FabSwingers.com forum: Single at swingers clubs

By *ancs_lad OP Man
4 weeks ago

visitint

Hi all, just a quick one. Is there any point in going to a swingers club as a single male? Never been so thought I’d ask the experts

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By *aizyWoman
4 weeks ago

west midlands

Give it a go OP, just go with no expectations and enjoy the night.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
4 weeks ago

Bristol

"Give it a go OP, just go with no expectations and enjoy the night."

Exactly this, keep an open mind to it all and think of it as a way to meet people and socialise

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By *HUSH-Man
4 weeks ago

London

I’ve done it twice solo. Say hello, be respectful, smile and go with the intention to just have a chat with likeminded people. If you need to have a drink to loosen up that’s fine but don’t get d*unk.

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By *008sloverMan
4 weeks ago

Near you

Im attempting my 1st on the 30th to a greedy girls event

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By *neplusserMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

Definitely. Just depends on your approach. If you go in like a zombie from the walking dead and creepily stalk women/couples around the club then no. Go in relaxed, have casual chats with no pressure/expectations and see where things lead - then it’s a great place to meet other people in the scene.

Certain events you may also be able to reach out to others attending to build some rapport beforehand 👌🏾

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By *ookieandMonsterCouple
4 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Talk to people don't become one of the wanking dead lol

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By *008sloverMan
4 weeks ago

Near you

Do you take your own condoms and lube...

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
4 weeks ago

South Wales

"Hi all, just a quick one. Is there any point in going to a swingers club as a single male? Never been so thought I’d ask the experts

Definitely! Quite a lot of couples are looking for single males. We always make sure to choose an evening when single males are allowed so it’s a matter of choosing the right night or event xx 😘

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
4 weeks ago

scunthorpe

Definitely give it a go.

I suggest treating it as a regular night out. Be chatty, friendly and don’t make everything about sex.

We personally don’t arrange to meet single men but there have been times where single guys have chatted with us in clubs and we’ve been happy to let them join us.

Also, if you’re chatting to a couple - make an effort to include the husband/partner in the conversation.

We’ve spoke to guys before who act like Sean isn’t there and that automatically puts us both off.

Donna

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By *008sloverMan
4 weeks ago

Near you

Sounds silly but is everyone clothed or naked in these events when you walk around.

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
4 weeks ago

South Wales

"Sounds silly but is everyone clothed or naked in these events when you walk around. "

That all depends on the club. Some are dress down and others not xx 😘

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
4 weeks ago

Bristol

"Sounds silly but is everyone clothed or naked in these events when you walk around.

That all depends on the club. Some are dress down and others not xx 😘 "

Or not dressed at all

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By *008sloverMan
4 weeks ago

Near you

Im happy being naked but dont wanna rock up with cock out. See how it goes and maybe get approached

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By *ancs_lad OP Man
4 weeks ago

visitint

Thanks for all the messages! Looking forward to taking the plunge now lol

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By *host63Man
4 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

"Hi all, just a quick one. Is there any point in going to a swingers club as a single male? Never been so thought I’d ask the experts

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in my experience of going to clubs as a single man. Unless there is something exceptional a out you that stands out, or you are there to meet someone there specifically.

I will say no it isn't.

You will be charged double as a single man including the membership fee. Will most likely be ignored by the regular couples and new couples will mix with the regulars and you will most likely be pretty much frozen out. Even if you go there with no expectations and just want to say hello to people your likely to be ignored or treated with polite indifference.

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