch !, it suddenly got all echo'y .

If we have any redeeming features then one would be honesty and we are not going to lie about our/my sexuality but it sure pisses me off that its ok for her to be bi but a killer if I am also .

Also it's just something I tried and it was fun but not a major necessity for a meet but ,as mentioned before ,the presumption now appears that I am a raving shirt lifter who is a liability and danger to so called straight as lace men.

Oh pleeeaazze .

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By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York

I (male) will always ask in a club whether a man is Bi or not before any swap. Obviously if someone lies then there is not much I can do about it!

I have no concern that a Bi man is going to try and touch me that is not why we won't play with Bi males. The main reason is the risk of STD! In my opinion and from what i understand, Bi men are at most risk of HIV etc. No doubt I will be shot down in flames but this is what fuels my/our decision not to play with them.

I go as far as to make notes of men/cpls who out therselves as Bi in forums yet claim to be straight on their profile. We may be BIist and maybe even hipocritical as my wife is Bi, but this is my point of _iew. Sorry if it offends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (male) will always ask in a club whether a man is Bi or not before any swap. Obviously if someone lies then there is not much I can do about it!

I have no concern that a Bi man is going to try and touch me that is not why we won't play with Bi males. The main reason is the risk of STD! In my opinion and from what i understand, Bi men are at most risk of HIV etc. No doubt I will be shot down in flames but this is what fuels my/our decision not to play with them.

I go as far as to make notes of men/cpls who out therselves as Bi in forums yet claim to be straight on their profile. We may be BIist and maybe even hipocritical as my wife is Bi, but this is my point of _iew. Sorry if it offends."

If you don't take it up the arse , as it were , then how can I be any more at risk of STDs than Mrs J giving head etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am with you on this one brother .

When we joined this site with Mrs J profiled as Bi we found it as welcoming as LS with plenty of winks and messages then one day we decided that as Mrs J had tried and enjoyed finding her bi side that I should have a go.

We met a lovely guy at BGHS (Hi Steve) at it was fun.

We then updated our status on both sites and Ouch !, it suddenly got all echo'y .

If we have any redeeming features then one would be honesty and we are not going to lie about our/my sexuality but it sure pisses me off that its ok for her to be bi but a killer if I am also .

Also it's just something I tried and it was fun but not a major necessity for a meet but ,as mentioned before ,the presumption now appears that I am a raving shirt lifter who is a liability and danger to so called straight as lace men.

Oh pleeeaazze ."

You're dead right with this post. Some attitudes show towards bi-guys are a little disappointing and the reason why there are so many bi-straight guys on the site (I like to call them bait!).

My profile states that I play straight and if I didn't say so, no one would know I was bi and I assume that's the same for 99% of us.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I (male) will always ask in a club whether a man is Bi or not before any swap. Obviously if someone lies then there is not much I can do about it!

I have no concern that a Bi man is going to try and touch me that is not why we won't play with Bi males. The main reason is the risk of STD! In my opinion and from what i understand, Bi men are at most risk of HIV etc. No doubt I will be shot down in flames but this is what fuels my/our decision not to play with them.

I go as far as to make notes of men/cpls who out therselves as Bi in forums yet claim to be straight on their profile. We may be BIist and maybe even hipocritical as my wife is Bi, but this is my point of _iew. Sorry if it offends."

with respect that type of attitude reminds me of the 'witches sketch' in the Monty Python holy grail film..

so single fems, str8 cpls, bi fem cpls and single guys dont practise unsafe sex..?

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By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York


"I (male) will always ask in a club whether a man is Bi or not before any swap. Obviously if someone lies then there is not much I can do about it!

I have no concern that a Bi man is going to try and touch me that is not why we won't play with Bi males. The main reason is the risk of STD! In my opinion and from what i understand, Bi men are at most risk of HIV etc. No doubt I will be shot down in flames but this is what fuels my/our decision not to play with them.

I go as far as to make notes of men/cpls who out therselves as Bi in forums yet claim to be straight on their profile. We may be BIist and maybe even hipocritical as my wife is Bi, but this is my point of _iew. Sorry if it offends.

If you don't take it up the arse , as it were , then how can I be any more at risk of STDs than Mrs J giving head etc "

I think this is part f the problem. There appears to be so many different variations of Bi!! Some 'take it up the arse' as you put it, others will have their cock sucked but not suck someone else, someswap cum others don't!! To me a man is Bi or he isn't and we choose not to play wth them! besides what is the gripe? Why won't that straght couple play with a Bi couple!! As I hav said, my wife is Bi so we seek couples who have Bi fems.

There is also lots of oppertunity for Bi couples to get meets, The Lodge holds a Bi night once a month, get yourself along to that. There is also a number of Bi couples on this site who clearly state they are only looking for similar, I have no probs with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (male) will always ask in a club whether a man is Bi or not before any swap. Obviously if someone lies then there is not much I can do about it!

I have no concern that a Bi man is going to try and touch me that is not why we won't play with Bi males. The main reason is the risk of STD! In my opinion and from what i understand, Bi men are at most risk of HIV etc. No doubt I will be shot down in flames but this is what fuels my/our decision not to play with them.

I go as far as to make notes of men/cpls who out therselves as Bi in forums yet claim to be straight on their profile. We may be BIist and maybe even hipocritical as my wife is Bi, but this is my point of _iew. Sorry if it offends.

with respect that type of attitude reminds me of the 'witches sketch' in the Monty Python holy grail film..

so single fems, str8 cpls, bi fem cpls and single guys dont practise unsafe sex..?

"

Only bi men get std's. Everyone knows that.

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By *inkyrikMan
over a year ago

chorleywood

I even got told by a member to change my profile then id get more intrest.

but im bi so why should I lie about it and then im a hypocrite as im looking for tvs on my profile but it would read im straight.

there is a stigma about bi guys that they will jump you, in my case your quite safe unless you have a great female figure dress very sexily and are smooth then I can not guarantee I wont jump on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (male) will always ask in a club whether a man is Bi or not before any swap. Obviously if someone lies then there is not much I can do about it!

I have no concern that a Bi man is going to try and touch me that is not why we won't play with Bi males. The main reason is the risk of STD! In my opinion and from what i understand, Bi men are at most risk of HIV etc. No doubt I will be shot down in flames but this is what fuels my/our decision not to play with them.

I go as far as to make notes of men/cpls who out therselves as Bi in forums yet claim to be straight on their profile. We may be BIist and maybe even hipocritical as my wife is Bi, but this is my point of _iew. Sorry if it offends.

with respect that type of attitude reminds me of the 'witches sketch' in the Monty Python holy grail film..

so single fems, str8 cpls, bi fem cpls and single guys dont practise unsafe sex..?

Only bi men get std's. Everyone knows that. "

You forgot to mention they carry a bigger rabies threat than french dogs, started the great plague and fire of London as well as the most heinous act of stealing candy from babies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are many bi males hidding behind straight on their profile

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"I (male) will always ask in a club whether a man is Bi or not before any swap. Obviously if someone lies then there is not much I can do about it!

I have no concern that a Bi man is going to try and touch me that is not why we won't play with Bi males. The main reason is the risk of STD! In my opinion and from what i understand, Bi men are at most risk of HIV etc. No doubt I will be shot down in flames but this is what fuels my/our decision not to play with them.

I go as far as to make notes of men/cpls who out therselves as Bi in forums yet claim to be straight on their profile. We may be BIist and maybe even hipocritical as my wife is Bi, but this is my point of _iew. Sorry if it offends.

with respect that type of attitude reminds me of the 'witches sketch' in the Monty Python holy grail film..

so single fems, str8 cpls, bi fem cpls and single guys dont practise unsafe sex..?

Only bi men get std's. Everyone knows that.

You forgot to mention they carry a bigger rabies threat than french dogs, started the great plague and fire of London as well as the most heinous act of stealing candy from babies "

I still laugh at the pure, unadulterated, rednecked ignorance of some on here.

You would think, that being on a a sex site would mean that you research or at least engage brain before opening gob, matters of sexual preference.

But unashamed Luddite, fuckwitted ignorance is still rife.

......**oh and don't forget, that bi men will be the cause of the apocalypse as well....**

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By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York


"I (male) will always ask in a club whether a man is Bi or not before any swap. Obviously if someone lies then there is not much I can do about it!

I have no concern that a Bi man is going to try and touch me that is not why we won't play with Bi males. The main reason is the risk of STD! In my opinion and from what i understand, Bi men are at most risk of HIV etc. No doubt I will be shot down in flames but this is what fuels my/our decision not to play with them.

I go as far as to make notes of men/cpls who out therselves as Bi in forums yet claim to be straight on their profile. We may be BIist and maybe even hipocritical as my wife is Bi, but this is my point of _iew. Sorry if it offends.

with respect that type of attitude reminds me of the 'witches sketch' in the Monty Python holy grail film..

so single fems, str8 cpls, bi fem cpls and single guys dont practise unsafe sex..?

Only bi men get std's. Everyone knows that.

You forgot to mention they carry a bigger rabies threat than french dogs, started the great plague and fire of London as well as the most heinous act of stealing candy from babies "

I do believe I am right in saying that Bi men carry the biggest risk of STD/HIV. Of course not all and of course many will practise safe sex, however as I said previously it is my opinion and my _iew that Bi men are the highest risk group. Feel free to prove me wrong or block me!!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"there are many bi males hidding behind straight on their profile "

Normally because of the ignorance of others and their posturing to all those that will listen, that Bi men are 'unclean'

Ignorance is the main cause of all the troubles in the world,....... And men

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"I (male) will always ask in a club whether a man is Bi or not before any swap. Obviously if someone lies then there is not much I can do about it!

I have no concern that a Bi man is going to try and touch me that is not why we won't play with Bi males. The main reason is the risk of STD! In my opinion and from what i understand, Bi men are at most risk of HIV etc. No doubt I will be shot down in flames but this is what fuels my/our decision not to play with them.

I go as far as to make notes of men/cpls who out therselves as Bi in forums yet claim to be straight on their profile. We may be BIist and maybe even hipocritical as my wife is Bi, but this is my point of _iew. Sorry if it offends.

with respect that type of attitude reminds me of the 'witches sketch' in the Monty Python holy grail film..

so single fems, str8 cpls, bi fem cpls and single guys dont practise unsafe sex..?

Only bi men get std's. Everyone knows that.

You forgot to mention they carry a bigger rabies threat than french dogs, started the great plague and fire of London as well as the most heinous act of stealing candy from babies

I do believe I am right in saying that Bi men carry the biggest risk of STD/HIV. Of course not all and of course many will practise safe sex, however as I said previously it is my opinion and my _iew that Bi men are the highest risk group. Feel free to prove me wrong or block me!!"

Unprotected anal sex carries the biggest risk

So the biggest risk carries are those whole bareback... Be they male, female, bi, straight, gay, drug users, puritanical fanatics or idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, me and my boyfriend know what you're going through! We hardly have any interest in us whatsoever, Not sure if it's because of our "looks" or the fact that he is bisexual(I am too btw) People assume just because he's Bisexual, he'll automatically pounce on the guy. He can play straight too.

Oh and the fact that bisexual men are more at risk of catching HIV/AIDS is aload of bollocks. ANYONE is at risk catching the disease.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind bi men at all..I just dont play with them, and I make sure thats known before making meet plans...it might be joked about ON the meet lol..but I know why I'm on the meet..and afraid only one half actually makes me sexually exciteable

I'd feel more comfortable knowing the male half is bi, than thinking I can start seeing him concentrating more on me than his partner as he pretends straightmaleness..that i have found offputting (and yes..i end up most of the time knowing they are bi, or the profile changes to bi)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (male) will always ask in a club whether a man is Bi or not before any swap. Obviously if someone lies then there is not much I can do about it!

I have no concern that a Bi man is going to try and touch me that is not why we won't play with Bi males. The main reason is the risk of STD! In my opinion and from what i understand, Bi men are at most risk of HIV etc. No doubt I will be shot down in flames but this is what fuels my/our decision not to play with them.

I go as far as to make notes of men/cpls who out therselves as Bi in forums yet claim to be straight on their profile. We may be BIist and maybe even hipocritical as my wife is Bi, but this is my point of _iew. Sorry if it offends.

with respect that type of attitude reminds me of the 'witches sketch' in the Monty Python holy grail film..

so single fems, str8 cpls, bi fem cpls and single guys dont practise unsafe sex..?

Only bi men get std's. Everyone knows that.

You forgot to mention they carry a bigger rabies threat than french dogs, started the great plague and fire of London as well as the most heinous act of stealing candy from babies

I do believe I am right in saying that Bi men carry the biggest risk of STD/HIV. Of course not all and of course many will practise safe sex, however as I said previously it is my opinion and my _iew that Bi men are the highest risk group. Feel free to prove me wrong or block me!!"

Prove you wrong ? Block you ? Why ? I have no agenda and trust me on this one, you'll not get an STI from your interaction with me on here, or will you mwahahaha

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By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York


"Hey, me and my boyfriend know what you're going through! We hardly have any interest in us whatsoever, Not sure if it's because of our "looks" or the fact that he is bisexual(I am too btw) People assume just because he's Bisexual, he'll automatically pounce on the guy. He can play straight too.

Oh and the fact that bisexual men are more at risk of catching HIV/AIDS is aload of bollocks. ANYONE is at risk catching the disease. "

Rght, i shall make one more comment an leave all you Bi male couples to organise meets together seeing as how there is 'apparently' not many of you around!

I have never said, that anyone who does not practise safe sex is not at risk be it Bi, Gay, straight, sometimes Bi, play straight Bi!!

What I have said, and I have just googled it on the NHS site, is that MEN who have UNPROTECTED sex with other MEN are at the highest risk.

My understanding is that Men who have sex with other men, are either GAY or BI!!! Hense we do not play with BI men!! hear endeth my rant...thank you and goodnight xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, me and my boyfriend know what you're going through! We hardly have any interest in us whatsoever, Not sure if it's because of our "looks" or the fact that he is bisexual(I am too btw) People assume just because he's Bisexual, he'll automatically pounce on the guy. He can play straight too.

Oh and the fact that bisexual men are more at risk of catching HIV/AIDS is aload of bollocks. ANYONE is at risk catching the disease.

Rght, i shall make one more comment an leave all you Bi male couples to organise meets together seeing as how there is 'apparently' not many of you around!

I have never said, that anyone who does not practise safe sex is not at risk be it Bi, Gay, straight, sometimes Bi, play straight Bi!!

What I have said, and I have just googled it on the NHS site, is that MEN who have UNPROTECTED sex with other MEN are at the highest risk.

My understanding is that Men who have sex with other men, are either GAY or BI!!! Hense we do not play with BI men!! hear endeth my rant...thank you and goodnight xx"

Hang on a minute , before you go to bed.

How do you know that that straight couple have not been bare backing ?.

Unprotected sex is what you said .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, me and my boyfriend know what you're going through! We hardly have any interest in us whatsoever, Not sure if it's because of our "looks" or the fact that he is bisexual(I am too btw) People assume just because he's Bisexual, he'll automatically pounce on the guy. He can play straight too.

Oh and the fact that bisexual men are more at risk of catching HIV/AIDS is aload of bollocks. ANYONE is at risk catching the disease.

Rght, i shall make one more comment an leave all you Bi male couples to organise meets together seeing as how there is 'apparently' not many of you around!

I have never said, that anyone who does not practise safe sex is not at risk be it Bi, Gay, straight, sometimes Bi, play straight Bi!!

What I have said, and I have just googled it on the NHS site, is that MEN who have UNPROTECTED sex with other MEN are at the highest risk.

My understanding is that Men who have sex with other men, are either GAY or BI!!! Hense we do not play with BI men!! hear endeth my rant...thank you and goodnight xx"

So you assume that all gay and bisexual men have unprotected sex? Lol

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Hey, me and my boyfriend know what you're going through! We hardly have any interest in us whatsoever, Not sure if it's because of our "looks" or the fact that he is bisexual(I am too btw) People assume just because he's Bisexual, he'll automatically pounce on the guy. He can play straight too.

Oh and the fact that bisexual men are more at risk of catching HIV/AIDS is aload of bollocks. ANYONE is at risk catching the disease.

Rght, i shall make one more comment an leave all you Bi male couples to organise meets together seeing as how there is 'apparently' not many of you around!

I have never said, that anyone who does not practise safe sex is not at risk be it Bi, Gay, straight, sometimes Bi, play straight Bi!!

What I have said, and I have just googled it on the NHS site, is that MEN who have UNPROTECTED sex with other MEN are at the highest risk.

My understanding is that Men who have sex with other men, are either GAY or BI!!! Hense we do not play with BI men!! hear endeth my rant...thank you and goodnight xx"

your profile says straight men only which is your choice and i respect that..

best hope none of them ever tell a porkie eh..

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By *ust OralMan
over a year ago

Mattishall

Thanks to the originator of this thread. I am an orally bi guy. I don't particularly want to be a top or bottom guy, but just enjoy the sensual pleasures of long, slow intimate oral and physical contact. I don't even care if I am relegated to a voyeristic or fluffers role; the final solution for me, is not neccessarily banging the lady or gent, but a mutual, sexual experience we all enjoy. I like oral contact in all its forms. It is something I don't get in my day to day life and am hoping that, this forum will allow me to meet willing couples who are happy to play with with people who have a proclivity to oral / bi interaction and where a mutual enjoyment of soft, contact sex is a requirement.

I don't have STD's and like to think that in this day and age, most people are aware and honest with thier partners?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

I don't have STD's and like to think that in this day and age, most people are aware and honest with thier partners?

"

We'd all like to think that but sadly it's not the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, me and my boyfriend know what you're going through! We hardly have any interest in us whatsoever, Not sure if it's because of our "looks" or the fact that he is bisexual(I am too btw) People assume just because he's Bisexual, he'll automatically pounce on the guy. He can play straight too.

Oh and the fact that bisexual men are more at risk of catching HIV/AIDS is aload of bollocks. ANYONE is at risk catching the disease. "

So glad it's not just us

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By *erebothbiCouple
over a year ago

howden


"I (male) will always ask in a club whether a man is Bi or not before any swap. Obviously if someone lies then there is not much I can do about it!

I have no concern that a Bi man is going to try and touch me that is not why we won't play with Bi males. The main reason is the risk of STD! In my opinion and from what i understand, Bi men are at most risk of HIV etc. No doubt I will be shot down in flames but this is what fuels my/our decision not to play with them.

I go as far as to make notes of men/cpls who out therselves as Bi in forums yet claim to be straight on their profile. We may be BIist and maybe even hipocritical as my wife is Bi, but this is my point of _iew. Sorry if it offends.

with respect that type of attitude reminds me of the 'witches sketch' in the Monty Python holy grail film..

so single fems, str8 cpls, bi fem cpls and single guys dont practise unsafe sex..?

Only bi men get std's. Everyone knows that.

You forgot to mention they carry a bigger rabies threat than french dogs, started the great plague and fire of London as well as the most heinous act of stealing candy from babies

I still laugh at the pure, unadulterated, rednecked ignorance of some on here.

You would think, that being on a a sex site would mean that you research or at least engage brain before opening gob, matters of sexual preference.

But unashamed Luddite, fuckwitted ignorance is still rife.

......**oh and don't forget, that bi men will be the cause of the apocalypse as well....**"
People like this really makes us chuckle, we get mail all the time from straight males and couples with straight males who tell us they are bi but put straight on their profile so they can still meet people like these . Suppose if it says straight on their profile they wont have any std .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, me and my boyfriend know what you're going through! We hardly have any interest in us whatsoever, Not sure if it's because of our "looks" or the fact that he is bisexual(I am too btw) People assume just because he's Bisexual, he'll automatically pounce on the guy. He can play straight too.

Oh and the fact that bisexual men are more at risk of catching HIV/AIDS is aload of bollocks. ANYONE is at risk catching the disease.

So glad it's not just us "

You're in the same boat too?

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple
over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH


"Hey, me and my boyfriend know what you're going through! We hardly have any interest in us whatsoever, Not sure if it's because of our "looks" or the fact that he is bisexual(I am too btw) People assume just because he's Bisexual, he'll automatically pounce on the guy. He can play straight too.

Oh and the fact that bisexual men are more at risk of catching HIV/AIDS is aload of bollocks. ANYONE is at risk catching the disease.

Rght, i shall make one more comment an leave all you Bi male couples to organise meets together seeing as how there is 'apparently' not many of you around!

I have never said, that anyone who does not practise safe sex is not at risk be it Bi, Gay, straight, sometimes Bi, play straight Bi!!

What I have said, and I have just googled it on the NHS site, is that MEN who have UNPROTECTED sex with other MEN are at the highest risk.

My understanding is that Men who have sex with other men, are either GAY or BI!!! Hense we do not play with BI men!! hear endeth my rant...thank you and goodnight xx"

The key here is unprotected sex . We are all at risk if we have unprotected sex. I have a brother with hiv. He meets other guys. Has protected sex makes them aware of his status also. He hasn't infected anyone since he was aware of his status which was about 20 years ago

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Well hasent this been an interesting tread !

all the irrational prejudices have been hung out.

A bi guy isnt going to move on a nonbi guy in a 3or more play senario. becuase everyone is there to have fun and if the pass isnt going to be recieved well then that will ruin everyones play isnt it becuase your bi doesnt mean your a raving molestor/rapist.

Nor does being bi, mean your a plague carrier. Infact in swinging circles safesex is usual a major concurn for everyone.

So what has Fab got real swingers? or just, the Sun & Daily mail readers as members?

YOUR FEARS ARE IRRATIONAL and UNFOUNDED.

but tomorrow you will be brainwashed by some crap in a redtop newspaper and your'l actually pay for that pleasure.

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over a year ago


"Hey, me and my boyfriend know what you're going through! We hardly have any interest in us whatsoever, Not sure if it's because of our "looks" or the fact that he is bisexual(I am too btw) People assume just because he's Bisexual, he'll automatically pounce on the guy. He can play straight too.

Oh and the fact that bisexual men are more at risk of catching HIV/AIDS is aload of bollocks. ANYONE is at risk catching the disease.

So glad it's not just us

You're in the same boat too? "

Try being a single bi-guy!...

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By *1ckeyMan
over a year ago

Camberley

I tried for ages finding a couple with a bi man, but either it's couples, or single men only. I play with a lady friend who is bi curious, I'm beyond that stage of curiosity, but still seem hard to find couples that want to play. Personally I think if the man acknowlegdes his bi side in the context of a couple you'd have thought more doors would open...

Party time

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"I tried for ages finding a couple with a bi man, but either it's couples, or single men only. I play with a lady friend who is bi curious, I'm beyond that stage of curiosity, but still seem hard to find couples that want to play. Personally I think if the man acknowlegdes his bi side in the context of a couple you'd have thought more doors would open...

"

Thats what I would have expected as well

I too have a FB(lady friend) who is bi curious. PM me if your up4 a posible meet.

I guess we will just have to do as others do: say we straight and the mo anyone wants to actually meet us ask if they would suck our cocks or theirs

and then wonder whatelse they are lying about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, me and my boyfriend know what you're going through! We hardly have any interest in us whatsoever, Not sure if it's because of our "looks" or the fact that he is bisexual(I am too btw) People assume just because he's Bisexual, he'll automatically pounce on the guy. He can play straight too.

Oh and the fact that bisexual men are more at risk of catching HIV/AIDS is aload of bollocks. ANYONE is at risk catching the disease.

Rght, i shall make one more comment an leave all you Bi male couples to organise meets together seeing as how there is 'apparently' not many of you around!

I have never said, that anyone who does not practise safe sex is not at risk be it Bi, Gay, straight, sometimes Bi, play straight Bi!!

What I have said, and I have just googled it on the NHS site, is that MEN who have UNPROTECTED sex with other MEN are at the highest risk.

My understanding is that Men who have sex with other men, are either GAY or BI!!! Hense we do not play with BI men!! hear endeth my rant...thank you and goodnight xx"

Yes this is quite correct. I ( mrs ) went to get checked at GUM recently and was offered HepB injection. When I queried what is was for I was told they advised it for high risk groups. I am in high risk group because I have multiple partners male and female and have unprotected oral sex. Other groups they explained were workers like doctors and nurses but mainly bi / gay men. Their explanation of this is that this is the group that is identified of having the most partners. But they are not identified whether they do anal or not, they are all just lumped under the same title - as on here.

For the record mr notts is only bi oral so far. If that ever changed , it would be safe sex only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (male) will always ask in a club whether a man is Bi or not before any swap. Obviously if someone lies then there is not much I can do about it!

I have no concern that a Bi man is going to try and touch me that is not why we won't play with Bi males. The main reason is the risk of STD! In my opinion and from what i understand, Bi men are at most risk of HIV etc. No doubt I will be shot down in flames but this is what fuels my/our decision not to play with them.

I go as far as to make notes of men/cpls who out therselves as Bi in forums yet claim to be straight on their profile. We may be BIist and maybe even hipocritical as my wife is Bi, but this is my point of _iew. Sorry if it offends.

with respect that type of attitude reminds me of the 'witches sketch' in the Monty Python holy grail film..

so single fems, str8 cpls, bi fem cpls and single guys dont practise unsafe sex..?

Only bi men get std's. Everyone knows that.

You forgot to mention they carry a bigger rabies threat than french dogs, started the great plague and fire of London as well as the most heinous act of stealing candy from babies

I still laugh at the pure, unadulterated, rednecked ignorance of some on here.

You would think, that being on a a sex site would mean that you research or at least engage brain before opening gob, matters of sexual preference.

But unashamed Luddite, fuckwitted ignorance is still rife.

......**oh and don't forget, that bi men will be the cause of the apocalypse as well....**People like this really makes us chuckle, we get mail all the time from straight males and couples with straight males who tell us they are bi but put straight on their profile so they can still meet people like these . Suppose if it says straight on their profile they wont have any std . "

Yes it's quite staggering the number of "straight" guys around isn't it. I don't condone that. We prefer guys who are comfortable and honest with who they are. I would say anyone wishing to avoid contact with bi guys it's impossible just for this reason.

At least if you know what youre dealing with you can protect yourself accordingly.

My advice, get checked at GUM regular. Oh and for all the partners ( bi or not) we have had between us, my last test is clear. Use condoms.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Hey, me and my boyfriend know what you're going through! We hardly have any interest in us whatsoever, Not sure if it's because of our "looks" or the fact that he is bisexual(I am too btw) People assume just because he's Bisexual, he'll automatically pounce on the guy. He can play straight too.

Oh and the fact that bisexual men are more at risk of catching HIV/AIDS is aload of bollocks. ANYONE is at risk catching the disease.

Rght, i shall make one more comment an leave all you Bi male couples to organise meets together seeing as how there is 'apparently' not many of you around!

I have never said, that anyone who does not practise safe sex is not at risk be it Bi, Gay, straight, sometimes Bi, play straight Bi!!

What I have said, and I have just googled it on the NHS site, is that MEN who have UNPROTECTED sex with other MEN are at the highest risk.

My understanding is that Men who have sex with other men, are either GAY or BI!!! Hense we do not play with BI men!! hear endeth my rant...thank you and goodnight xx

Yes this is quite correct. I ( mrs ) went to get checked at GUM recently and was offered HepB injection. When I queried what is was for I was told they advised it for high risk groups. I am in high risk group because I have multiple partners male and female and have unprotected oral sex. Other groups they explained were workers like doctors and nurses but mainly bi / gay men. Their explanation of this is that this is the group that is identified of having the most partners. But they are not identified whether they do anal or not, they are all just lumped under the same title - as on here.

For the record mr notts is only bi oral so far. If that ever changed , it would be safe sex only. "

And that is the problem.

Until these 'surveys' of who is at most risk actually define bi-curious, orally bi, bi and gay, then there will always be idiots willing to believe that ALL bi men are unclean and carry the ability to wipe out life in earth because Obviously not one of them wears a condom.....EVER.

Incomplete facts breeding idiocy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know it doesn't bother me other peoples attitudes. I don't want to meet or play with homophobes and if this is the best the NHS can come up with that's cool because I get offered the best protection. The nurse who gave me the hepB jab said some people pay through GP to get this and it's really expensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there are many bi males hidding behind straight on their profile "

I've just had a count up n I've met up with 17 men who had 'straight' on their profile but were obviously 'bi ' !!!!!!

Of course u DON'T get a verification from them lol

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

Why the hell does this always resort to childish name calling. because people wont play with bi men they are homophobic ? Get a grip, people miss use this all the time. You do not have to hate bi men and have hostile feelings towards them to not want to play with them.

I (mrs) have no issue with bi men, but i dont want to play with them. I have no raging hatred towards them i wish them no harm and if they are happy good for themife is too short not too be.

However do i wish to play with them absolutely not, men on men does nothing for me at all in fact in has the opposite effect on me so why the hell would i want to be in a situation like it.

Also we made the decision to say no bi men after so many (i mean so many) all insisted that there was no such thing as a straight male all men are gagging for cock.. We'll have to get him to try it ! ... now that is absolute crap and to us it was the attitude more than anything that turned us off.. and a number of diffetent guys said same thing. now if anyone has that attitude to anything we wont meet.

Why should anyone who doesnt want to meet bi men get call homophobic.. they havent started a hate campaign or said they should be drowned if they had yes they deserve the term i agree. However for me it turnd me off, same as watersports and extreme pain. yes i know they can play straight but with the attitudes that we have encountered, this is fun playtine for us so we arent going there.

its preferences people get a grip ffs, i tell you what these sort if threads are laughable and go only to turn even more people off bi men, because the attitudes that alot (not all) have in posting on threads like this make them look very unattractive and resembles school ground name calling. And is a similar attitude we have cone across in our encounters. its very sad that such childish attitudes are so rife on an adult site.

Who gives a shit about figures produced, everyone is at risk if you do not practise safe sex, absolutely no point in anyone hiding behind figures. If you have unprotected sex with one casual encouter you increase your chances. Thats common sense surely people.. mind that is a talent that seriously lacks in life these days.

Respect for others choices is all that is needed but hey thats never gonna happen on here.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"there are many bi males hidding behind straight on their profile

I've just had a count up n I've met up with 17 men who had 'straight' on their profile but were obviously 'bi ' !!!!!!

Of course u DON'T get a verification from them lol "

yep we had one last week. When we said no as only play with straight he said i am straight.. we not according to the veri he just hid that said he liked cock and pussy in equal measure.

You can quite often catch them out.. if not before a social meet then at a social meet. not all im sure but thats the same with everything.

Think thats the main problem too many tell lies just to get a shag where ever they can get it from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why the hell does this always resort to childish name calling. because people wont play with bi men they are homophobic ? Get a grip, people miss use this all the time. You do not have to hate bi men and have hostile feelings towards them to not want to play with them.

I (mrs) have no issue with bi men, but i dont want to play with them. I have no raging hatred towards them i wish them no harm and if they are happy good for themife is too short not too be.

However do i wish to play with them absolutely not, men on men does nothing for me at all in fact in has the opposite effect on me so why the hell would i want to be in a situation like it.

Also we made the decision to say no bi men after so many (i mean so many) all insisted that there was no such thing as a straight male all men are gagging for cock.. We'll have to get him to try it ! ... now that is absolute crap and to us it was the attitude more than anything that turned us off.. and a number of diffetent guys said same thing. now if anyone has that attitude to anything we wont meet.

Why should anyone who doesnt want to meet bi men get call homophobic.. they havent started a hate campaign or said they should be drowned if they had yes they deserve the term i agree. However for me it turnd me off, same as watersports and extreme pain. yes i know they can play straight but with the attitudes that we have encountered, this is fun playtine for us so we arent going there.

its preferences people get a grip ffs, i tell you what these sort if threads are laughable and go only to turn even more people off bi men, because the attitudes that alot (not all) have in posting on threads like this make them look very unattractive and resembles school ground name calling. And is a similar attitude we have cone across in our encounters. its very sad that such childish attitudes are so rife on an adult site.

Who gives a shit about figures produced, everyone is at risk if you do not practise safe sex, absolutely no point in anyone hiding behind figures. If you have unprotected sex with one casual encouter you increase your chances. Thats common sense surely people.. mind that is a talent that seriously lacks in life these days.

Respect for others choices is all that is needed but hey thats never gonna happen on here."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why the hell does this always resort to childish name calling. because people wont play with bi men they are homophobic ? Get a grip, people miss use this all the time. You do not have to hate bi men and have hostile feelings towards them to not want to play with them.

I (mrs) have no issue with bi men, but i dont want to play with them. I have no raging hatred towards them i wish them no harm and if they are happy good for themife is too short not too be.

However do i wish to play with them absolutely not, men on men does nothing for me at all in fact in has the opposite effect on me so why the hell would i want to be in a situation like it.

Also we made the decision to say no bi men after so many (i mean so many) all insisted that there was no such thing as a straight male all men are gagging for cock.. We'll have to get him to try it ! ... now that is absolute crap and to us it was the attitude more than anything that turned us off.. and a number of diffetent guys said same thing. now if anyone has that attitude to anything we wont meet.

Why should anyone who doesnt want to meet bi men get call homophobic.. they havent started a hate campaign or said they should be drowned if they had yes they deserve the term i agree. However for me it turnd me off, same as watersports and extreme pain. yes i know they can play straight but with the attitudes that we have encountered, this is fun playtine for us so we arent going there.

its preferences people get a grip ffs, i tell you what these sort if threads are laughable and go only to turn even more people off bi men, because the attitudes that alot (not all) have in posting on threads like this make them look very unattractive and resembles school ground name calling. And is a similar attitude we have cone across in our encounters. its very sad that such childish attitudes are so rife on an adult site.

Who gives a shit about figures produced, everyone is at risk if you do not practise safe sex, absolutely no point in anyone hiding behind figures. If you have unprotected sex with one casual encouter you increase your chances. Thats common sense surely people.. mind that is a talent that seriously lacks in life these days.

Respect for others choices is all that is needed but hey thats never gonna happen on here."

Wooaahh right there. I have spent a hell of a lot of time over the years supporting people who do jot it want to play with bi's. I have turned down god knows how many guys who put straight on their profile because I believe they are hoodwinking people like you.

Maybe homophobia like bisexuality comes in various grades.....

Each to their own as they say but I would not come on here telling other people their opinions are childish....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I do believe I am right in saying that Bi men carry the biggest risk of STD/HIV. Of course not all and of course many will practise safe sex, however as I said previously it is my opinion and my _iew that Bi men are the highest risk group. Feel free to prove me wrong or block me!!"

a few minutes research will indeed show that the last figures for tests at GUM clinics do indeed show that men who have sex with men have a higher percentage of infection than others. However this statistic also shows that they were the greatest single group to be tested as sexual health is pushed in the gay/bi community. If as many straight folk were tested then the figures might be different. The average saturday night special you pick up down the Ritz nightclub has probably never heard of a GUM clinic for example which is why infection rates are rocketing among young people.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"Why the hell does this always resort to childish name calling. because people wont play with bi men they are homophobic ? Get a grip, people miss use this all the time. You do not have to hate bi men and have hostile feelings towards them to not want to play with them.

I (mrs) have no issue with bi men, but i dont want to play with them. I have no raging hatred towards them i wish them no harm and if they are happy good for themife is too short not too be.

However do i wish to play with them absolutely not, men on men does nothing for me at all in fact in has the opposite effect on me so why the hell would i want to be in a situation like it.

Also we made the decision to say no bi men after so many (i mean so many) all insisted that there was no such thing as a straight male all men are gagging for cock.. We'll have to get him to try it ! ... now that is absolute crap and to us it was the attitude more than anything that turned us off.. and a number of diffetent guys said same thing. now if anyone has that attitude to anything we wont meet.

Why should anyone who doesnt want to meet bi men get call homophobic.. they havent started a hate campaign or said they should be drowned if they had yes they deserve the term i agree. However for me it turnd me off, same as watersports and extreme pain. yes i know they can play straight but with the attitudes that we have encountered, this is fun playtine for us so we arent going there.

its preferences people get a grip ffs, i tell you what these sort if threads are laughable and go only to turn even more people off bi men, because the attitudes that alot (not all) have in posting on threads like this make them look very unattractive and resembles school ground name calling. And is a similar attitude we have cone across in our encounters. its very sad that such childish attitudes are so rife on an adult site.

Who gives a shit about figures produced, everyone is at risk if you do not practise safe sex, absolutely no point in anyone hiding behind figures. If you have unprotected sex with one casual encouter you increase your chances. Thats common sense surely people.. mind that is a talent that seriously lacks in life these days.

Respect for others choices is all that is needed but hey thats never gonna happen on here.

Wooaahh right there. I have spent a hell of a lot of time over the years supporting people who do jot it want to play with bi's. I have turned down god knows how many guys who put straight on their profile because I believe they are hoodwinking people like you.

Maybe homophobia like bisexuality comes in various grades.....

Each to their own as they say but I would not come on here telling other people their opinions are childish....

"
I was talking as you will see from the start of my post about all of these bi men threads of which you will know i am sure there are alot.

And the attitude shown in most always ends up childish name calling. No ones personal opinion is childish thats there opinion the childish part is the name calling and that goes for so many threads on here bi, bb etc etc. Its an adult site and we should all be able of adult debate without resorting to calling anyone names. I am sure there are different levels however homophobia is a hostile hatred for bi or gay men and just because people won't play it doesn't mean they are homophobic. Thats the point. There is certainly different levels of bisexuality. But if someone says that they just don't want to play with bi men they are not homophobic if they are expressing strong hostile or even mild hostile feelings they then maybe are homophobic.

But yes the attitudes expressed in all these type threads are always childish. This is a fun pastime for adults and we are all entitled to play with who we want to without the labels being thrown around.. well name calling.

It the attitudes people have that is the childish bit. No ones personal opinion is childish.. Read back through .. well there's probably hundreds of these threads and its always the same.

However your post did come across that if people wont play with bi men then they are homophobic and that I do not think is correct. If I or any others express any level of hatred for bi men then knock yourself out but don't tar us all with the same brush.

Yes at the end of the day its the people that are taking the piss like the straight but not so that get all our backs up and ruin it for everyone.

We were not against meeting bi men until we had so many saying what they did, and even a social meet with one straight guy that sat over drinks winking and coming onto to hubby, he eventually admitted being bi. Just say so for gods sake there are so many on here that only want bi men or bi couples so no need for bi men to lie about it. its those that ruin it. But then maybe the rest of us should be more specific in what we say.

Your post read like you were calling all people that won't meet bi men homophobic and you clearly read mine as calling your personal opinion as childish which is not the way it was written.

Maybe we should ensure we are more specific, I don't know. Anyway nice as it has been work calls.

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over a year ago

I also think there's a lot of prejudice (yes prejudice not preference) against bi men, particularly among couples, partly due to the attitude of some bi-men.

As another poster said, some bi men maintain the attitude that all men are Bi to some degree. Which is not the case. Yes you get men that enjoy a blowjob no matter what gender the mouth is. Men like blowjobs, who knew? But I'd pretty much guarantee that the reciever has his eyes closed thinking about a woman doing it. (Please don't question me on that, it's why trannies are so popular among straight men.)

However, some women and men do believe that being bi makes you less of a man. That you're unable to control your urges and will have to touch a cock at some point in the proceedings. Bisexual doesn't mean that you have to have the two sexes at the same time, which is why we look for couples. It means that if bi-sex is on the table, we're happy for it to happen.

Some straight guys are still uncomfortable around us due to plain old learned-from-your-dad homophobia.

Some women are turned off by the thought of man who has sex with another man, as it makes us less of an Alpha.

It's just prejudice not preference. Couples/women who are looking to meet men or other couples sometimes perceive bisexuals as gays, who can on rare occasion play straight.

This is not the case.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I (male) will always ask in a club whether a man is Bi or not before any swap. Obviously if someone lies then there is not much I can do about it!

I have no concern that a Bi man is going to try and touch me that is not why we won't play with Bi males. The main reason is the risk of STD! In my opinion and from what i understand, Bi men are at most risk of HIV etc. No doubt I will be shot down in flames but this is what fuels my/our decision not to play with them.

I go as far as to make notes of men/cpls who out therselves as Bi in forums yet claim to be straight on their profile. We may be BIist and maybe even hipocritical as my wife is Bi, but this is my point of _iew. Sorry if it offends.

with respect that type of attitude reminds me of the 'witches sketch' in the Monty Python holy grail film..

so single fems, str8 cpls, bi fem cpls and single guys dont practise unsafe sex..?

Only bi men get std's. Everyone knows that.

You forgot to mention they carry a bigger rabies threat than french dogs, started the great plague and fire of London as well as the most heinous act of stealing candy from babies

I still laugh at the pure, unadulterated, rednecked ignorance of some on here.

You would think, that being on a a sex site would mean that you research or at least engage brain before opening gob, matters of sexual preference.

But unashamed Luddite, fuckwitted ignorance is still rife.

......**oh and don't forget, that bi men will be the cause of the apocalypse as well....**"

No: that will be black people!

Who can forget the couple that posted they didn't meet black people: fine, but they then went on to add they didn't meet people who had met black people, went through their verifications and didn't meet any who had people who met people who had met black people and so on...ad nauseam!

The fact of the matter is there ARE certain groups that carry higher risks. The irony is WE are one such group. What is "funny" is within this "toxic" pool some like to take moral high ground (look at any bareback thread to see my point).

However, no one has the right to dictate to others who they take into their bed! I don't meet bi guys any more for the same reason I don't meet married, tvs, black or short "pretty" men: they restrict MY fun, and it is, all about me.

I get turned on and enjoy the flushed cheeks of embarrassment from straight "manly" men from the things I do to them. Over the years I've found the type of men that suit me for PLAY purposes. Black men don't flush and don't want anal play, tvs love dressing up, married men you can't mark or wear perfume around them, bi men love something up the arse: all things I like to do to reluctant playmates.

These generalisations are what I've found affect ME. If MY preferences offends anyone, I really could careless, I'm not questioning anyones choices as it comes under "not my business".

Why people feel the need to question and analyse what others do is beyond me. So you're excluded? Get over it!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

And there was me being very naïve in thinking that swinging was about new sexual experiences enjoyed in the company of like minded people, discovering others, learning from more experienced people, pushing boundaries, being free of narrow mindedness, open to all regardless of their age, colour of their skin, sexual preferences, religion or sexual orientation!

The only time I have felt in sync with my beliefs is at Chams in Darlaston. They hold a bi night every Monday! ! OP try it if you have not already.

Bambi

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"You know it doesn't bother me other peoples attitudes. I don't want to meet or play with homophobes and if this is the best the NHS can come up with that's cool because I get offered the best protection. The nurse who gave me the hepB jab said some people pay through GP to get this and it's really expensive. "

Jesus wept!

Not everyone who doesn't wish to play with bi men is homophobic, just like not playing with blacks make you a racist! I despair at the irony and hypocrisy displayed on this thread!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why the hell does this always resort to childish name calling. because people wont play with bi men they are homophobic ? Get a grip, people miss use this all the time. You do not have to hate bi men and have hostile feelings towards them to not want to play with them.

I (mrs) have no issue with bi men, but i dont want to play with them. I have no raging hatred towards them i wish them no harm and if they are happy good for themife is too short not too be.

However do i wish to play with them absolutely not, men on men does nothing for me at all in fact in has the opposite effect on me so why the hell would i want to be in a situation like it.

Also we made the decision to say no bi men after so many (i mean so many) all insisted that there was no such thing as a straight male all men are gagging for cock.. We'll have to get him to try it ! ... now that is absolute crap and to us it was the attitude more than anything that turned us off.. and a number of diffetent guys said same thing. now if anyone has that attitude to anything we wont meet.

Why should anyone who doesnt want to meet bi men get call homophobic.. they havent started a hate campaign or said they should be drowned if they had yes they deserve the term i agree. However for me it turnd me off, same as watersports and extreme pain. yes i know they can play straight but with the attitudes that we have encountered, this is fun playtine for us so we arent going there.

its preferences people get a grip ffs, i tell you what these sort if threads are laughable and go only to turn even more people off bi men, because the attitudes that alot (not all) have in posting on threads like this make them look very unattractive and resembles school ground name calling. And is a similar attitude we have cone across in our encounters. its very sad that such childish attitudes are so rife on an adult site.

Who gives a shit about figures produced, everyone is at risk if you do not practise safe sex, absolutely no point in anyone hiding behind figures. If you have unprotected sex with one casual encouter you increase your chances. Thats common sense surely people.. mind that is a talent that seriously lacks in life these days.

Respect for others choices is all that is needed but hey thats never gonna happen on here."

Not just me then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So bi guys are higher risk are they? I've had three meets in two years, always safe sex. I got tested six months ago.

I do try to avoid tarring people with brushes but obviously avoid shagging people from Abergavenny as it's a well- known fact there's a good chance I'll catch sheep or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there are many bi males hidding behind straight on their profile

I've just had a count up n I've met up with 17 men who had 'straight' on their profile but were obviously 'bi ' !!!!!!

Of course u DON'T get a verification from them lol

yep we had one last week. When we said no as only play with straight he said i am straight.. we not according to the veri he just hid that said he liked cock and pussy in equal measure.

You can quite often catch them out.. if not before a social meet then at a social meet. not all im sure but thats the same with everything.

Think thats the main problem too many tell lies just to get a shag where ever they can get it from.

"

Altho I would never judge how n where others wanna play I, personally, prefer to b up front n say I'm bi cos I'm ALWAYS drawn to cock just as much as pussy so would find it hard work 'playing' 'straight'

Most bi guys with a straight profile tell me they put straight cos it easier to hook with couples!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"there are many bi males hidding behind straight on their profile

I've just had a count up n I've met up with 17 men who had 'straight' on their profile but were obviously 'bi ' !!!!!!

Of course u DON'T get a verification from them lol

yep we had one last week. When we said no as only play with straight he said i am straight.. we not according to the veri he just hid that said he liked cock and pussy in equal measure.

You can quite often catch them out.. if not before a social meet then at a social meet. not all im sure but thats the same with everything.

Think thats the main problem too many tell lies just to get a shag where ever they can get it from.

Altho I would never judge how n where others wanna play I, personally, prefer to b up front n say I'm bi cos I'm ALWAYS drawn to cock just as much as pussy so would find it hard work 'playing' 'straight'

Most bi guys with a straight profile tell me they put straight cos it easier to hook with couples!

"

Same with sub men. I've never approached anyone on this site as "sub" seldom appears as people assume sub men are not manly and off putting, so they omit it.

I sometimes smile, as I know couples who talk about not meeting sissies...when I know they have, as I've had them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Homophobia encompasses a range of negative attitudes and feelings toward homosexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender (LGBT). It can be expressed as antipathy, contempt, prejudice, aversion, or hatred, and may be based on irrational fear.[1][2][3][4]

.............

As I said lots of grey areas with lots of word definitions , bisexual being another one.

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By *ipper DeVineTV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I understand your point too, recently a couple advertised a dogging meet, and asked for only straight males? So I didn't bother to reply, the fact is I don't shag blokes, and have no interest in shagging men. But I do enjoy receiving and giving oral, so I dipped out,

Now the funny bit is if I go to the local dogging spot, chances are all the blokes will be shagging each other anyway, so they won't find any straight guys there? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And there was me being very naïve in thinking that swinging was about new sexual experiences enjoyed in the company of like minded people, discovering others, learning from more experienced people, pushing boundaries, being free of narrow mindedness, open to all regardless of their age, colour of their skin, sexual preferences, religion or sexual orientation!

The only time I have felt in sync with my beliefs is at Chams in Darlaston. They hold a bi night every Monday! ! OP try it if you have not already.

Bambi"

Thanks French Bambi, we will!

Slinky here. This is clearly an emotive topic which has been discussed at length before. Just to clarify, we completely respect everyone's _iews and preferences and don't feel the need to label anyone who disagrees with what we like. I think we'll just declare ourselves as omnisexual in a totally unintrusive way: we love sex and the giving & receiving of pleasure in whatever gender form that takes

Perhaps we need a box to tick which marks us as such & hope that others will join us in our pursuit of unadulterated (safe) pleasure with fabulous playmates

Now, who fancies a fuck?

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"And there was me being very naïve in thinking that swinging was about new sexual experiences enjoyed in the company of like minded people, discovering others, learning from more experienced people, pushing boundaries, being free of narrow mindedness, open to all regardless of their age, colour of their skin, sexual preferences, religion or sexual orientation!

The only time I have felt in sync with my beliefs is at Chams in Darlaston. They hold a bi night every Monday! ! OP try it if you have not already.

Bambi

Thanks French Bambi, we will!

Slinky here. This is clearly an emotive topic which has been discussed at length before. Just to clarify, we completely respect everyone's _iews and preferences and don't feel the need to label anyone who disagrees with what we like. I think we'll just declare ourselves as omnisexual in a totally unintrusive way: we love sex and the giving & receiving of pleasure in whatever gender form that takes

Perhaps we need a box to tick which marks us as such & hope that others will join us in our pursuit of unadulterated (safe) pleasure with fabulous playmates

Now, who fancies a fuck? "

Smooth talker you! If only you were closer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Curse the distance X

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By *antricBondageCouple
over a year ago

Kingston

I (male) decided to come out as straight about a year ago. This was after many years of what I called bi curious. There was a fascination with cock, but somehow men just didnt turn me on. Now I'm more settled, if we play with a bi couple, maybe I may choose to pleasure him, or not. Its in the moment. I won't throw up, punch him or run away if he touches me either, I just won't get turned on. I'm not afraid that I'll turn gay if I like it either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fascinating thread...

and for once even the strong opinions are well measured and thoughtful..

frankly we would meet all of you who posted on this thread as our preference is for intelligent articulate people...

as as collective you would make a great orgy....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You cant beat an intelligent orgy

Count us in!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (male) will always ask in a club whether a man is Bi or not before any swap. Obviously if someone lies then there is not much I can do about it!

I have no concern that a Bi man is going to try and touch me that is not why we won't play with Bi males. The main reason is the risk of STD! In my opinion and from what i understand, Bi men are at most risk of HIV etc. No doubt I will be shot down

in flames but this is what fuels my/our decision not to play with them.

I go as far as to make notes of men/cpls who out

therselves as Bi in forums yet claim to be straight on their profile. We may be BIist and maybe even hipocritical as my wife is Bi, but this is my point of _iew. Sorry if it offends.

with respect that type of attitude reminds me of the 'witches sketch' in the Monty Python holy grail film.

so single fems, str8 cpls, bi fem cpls and single guys dont practise unsafe sex..?

Only bi men get std's. Everyone knows that. "
all people who practice unsafe sex are at risk of catching std .whether they be bi straight or pan sexual .the amount of straight guys on the site who happily put it about without a condom is no ones business .i don't think that bi men are at any grater risk of so reading disease .obviously some might be but then so might straight guys too if they don't practice safe sex or straight women for that matter.i think you should treat everyone the same then your risks of catching anything remain consistent and constantly low .poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there are many bi males hidding behind straight on their profile

I've just had a count up n I've met up with 17 men who had 'straight' on their profile but were obviously 'bi ' !!!!!!

Of course u DON'T get a verification from them lol

yep we had one last week. When we said no as only play with straight he said i am straight.. we not according to the veri he just hid that said he

liked cock and pussy in equal measure

You can quite often catch them out.. if not before a social meet then at a social meet. not all im sure but thats the same with everything.

Think thats the main problem too many tell lies just to get a shag where ever they can get it from.

Altho I would never judge how n where others wanna play I, personally, prefer to b up front n say I'm bi cos I'm ALWAYS drawn to cock just as much as pussy so would find it hard work 'playing' 'straight'

Most bi guys with a straight profile tell me they put straight cos it easier to hook with couples!

"
perhaps it would just be easier if they branded us all with a big b on our forehead to mark us out differently to the others ? Lol.i think that's what the straights would prefer .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do try to avoid tarring people with brushes but obviously avoid shagging people from Abergavenny as it's a well- known fact there's a good chance I'll catch sheep or something.

Lmao))

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By *erebothbiCouple
over a year ago

howden

"I have no concern that a Bi man is going to try and touch me that is not why we won't play with Bi males. The main reason is the risk of STD! In my opinion and from what i understand, Bi men are at most risk of HIV etc. No doubt I will be shot down in flames but this is what fuels my/our decision not to play with them.

I go as far as to make notes of men/cpls who out therselves as Bi in forums yet claim to be straight on their profile. We may be BIist and maybe even hipocritical as my wife is Bi, but this is my point of _iew. Sorry if it offends."

This is homophobia and yes it does offend. You can dress it up any way you want but thats what it is. Read it again if disagree, how can it not be.

Having sexual preferences is completely different and totally acceptable .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also on subject of testing , it should be done every time you change partners ..

Can you imagine at clubs " hang on gotta do my swab first"

In all serious my gum dr suggested having a facility to do this at clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I have no concern that a Bi man is going to try and touch me that is not why we won't play with Bi males. The main reason is the risk of STD! In my opinion and from what i understand, Bi men are at most risk of HIV etc. No doubt I will be shot down in flames but this is what fuels my/our decision not to play with them.

I go as far as to make notes of men/cpls who out therselves as Bi in forums yet claim to be straight on their profile. We may be BIist and maybe even hipocritical as my wife is Bi, but this is my point of _iew. Sorry if it offends."

This is homophobia and yes it does offend. You can dress it up any way you want but thats what it is. Read it again if disagree, how can it not be.

Having sexual preferences is completely different and totally acceptable ."

Er.......... Now this throws up a very interesting dichotomy! If u will only entertain guys wiv 'straight' on their profile HOW CAN YOU BE SURE they are not in fact bi??????? N therefore HOW DO YOU KNOW you are NOT meeting males in the category YOU consider high risk?????

Didn't there used to b a 1980s HIV campaign that said summat like if u have sex with one person you are effectively having sex with hundreds?????

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By *hreesomefunguyMan
over a year ago

Bristol

The majority of men who message me have their profiles set as 'straight', I always pick them up on it, I won't meet couples, or guys who can't be honest about their sexuality. What else are they lying about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The majority of men who message me have their profiles set as 'straight', I always pick them up on it, I won't meet couples, or guys who can't be honest about their sexuality. What else are they lying about?"

When I have challenged "straight guys" I get all sorts of answers ranging from " I only suck cock I don't fuck guys" to "yes I know but if I put bi on my profile it puts a lot of straight people off".

I would like to know, if everyone was honest what the true percentage of straight, bi and gay there really were on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, Mr Titus here.

I'm sure this topic has come up a million times before but you'll find I'm lazy and can't be bothered searching previous threads out....

I have been in the scene on and off for longer than I want to admit and in that time my _iews have changed dramatically around on a number of things including my personal preferences but what I have never understood in the scene are peoples _iews of bi men or specifically bi men within a couple.

Its almost taken for granted that in a couple the woman will be bi (and its actively encouraged in most cases) yet if the male of the couple says he is bi then it's an instant closing of the profile and continue the search.

Is it because the bi male might suddenly sneak up on him and try and shaft him?

I am a bi male but i have a brain, I can converse without needing to start groping you uncontrollably.

OK I get that everyone has their own likes and dislikes but then you find those same couples in clubs who you then end up playing with and he admits that it is something that interests him but he would never admit it on a website because of what people might think and the stigma attached to bi males.

The whole thing just seems a bit skewed to me.

Isn't swinging all about fun and enjoyment rather than having to repress though urges that we all joined the scene for in the first place?

I am pretty sure if you couples end up in a 4 some with a bi couple you will see that instead of it being just a bit of a play all together and then a swap and its all over that the whole dynamic and flow of the event changes constantly.

Anyway, not really a rant but I am personally very interested in what peoples thoughts on the subject are.

Oh and if any of you non bi couples are interested in getting to know us then be brave, we really don't bite and I promise not to molest you without asking first

Thanks for listening.

Mr Titus (but with Mrs Slinkys permission "

well on my single profile if i look at a couple and the guy is not at least bi curious i will close that, im not looking for straight guys when i play alone.. on my couples profile (thedeviants) we take both of our needs into account so its different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also on subject of testing , it should be done every time you change partners ..

Can you imagine at clubs " hang on gotta do my swab first"

In all serious my gum dr suggested having a facility to do this at clubs "

i think that is a fab idea

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian


"I do try to avoid tarring people with brushes but obviously avoid shagging people from Abergavenny as it's a well- known fact there's a good chance I'll catch sheep or something.

Lmao)) "

.....anyway:congrats to Newports footy promotion.

(susie)

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By *otYoungYorkGuyMan
over a year ago

york-north

I'm not going to put straight on my profile in an attempt to engage someone who isnt interested in bi guys. We all have our preferences but im not bothered about meeting people with such an attitude towards other people.

Its a stigma that a bi guy is an effeminate queen who is going to violate any man they meet. Thankfully attitudes to sexuality are changing..... Slowly but surely.

Personally i blame the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. Mr notts is ALL man lol

I like my men to be like men and my ladies to be like ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always love fun with bi cpls

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By *eonlylive1seCouple
over a year ago

Atherstone

We have met and played many times with single guys, I (MR) have no problem being naked, in close proximity, with other guys ie.when (MRS W) is sucking us both together or`dp` I consider myself `straight`but in our profile it says we want to push our boundary`s if that means touching, or being touched licked or anything else we are happy with in the heat of the moment, then so be it, we have a `go with the flow` attitude, or `trysexual`(it has only happened twice) if you like. It is all about new adventures, and ALWAYS protected sex. If club rules always state .. NO means NO, then so do private meets, and thats all it takes

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By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York


"

I do try to avoid tarring people with brushes but obviously avoid shagging people from Abergavenny as it's a well- known fact there's a good chance I'll catch sheep or something."

Ben, Don't worry as this couple from Abergavenny has no intenion of shagging you!!

Can i just say that OP asked a question in the OP! They asked why people won't meet Bi men?

I simply gave my/our reasons why WE do not meet Bi men!Throughout, I stated that MY reasons are MY opinion and MY personal beliefs.I never expected anyone to agree whole heartedly. I will be 45 in Aug, at that age I will fall out of a lot of peoples age range, why is that? preference yes, but what creates that preference? this question is exactly the same as why don't we play with Bi men.

Someone took the piss when I said we make notes of men who say they are straight bu out themselves on threads like this......I'm sure if you have read this thread then you may understand why!

As I said before and will say again, Please feel free to block this profile, if i have upset you or you are a Bi man, I really don't care.

I am not homophobic, I wish no harm to anyone be they black,white,gay,bi,male,female.

Happy safe swinging to you all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I do try to avoid tarring people with brushes but obviously avoid shagging people from Abergavenny as it's a well- known fact there's a good chance I'll catch sheep or something.

Ben, Don't worry as this couple from Abergavenny has no intenion of shagging you!!

Can i just say that OP asked a question in the OP! They asked why people won't meet Bi men?

I simply gave my/our reasons why WE do not meet Bi men!Throughout, I stated that MY reasons are MY opinion and MY personal beliefs.I never expected anyone to agree whole heartedly. I will be 45 in Aug, at that age I will fall out of a lot of peoples age range, why is that? preference yes, but what creates that preference? this question is exactly the same as why don't we play with Bi men.

Someone took the piss when I said we make notes of men who say they are straight bu out themselves on threads like this......I'm sure if you have read this thread then you may understand why!

As I said before and will say again, Please feel free to block this profile, if i have upset you or you are a Bi man, I really don't care.

I am not homophobic, I wish no harm to anyone be they black,white,gay,bi,male,female.

Happy safe swinging to you all."

As I have said before I fully support your preferences I have absolutely no problem with that. However it didn't take too much research to discover that you have indeed met at least one guy who is not straight. This Particular guy says " he doesn't like labels". And this im afraid is what you are up against. If you are meeting single guys especially then chances are that not all of them will be truthful about their sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am Straight, yet we have met a few couples where the guy is Bi and not once have the guy tried touching me or even suggested it.

I have found that Bi guys are just as respectful of our limits as straight guys.

phil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am Straight, yet we have met a few couples where the guy is Bi and not once have the guy tried touching me or even suggested it.

I have found that Bi guys are just as respectful of our limits as straight guys.

phil "
im bi but if cpl is st8 then i respect that, its great both with the fem aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am Straight, yet we have met a few couples where the guy is Bi and not once have the guy tried touching me or even suggested it.

I have found that Bi guys are just as respectful of our limits as straight guys.

phil "

Excellent it would be a disaster to hear stories of bi guys pouncing now. Yes my John is the same. He's more than happy to play straight too. If there's a chance of playing with another lady he's there like a shot !

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"You cant beat an intelligent orgy

Count us in!! "

Does that involve Carol Vorderman

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By *1ckeyMan
over a year ago

Camberley


"You cant beat an intelligent orgy

Count us in!!

Does that involve Carol Vorderman "

Yes, she gets my vote too - lovely curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I do try to avoid tarring people with brushes but obviously avoid shagging people from Abergavenny as it's a well- known fact there's a good chance I'll catch sheep or something.

Ben, Don't worry as this couple from Abergavenny has no intenion of shagging you!!

"

An ugly mind is a terrible thing, as some have demonstrated on this thread.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm not going to put straight on my profile in an attempt to engage someone who isnt interested in bi guys. We all have our preferences but im not bothered about meeting people with such an attitude towards other people.

Its a stigma that a bi guy is an effeminate queen who is going to violate any man they meet. Thankfully attitudes to sexuality are changing..... Slowly but surely.

Personally i blame the internet "

What attitude is that?!!

Why is it assumed people have an "attitude" if it excludes you?!! I truly don't get it!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"

Its a stigma that a bi guy is an effeminate queen who is going to violate any man they meet. )"

oops,

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"

Its a stigma that a bi guy is an effeminate queen who is going to violate any man they meet. )

oops, "

I KNEW you'd post on that: knew it!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"

Its a stigma that a bi guy is an effeminate queen who is going to violate any man they meet. )

oops,

I KNEW you'd post on that: knew it! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I do try to avoid tarring people with brushes but obviously avoid shagging people from Abergavenny as it's a well- known fact there's a good chance I'll catch sheep or something.

Ben, Don't worry as this couple from Abergavenny has no intenion of shagging you!!

Can i just say that OP asked a question in the

OP! They asked why people won't meet Bi men?

I simply gave my/our reasons why WE do not meet Bi men!Throughout, I stated that MY reasons are MY opinion and MY personal beliefs.I never expected anyone to agree whole heartedly. I will be 45 in Aug, at that age I will fall out of a lot of peoples age range, why is that? preference yes, but what creates that preference? this question is exactly the same as

why don't we play with Bi men.

Someone took the piss when I said we make notes of men who say they are straight bu out

themselves on threads like this......I'm sure if you have read this thread then you may understand why!

As I said before and will say again, Please feel

free to block this profile, if i have upset you or you are a Bi man, I really don't care.

I am not homophobic, I wish no harm to anyone be they black,white,gay,bi,male,femal.

Happy safe swinging to you all.

As I have said before I fully support your preferences I have absolutely no problem with

that. However it didn't take too much research to discover that you have indeed met at least one guy who is not straight. This Particular guy says " he doesn't like labels". And this im afraid is what you are up against. If you are meeting

single guys especially then chances are that not all of them will be truthful about their sexuality. "
not just single men either . We have known a couple on here previously not on here now ,have a bi profile and a straight profile not to upset their straight friends they had swung with for years.so they kept the straight one and then

put a both bi one up to experiment with that too.that's also their prerogative chances are not everyone who says they are straight are.we dont make any judgments and swing with black,white,Indian, Chinese, bi,straight .we respect everyone's boundaries bi or straight but can see why some people lie about their

orientation . Poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, me and my boyfriend know what you're going through! We hardly have any interest in us whatsoever, Not sure if it's because of our "looks" or the fact that he is bisexual(I am too btw) People assume just because he's Bisexual, he'll automatically pounce on the guy. He can play straight too.

Agreed with that anyone is at risk with catchin std whether bi or straight xxx

Oh and the fact that bisexual men are more at risk of catching HIV/AIDS is aload of bollocks. ANYONE is at risk catching the disease. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Statistically it's not bollocks. I think there's a misunderstanding of what this means .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of guys who lie, both as singles and in couples, just to get a shag is the reason we no longer meet.

Some may say we're cutting off our nose to spite our face, well rather that than have some liar think he's got one over on us just because he didn't fall into our list of preferences.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of guys who lie, both as singles and in couples, just to get a shag is the reason we no longer meet.

Some may say we're cutting off our nose to spite our face, well rather that than have some liar think he's got one over on us just because he didn't fall into our list of preferences.

XXXX "

That's very sad you feel you don't want to play but if you feel so strong about your preferences I think this is right for you. I would say 9 out of 10 guys who have contacted us have "straight" on their profile. It's not good ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's been fascinating reading this thread as I didn't realise it would incite such passion and anger all in one thread.

What's also been interesting has been the member of 'straight' guys who have contacted us since

Many thanks to you all for your informative and funny comments

Titus

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