FabSwingers.com forum: Less dirty than Facebook dating

By (user no longer on site) OP
16 weeks ago

I know this site is full of horny single men and I know that most of them don’t quite get it on here. It’s about consistency and proving that you’re serious about meets.

The thing is, for me it’s so much easier to meet women on ordinary dating sites and the preferences and specific wants etc work themselves out anyway.

Can’t we sort some kind of drinks evening, everyone interested goes along and hopefully finds what they’re looking for.

Let me know your thoughts.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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16 weeks ago

East Sussex

Like a social? There are quite a few of them and they can be very successful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
16 weeks ago

Do they exist where people sign up to go to a pub or somewhere where you can sit down and actually get to know people. I think that would work really well. Exchange numbers work out who’s weird and who’s not!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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16 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Do they exist where people sign up to go to a pub or somewhere where you can sit down and actually get to know people. I think that would work really well. Exchange numbers work out who’s weird and who’s not! "

Yes they do

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets

sometimes they're advertised here.

Or you can search here

https://www.fabswingers.com/action/meets.aspx?meet_men=1&meet_women=1&meet_tv_ts=1&meet_couples_mf=1&meet_couples_ff=1&meet_couples_mm=1.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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16 weeks ago

East Sussex

That's on the desk top site of course. It might be different on the mobile site but I've put my phone down and can't remember where

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By (user no longer on site) OP
16 weeks ago

"That's on the desk top site of course. It might be different on the mobile site but I've put my phone down and can't remember where

Haha that’s funny x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
16 weeks ago

Also though if you go and look at the social meets, very few of them are for single males! All the desperate Dans have ruined it for the rest of us!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
16 weeks ago

Central

If you see a gap for potential socials, then it's fine to post about it, to assess the levels of interest.

It could be an activity or just left to sitting and chatting. Held in a church hall, coffee shop, bar or club.

It can be a lot of work to organise but you potentially get the engagement that you want

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By (user no longer on site) OP
16 weeks ago

Thank you, I’ll have a look at that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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16 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Also though if you go and look at the social meets, very few of them are for single males! All the desperate Dans have ruined it for the rest of us! "

Yeah, the socials we've attended didn't put limits on single men but a lot do.

In fact we went to one where apart from the hostess I ended up the only woman there. That isn't as great as it sounds.

Do you feel inclined to set your own social event up?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
16 weeks ago

Yeh I do! When I go on dates with women from other sites I always like to go in a beach walk first. This is a good way to break the ice and if things click then a drink after and see what happens. I think that would be a really good no pressure meet don’t you think?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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16 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Yeh I do! When I go on dates with women from other sites I always like to go in a beach walk first. This is a good way to break the ice and if things click then a drink after and see what happens. I think that would be a really good no pressure meet don’t you think? "

If that's what appeals to both people yes. I thought you meant organised socials where lots of people attend.

We often used to meet guys socially for coffee or a drink. It was fun and we always emphasised that it would be social only. That's no pressure in my book.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
16 weeks ago

Yeh I do mean meets where lots of people come (no pun intended)!

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By *w funwifeWoman
16 weeks ago

near taunton

"I know this site is full of horny single men and I know that most of them don’t quite get it on here. It’s about consistency and proving that you’re serious about meets.

The thing is, for me it’s so much easier to meet women on ordinary dating sites and the preferences and specific wants etc work themselves out anyway.

Can’t we sort some kind of drinks evening, everyone interested goes along and hopefully finds what they’re looking for.

Let me know your thoughts. "

you cant compare a dating site with a swinging site its 2 completely different things for starters swinging at its core is couples based dating is singles unless poly , dating is seeking hopefully relationships swinging is social and sex of which there are far far less women and couples involved.

looking for swinging fun is harder for men simply because there are so many men to the so few couples/women nothing like the zillions looking to date.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
16 weeks ago

Fair

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
16 weeks ago

scunthorpe

We’ve attended quite a few group socials in bars, pubs, clubs etc.

they have been a great way to meet and get to know people

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

There's lots of organized socials, I've been to lots as a couple, I think (some) men can hinder themselves on here, on a normal dating site you approach people fairly normally, dressed etc, chat....

On here they think whacking a cock in your inbox is a great idea because that's all we want right? 🙄

The guys who do well do it because they act well, they are human and not just a stick to sit on, let's face it fabs full of them.

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