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By *cunthorpe123 OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

scunthorpe

Anyone find the forum a hard place to make your way in to??

I (Donna) was a regular poster before our break from the site.

We’ve since returned and I’ve found a lot of the forums to be quite cliquey which is a shame for newbies trying to join in.

I don’t remember it being like this a few years ago

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By *antassack889Man
5 weeks ago

Hertfordshire


"Anyone find the forum a hard place to make your way in to??

I (Donna) was a regular poster before our break from the site.

We’ve since returned and I’ve found a lot of the forums to be quite cliquey which is a shame for newbies trying to join in.

I don’t remember it being like this a few years ago "

Just ignore them lol

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By *cunthorpe123 OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

scunthorpe


"Anyone find the forum a hard place to make your way in to??

I (Donna) was a regular poster before our break from the site.

We’ve since returned and I’ve found a lot of the forums to be quite cliquey which is a shame for newbies trying to join in.

I don’t remember it being like this a few years ago

Just ignore them lol "

Just seems like a big switch, when we joined a good 7+ years ago, the forum was a friendly space.

Seems very different now

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By *antassack889Man
5 weeks ago

Hertfordshire


"Anyone find the forum a hard place to make your way in to??

I (Donna) was a regular poster before our break from the site.

We’ve since returned and I’ve found a lot of the forums to be quite cliquey which is a shame for newbies trying to join in.

I don’t remember it being like this a few years ago

Just ignore them lol

Just seems like a big switch, when we joined a good 7+ years ago, the forum was a friendly space.

Seems very different now "

Suppose it depends on the subject

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

I agree. Have noticed a quick turn to sarcasm and unhelpful comments at times but that may just be me

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By *cunthorpe123 OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

scunthorpe

I’ve jumped into a lot of topics but found the same responses from a number of people.

It’s like you’re not well known so not welcome.

May well change but just basing experiences now on out previous years on here

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By *cunthorpe123 OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

scunthorpe


"I agree. Have noticed a quick turn to sarcasm and unhelpful comments at times but that may just be me "

I totally agree. As I say, when we joined 7+ years ago the forums seemed a lot more welcoming than they are now

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By *antassack889Man
5 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

Least you get a response in a thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago


"I’ve jumped into a lot of topics but found the same responses from a number of people.

It’s like you’re not well known so not welcome.

May well change but just basing experiences now on out previous years on here "

Agree. Not 100% sure what it was like before but I think some people can be friendly but very quickly trolls appear

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By *cunthorpe123 OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

scunthorpe


"I’ve jumped into a lot of topics but found the same responses from a number of people.

It’s like you’re not well known so not welcome.

May well change but just basing experiences now on out previous years on here

Agree. Not 100% sure what it was like before but I think some people can be friendly but very quickly trolls appear "

Unfortunately I agree, I used to spend a lot of time in the chat rooms but they don’t feel like welcome spaces now and that’s for me as part of a couple. I can only imagine how unwelcome single men feel

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By *antassack889Man
5 weeks ago

Hertfordshire


"I’ve jumped into a lot of topics but found the same responses from a number of people.

It’s like you’re not well known so not welcome.

May well change but just basing experiences now on out previous years on here

Agree. Not 100% sure what it was like before but I think some people can be friendly but very quickly trolls appear

Unfortunately I agree, I used to spend a lot of time in the chat rooms but they don’t feel like welcome spaces now and that’s for me as part of a couple. I can only imagine how unwelcome single men feel "

I've never bothered with the chat rooms I agree with you there, very unwelcoming if your not known even worse if you don't have cam on lol

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By *cunthorpe123 OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

scunthorpe


"I’ve jumped into a lot of topics but found the same responses from a number of people.

It’s like you’re not well known so not welcome.

May well change but just basing experiences now on out previous years on here

Agree. Not 100% sure what it was like before but I think some people can be friendly but very quickly trolls appear

Unfortunately I agree, I used to spend a lot of time in the chat rooms but they don’t feel like welcome spaces now and that’s for me as part of a couple. I can only imagine how unwelcome single men feel

I've never bothered with the chat rooms I agree with you there, very unwelcoming if your not known even worse if you don't have cam on lol "

Absolutely!

I think regular members need to remember they were newbies at some time and it’s not easy!

A little bit of welcoming would go far.

We are a pretty well verified couple who have been members for close to 8 years and I still feel like I don’t belong in the forums.

Surely that’s not how it should be?

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By *antassack889Man
5 weeks ago

Hertfordshire


"I’ve jumped into a lot of topics but found the same responses from a number of people.

It’s like you’re not well known so not welcome.

May well change but just basing experiences now on out previous years on here

Agree. Not 100% sure what it was like before but I think some people can be friendly but very quickly trolls appear

Unfortunately I agree, I used to spend a lot of time in the chat rooms but they don’t feel like welcome spaces now and that’s for me as part of a couple. I can only imagine how unwelcome single men feel

I've never bothered with the chat rooms I agree with you there, very unwelcoming if your not known even worse if you don't have cam on lol

Absolutely!

I think regular members need to remember they were newbies at some time and it’s not easy!

A little bit of welcoming would go far.

We are a pretty well verified couple who have been members for close to 8 years and I still feel like I don’t belong in the forums.

Surely that’s not how it should be?"

I've not had problems in the forums but the chat rooms I learned my lesson very early and never bothered again lol I've seen people purposely report people out of spite to get them kicked out

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By *eroLondonMan
5 weeks ago

Mayfair


"...I totally agree. As I say, when we joined 7+ years ago the forums seemed a lot more welcoming than they are now"

"Welcoming" in what way? In what manner? In what approach?

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