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How long til you cum during sex?

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By *etsBothCumTogether OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Livingston

I'm normally 30-45 mins without condom but can do 10-15 if not focussed on making Mrs cum lots. Seemingly the average is 7 mins which I find hard to believe with a condom and less sensitivity?

How long does it take you to cum?

Would rather it Mrs got a bit more than 7 mins but if that's average then that's what to expect when we meet someone.

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By *etwife8230Couple
4 weeks ago

Newport

Are we talking from the point of entry ? If so could be seconds, minutes or more depending on how horny I'm feeling ,not 45 mins though 🤔 Mrs

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By *ack d 1978Man
4 weeks ago

belfast

Every time is different...pending on levels of horniness

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By *elly and daveCouple
4 weeks ago

gateshead


"I'm normally 30-45 mins without condom but can do 10-15 if not focussed on making Mrs cum lots. Seemingly the average is 7 mins which I find hard to believe with a condom and less sensitivity?

How long does it take you to cum?

Would rather it Mrs got a bit more than 7 mins but if that's average then that's what to expect when we meet someone."

45 mins!!! Points him in the direction of the A1 south

😝😝😝😝😝

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By *.hrisMan
4 weeks ago

Bath

Just a few mins 🤷🏽‍♂️ But longer if alcohol on board or hungover

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By *r90Man
4 weeks ago

Devon

I take ages too and repeat. Had a few women addicted

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By *oelMan
4 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels

Usually 45 mins to an hour, unless its really horny situation then 25 mins.

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By *alsam1Couple
4 weeks ago

Caister

If you can actually fuck for 30 to 40 mins then the partner is doing something wrong.

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By *oiluvfunMan
4 weeks ago

Penrith

It really depends on how I’m feeling on the night, the setting we’re in, the shared mood etc, lots of factors can affect the ‘result’ lol…

I gave up with one particular woman; her physical makeup meant I just couldn’t get the right angle for comfortable penetration, combined with how soaking wet she got, meaning I just didn’t get any ‘feel’ on my cock through the condom, so I eventually admitted defeat……

Other times though, I can be 5 minutes, or up to an hour before my first ejaculation, and most times I can repeat a further two times within 20 minutes….?

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By *r90Man
4 weeks ago

Devon


"If you can actually fuck for 30 to 40 mins then the partner is doing something wrong."
not if you get to try out loads of different positions. Agree if 30-40 mins of missionary then something is up

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By *alsam1Couple
4 weeks ago

Caister


"If you can actually fuck for 30 to 40 mins then the partner is doing something wrong.not if you get to try out loads of different positions. Agree if 30-40 mins of missionary then something is up "

Swapping positions and doing other things isn't lasting for said amounts of time. I can have sessions that last hours but thats not the same as lasting 40 mins of sex.

I'm guessing he's saying he can last ages to sound awesome but honestly 10 mins is plenty lol

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By *eltic connectionCouple
4 weeks ago

Manningtree

Depends entirely on the situation and how turned on you both are. A quicky can a few minutes of very intense fun or a sensual evening of slow gentle playing can take 1 or more hours slipping in and out, changing positions and edging each other.

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By *WBwantedWN2Man
4 weeks ago

wigan ish x

If I’ve had a couple of beers before hand it can take a few hours lol , no beers and 2minutes 24 seconds

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By *etsBothCumTogether OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Livingston

Normally after 45mins she's cum as much as she can. Then it's my turn.

Rather please her to the max first x

But I could take 5-10 mins but I deliberately give her as long as I can

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By *etsBothCumTogether OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Livingston

I can give her hard fast for 45 mins really going at it.

Slow is nice also.

Fast then slow faster slow etc

It's all good x

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By *etsEnjoyLife!Man
4 weeks ago

UK

I’m pretty lucky and can control when I cum.

My view is to focus on the lady and ensure she is satisfied first and then I enjoy cumming at the end.

Hopefully that way it’s a successful meet and everyone is happy….

If I came before her I’d feel disappointed and bad… just my opinion.

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By *xfordjohnMan
4 weeks ago

Oxford

These days it can be quite a long time, often over an hour, and needs some climatic fucking to get there. On the other hand, just occasionally, someone will hit the spot so quckly sucking my cock that it only takes a few minutes. Then, as others have said, one wants the object of attention to have had enough orgasms too.

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By *illswitchMan
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

For me it really depends on the woman . Almost as if I can completely control when I cum. I always make sure the woman cums first. If the girl is really wanting to suck that load out I let it happen in a couple of mins, too.

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By *he Old School RockersCouple
4 weeks ago

Gloucester

If we are talking about just penetration then it can take hours if it happens at all. In fact only a few men have ever made me cum without outside stimulation.

Mrs

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By *acantMan
4 weeks ago

Isle of Wight

I've never lasted too long at all during penetrative sex. I suppose I'm just very sensitive down there. Half of me feels embarrassed in a way about it because I'd love to give any play partners a good proper session. I still enjoy giving oral and doing other things though, so it's not as if penetration is the only way I have lol.

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By *vaRoseWoman
4 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Are we talking 45 min straight humping here?

Because that would bore the fuck out of me.

A good session lasts hours and hours but the penetration is only the tip of the iceberg for great sex

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By *dr97531Man
4 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It varies but I can last the better part of an hour. As others say though, you want to mix it up with more foreplay too.

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By *acantMan
4 weeks ago

Isle of Wight


"Are we talking 45 min straight humping here?

Because that would bore the fuck out of me.

A good session lasts hours and hours but the penetration is only the tip of the iceberg for great sex"

Love this

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By *ral_lover55Man
4 weeks ago

Gravesend

I'm about an hour sometimes 2 before I cum. Always finish in doggy as that's only position that makes me cum the days.

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By *evonspankMan
4 weeks ago

Tiverton

Oh blimey. I thought two minutes was normal! Don't tell my wife.

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By *ssexmascMan
4 weeks ago

essex

Can go for as lomg as I want as long as the women doesn't get on top. If they do then just a few mins

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By *gooddayforfunMan
4 weeks ago

rhyl

All sorts of variables but for me 20- 1 hour 30

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By *appyman3943Man
4 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Does the 45 minutes include a cup of tea as well!

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By *igbustedmilfCouple
4 weeks ago

Maidstone

I find it varies hugely when I play at clubs. Some guys can only manage a few pumps before they shoot their load. Others can go on for ages but in a group scenario I prefer them to be quick, it’s the idea of being used that turns me on. It’s a numbers game so it bores me if the last ages, I just want to move on to the next guy

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By *gooddayforfunMan
4 weeks ago

rhyl


"I find it varies hugely when I play at clubs. Some guys can only manage a few pumps before they shoot their load. Others can go on for ages but in a group scenario I prefer them to be quick, it’s the idea of being used that turns me on. It’s a numbers game so it bores me if the last ages, I just want to move on to the next guy "

Remind me to start going to the clubs you go to

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By *romley boy49Man
4 weeks ago

Essex

can cum in a minute or two of entering my gf, she is a tiny size 8 with a tight pussy, i realy have to think of something other than what im doing at times to make me last longer lol

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By *unseeker100Man
4 weeks ago

batley

This all depends on the situation and what was planned or promised

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