FabSwingers.com forum: if i wanted war & peace id read a book as it is i just want a fuck !

By *orny.hottie OP Woman
over a year ago

near the hornyness xx

why half the people here even use fab is beyond me there are that many that dont even attempt to arrange meets they simply use it as a place to view pictures and flirt is it just me or is anyone else annoyed at so many thinking this is a social network n not a swingers network its really starting to do my head in i log on to arrange a shag yet get inundated with 100's of msgs searching a 'chat' im honestly debating about blocking all that dont ask for a shag in the 1st msg

im seriously curious is it just me or are others feeling this way too

??? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are ...its so frustrating... thinking of leaving x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand your point but honestly, 99% of the time, you'll never get a meet on here of you talk about sex before a good dozen of messages....

And it's even worst when you're a single man!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are ...its so frustrating... thinking of leaving x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We find that you need to arrange at least a social within a couple of messages, if people are cagey then they'll never meet.

If someone just wants to chat that's fine by us as long as they are up front from the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hundreds of messages ?.

Lucky you , we get , on average ,about two a month .

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By *orny.hottie OP Woman
over a year ago

near the hornyness xx

its just getting beyond a joke now and i dont mean to be offensive but most are young un's who havent a clue about swinging and come on here to meet a person for a lone meet

thats not swinging thats pulling ya can do that any where

seems to be getting worse the longer im on here i normally dont have this issue i post any one fancy a fuck and get what i want

but of late i post a fancy a shag status n get what maze well be bed time reading suited to granny knickers n slippers on

is it really that hard now a days t get laid i honestly do feel sorry for the single blokes it is much harder for yas im a young lass 26 ex model n size 8 n its hard enough for me tbh its like pulling teeth at the minute i dare say id get laid more if i was married to a nun ! xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I get loads of messages from men who have no intention of meeting, or who ask to Skype, cam, or phone. As I have put on my profile that I don't Skype, cam, or phone, and I am not interested in random friendings, then I delete their messages.

Maybe best to search yourselves for what you want. I suspect most men would be thrilled to get a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married to a nun !!, how do you do that ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Why not go to a bar, you'd probably get more luck.

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By *orny.hottie OP Woman
over a year ago

near the hornyness xx

i may be ranting

me + sexually deprived = bitch

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By *orny.hottie OP Woman
over a year ago

near the hornyness xx

married to a nun .....

im not sure but im sure they'd get more than me lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not go to a bar, you'd probably get more luck."

Was gonna say that or a swingers club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But i heard that you gals are great at multi-tasking!! And now i'm finding out that you can't even hold a decent chat whilst sucking cock! Feck me, whats the world coming to!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

if the message doesn't start with ..

fancy a fuck ??

block .. delete for sure !!

cant believe there are people on here who wish to engage in banter and establish rapport !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coo !?

Even your profile is a rantified .

How about a big Galaxy bar ?.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"But i heard that you gals are great at multi-tasking!! And now i'm finding out that you can't even hold a decent chat whilst sucking cock! Feck me, whats the world coming to!

The only way you'll get me to shut up is to stick a cock in mouth

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Ill forward you mine. I get loads! I delete them straight away.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You'll probably get lots of messages now so you'll be ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know what u mean.they all endless chat and no action.pisses me off no end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This website is full of time wasters. All I want to do is have regular sex with a couple of fuck buddy's, then maybe move on to clubs. But all the pic collectors and time wasters have made lots of women on here too worried about having their time wasted that they don't want to reply to messages anymore

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Makes a change for someone to moan that they are not getting enough 'Fancy a fuck' messages...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Now see, I'm going to upset the apple cart here! I know this is a sex site, but believe it or not, I actually need to LIKE someone and be ATTRACTED to them before I could even contemplate having a sexual meet with them!

But hey, each to their own and all that, if I come across as a timewaster then so be it, I will stick to the way I do things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now see, I'm going to upset the apple cart here! I know this is a sex site, but believe it or not, I actually need to LIKE someone and be ATTRACTED to them before I could even contemplate having a sexual meet with them!

But hey, each to their own and all that, if I come across as a timewaster then so be it, I will stick to the way I do things

I agree use the site for what you want it for, swingers will always go to socials and clubs. I have to chat before a meet, I do not wish to waste my free alone time, and therefore some chatting before meeting helps me with that. Not a long drawn out thing but I don't get enough ''me time'' that's child free. Everyone does things different on here, accept that, moaning will not change that.

Oh, I got offered 3 army lads but I can't make it, anyone want them? lol.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

But hey, each to their own and all that, if I come across as a timewaster then so be it, I will stick to the way I do things

Oh, I got offered 3 army lads but I can't make it, anyone want them? lol. "

I'll be happy with just one! But only if he is happy to CHAT first, so see if I actually like him and find him attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hundreds of messages ?.

Lucky you , we get , on average ,about two a month .

2 a month..gawd you lucky, lucky couple..we struggle with 1 every 3 months!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

But hey, each to their own and all that, if I come across as a timewaster then so be it, I will stick to the way I do things

Grabs an apple

Agrees - We all have different approaches and are looking for different things. If others see us as timewasters because our method doesn't suit their own. Tough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will say this only once!

If you don't like it on here just leave

No one is forcing you to stay

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well,yes course u have to like them,i dont expect ppl to shag for shag sake.it doesnt make u a time waster.

u look u message u see face pic.then u meet and shag.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op not everyone has to use the site for same reasons u do! There are no rules on how to use this site..

Why get so uptight.. Everyone is different.. Ignore those who don't match what u want and concentrate on those who do

As someone else said.. Block messages and go looking for yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no problems meeting people and met some great ones on here via face to face meets and on the forums

I'm not meeting at the mo due to health probs so I must be a time waster then!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And .....breathe!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

this is a wind up - the op's own profile is like war & peace and before i lost the will to live reading it i'm sure i read that she doesn't want - 'wanna fuck' messages - Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this is a wind up - the op's own profile is like war & peace and before i lost the will to live reading it i'm sure i read that she doesn't want - 'wanna fuck' messages - Z"

She's hidden it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this is a wind up - the op's own profile is like war & peace and before i lost the will to live reading it i'm sure i read that she doesn't want - 'wanna fuck' messages - Z"

And now the profile is hidden... Hummmm... Smells fishy to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was a look at me thread that went tits up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a real mix here on fab and not everyone looking for same things .. And I do think it would be boring if it was not like that here...

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

People use the site for different reasons. Just because someone uses it in a certain way it doesnt mean everyone else has to.

Best way is to use it how you want to, and leave other folks to use it how they want to

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