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By *uriousandkinky OP   Couple
6 weeks ago

north

Hk guys me and my fella havent had sex with each other in maybe 6 month not through lack of trying hes just no interest at all any suggestions xx

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By *ralking69.Man
6 weeks ago

NN4

So sorry to hear that

You tried therapy

I assume he enjoys seeing you shared

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By *atch0101Man
6 weeks ago

Here

Well there's the obvious chinwag.

What about change of image. Something about hair colour and style change that brings "freshness". She's your woman alright but different. Always works for me..well did lol.

I'm hoping "not intersted" because of it's just not as fun. Psychological things do that.

If you still act as partners that helps.

Book a weekend away. Take some toys maybe. What about a camera on a tripod and a remote. We did it. What fun. I miss it . .send him off to get wine. Then when he is back, just be ready to entice him with an image that will knock him for miles.

If that doesn't work? Send him to me and I'll show him What I do to keep myself "occupied" , give him the biggest Bollocking he's had since a kid, and shake the stupid out of him

Good luck

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By *oco_devilleWoman
5 weeks ago

Canterbury

I’m in the exact same boat. It’s really effecting me. We met on here, and had the best sex life for the first 18months, then some personal stuff happened for him, and he just has lost his libido entirely. It’s been about 18months now of it really not being either good or regular or remotely frequent. Now about 6 months since we’ve had sex. I love him so much, and I know me, or anything I’ve done. It’s really starting to get me down now.

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By *issmorganWoman
5 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"Hk guys me and my fella havent had sex with each other in maybe 6 month not through lack of trying hes just no interest at all any suggestions xx"

He's very young to have lost interest altogether.

Does he take any meds that might be effecting his drive? Or is he depressed or stressed?.

It might be worth him getting a check up with his doctor, just to rule out any conditions.

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By *uiteman2020Man
5 weeks ago

Warsop

Been a year for me lol some of u are lucky

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
5 weeks ago

newcastle

Hi. The same happened with us. We ended up having arguments then he brought up the hotwife stuff. Took a long time but it has saved our marriage xx

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By *elboy1978Man
5 weeks ago

Jarrow

It’s been over 12 months for me

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By *vaRoseWoman
5 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

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By *vaRoseWoman
5 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

My husband has no sex drive due to a health condition. It’s what led me to joining here with his blessing

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By *allnlongMan
5 weeks ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse

Desires change, maybe get on here and look through some profiles together; or toy shops like Lovehoney

See what titillates or perhaps more importantly what the turn off are

Sending love to everyone in this situation x

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By *eavenscentitCouple
5 weeks ago

barnstaple

So many things can effect our libido, bereavement, work stress, our self esteem along with physical or mental health conditions. Try and communicate with each other xx

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

It maybe worth a trip to the drs, so many things can affect our drives.

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By *uzzieboyMan
5 weeks ago

taunton

Morning OP sometimes my meds for PTSD and my ADHD can affect my sex drive so if he’s taking meds maybe take to the doctor as I did witch helped me

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By *ornyone30Man
5 weeks ago

ABERDEEN

You don't give much away in your post. Is there anything such as medication/bereavement/stress at work going on with him? Have you both talked about why it's not happening? Is he as committed to you as you him? One thing that dropped my desire to have sex with my wife was the fact that it got so repetitive and stale. Same time/place/position etc. It was so boring I just lost interest. First step imo is open and frank conversation and let him know how you feel.

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By *ongJohnSilva2.0Man
5 weeks ago

Right up your street

Over the last few years my libido has had its ups and downs (no pun intended)

Mainly due to physical health/injuries which has a knock on effect with mental health.

Ask him to open up to you. Try wearing what you know gets him going & seducing him. Whisk him away for a night or two

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