FabSwingers.com forum: How many messages do you get?

By *aynorth69 OP Man
5 weeks ago

North West

Just wondering the average amounts of attention both women/men/couples get, what on your profile makes matches more likely, and what’s the worse types of messages you get?

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By *ewtfaceMan
5 weeks ago

Bracknell

I put out a lot of messages and get few back, sadly.

Do seem to get regular messages from men wanting to suck me off ~ who knows why?

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By *carlettxWoman
5 weeks ago

Essex

A lot - single fems do esp if we put a pic up

I have over 2k

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By *aura-pTV/TS
5 weeks ago

dorset

"A lot - single fems do esp if we put a pic up

I have over 2k "

And quiet right to you are stunning xx

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By *oughmanMan
5 weeks ago

Sunderland

Not many. But then I don't expect it.

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By *orkshirefunguyMan
5 weeks ago

Dewsbury

Most I've ever had in on go 7

Lucky if I get 7 in a month now.

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By *aramel.desiresMan
5 weeks ago

Addlestone

I'm guaranteed 1 a year. To renew my subscription. I send regularly, and they are usually read but not responded to.

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By *aynorth69 OP Man
5 weeks ago

North West

"A lot - single fems do esp if we put a pic up

I have over 2k "

I mean you are on my hotlist hahaha

How do you get through the messages genuinely

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By *avexxMan
5 weeks ago

cheshire

not many

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By *aomilatteCouple
5 weeks ago

Midlands

We've had zero messages in the last week, though we have Men blocked.

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By *iss DevilWoman
5 weeks ago

Bedford

Hardly any as I make it clear on my profile I'm not looking for men or couples. So all (or most) of my messages are from people I already know, like my partner and my FWB.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
5 weeks ago

Leeds

Not many on here maybe 1 or 2 a week, I recently opened my filters on my single ladies and I get around 10 a day but it's very clear in what I'm looking for.

Mrs

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Currently sitting on about 500 unread

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By *elboy1978Man
5 weeks ago

Jarrow

I don’t get a lot of messages

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By *cott98Man
5 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Pretty much none, I think I need to update my pics or something

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By *ewlysingle2023Man
5 weeks ago

hyde

Nothing from women/couples.

Just guys who have watched me on cam unfortunately

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By *eelsandsuitsCouple
5 weeks ago

stirling

We get a steady amount daily. Most don’t even read our profile, which is clear by the messages.

Can only imagine how it is for a single female on here. It’s the messages from the same people over and over we dont understand. No reply is a polite no from us. States that on our profile of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

None from women or couples.

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By *orningGlory555Man
5 weeks ago

Wells

Messages???

I very rarely receive them, and as many others, it’s quite rare I receive a reply, but I know what to expect with the ratios on this site. I have been around for long enough so I don’t get too hung up on it.

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By *issLickalottapusWoman
5 weeks ago

La La Land

"A lot - single fems do esp if we put a pic up

I have over 2k "

Not if your message settings prevent them from getting through

Average 5 a week

and they are from friends

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By *orningGlory555Man
5 weeks ago

Wells

"We get a steady amount daily. Most don’t even read our profile, which is clear by the messages.

Yeah that must be very frustrating, if I don’t get a reply once read i take it as a no thanks, remove my face pic and delete.

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By *di3491Man
5 weeks ago

Sandbach

Get the odd reply and then men messaging me even though I’m straight and my profile says that

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
5 weeks ago

North West

If I drop filters for a forum thing then they come through about 10-20 an hour. I've never had filters down straight after putting a pic/status/meet up though.

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By *p4funtimes2Couple
5 weeks ago

weybridge

If not online we get 5-10 a day average, if we are online but not interacting with others prob 15-20 and if we post pics etc can get 100+ a day x

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By *hortntallstuffCouple
5 weeks ago

Perth

We get a fair few, mainly people asking what the swing scene is like in Australia. Also get them from people wanting to meet us and not read that we’re 9000 miles away🤣

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By *tuvyMan
5 weeks ago

bedford

Average 20 a day and try and keep on top of messages

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By *onnachakeaneMan
5 weeks ago

Dundrum

Most proactive contacts I receive are from other men… despite my status as “Straight” I think the perception is to test the water…… straight men are maybe a challenge and/or there seem to be a lot of other “straight” men curious… seeking other guys….when I originally put “open minded” on my profile it was far more…. I’d always engage and be polite to anyone too…… basic curtesy can get lost too in people’s responses..

F/MF probably get a 3/10 response rate to my messages…. Probably not bad given it’s a sausage fest on here 🤣

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By *onnachakeaneMan
5 weeks ago

Dundrum

"We get a fair few, mainly people asking what the swing scene is like in Australia. Also get them from people wanting to meet us and not read that we’re 9000 miles away🤣"

Can I ask what is the swing scene like in Australia? Dublin based…. Fancy a coffee?

(Sorry.. 😆)

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By *onnachakeaneMan
5 weeks ago

Dundrum

"A lot - single fems do esp if we put a pic up

I have over 2k "

Out of curiosity and not directed at you specifically but if you have 2k+ messages that’s a substantial amount of people attracted to you……

Is Only Fans ever a temptation at that stage? Monetise it….not for everyone of course

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By *Bqwerty69Man
5 weeks ago

Stourport

About 5 a day, more if I post a new pic.

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By *exywife4sharingCouple
5 weeks ago

Scotland, London

Its a tricky one to answer that I guess its mainly about your involvement and the old saying you get out from what you put in .... We get on average daily amounts of around 150 - 180 on a normal day, if we like other members have said above add new content or a meet then for a few day or more those number rise to around 350 a day or if we post on the forum thread we get an increased amount there at that time or within a day ....hope that helps x

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By *arialoueWoman
5 weeks ago

Doncaster

I rarely get messages

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By *onnachakeaneMan
5 weeks ago

Dundrum

I love your videos by the way… 😉😊 look

Like you’re having a great time and exactly what this site should be all about… enjoying yourself and having fun doing it…. 👍👌

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By *uthLessKnickersCouple
5 weeks ago

Cornwall/Devon

If we post a new picture or video up then we will receive 40 to 50 messages a day. Otherwise it might be about half a dozen.

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By *eepitsimple400Man
5 weeks ago

ilkeston

If I send 20 messages, probably 6-8 get opened, the rest stay yellow and end up getting deleted, I might get the odd reply, if I get any sort of repeat replies you can 100% bet it's the male half of a "couple" who wanking furiously to what I'm suggesting I do to her, and "I'll talk to her later about it" then never hear from them again.

On a good week I'm racking up 10-15 views on my profile

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By *RAGO.Man
5 weeks ago

Wirral

Never receive them, occasionally I pop a message to a profile that catches my eye. Usually met with a deletion or no reply which is completely cool

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By *orkshirecouple69 returnCouple
5 weeks ago

doncaster

Around 8 a day mainly from single guys

That are often deleted without reading

Definitely enjoy messages from couples

Who enjoy the the same kinks

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By *uiteman2020Man
5 weeks ago

Warsop

a few from men 1 a month of a lady never of couple

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By *ealitybitesMan
5 weeks ago

Belfast

Less than a dozen a year.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
5 weeks ago

Next Door

On average, I maybe get 10 a day, most of them just say "hi" 🤔🙄

If a new picture goes up, I get a lot more.

Good message filters, I really don't want the crap of having 100s + a day. Too much admin!

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By *erlinmateMan
5 weeks ago

cumnock

Very few messages, always nice to get one though.

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By *ungtonguetasticMan
5 weeks ago

Kilsby

A little from 0-1 most weeks

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By *omingo77Man
5 weeks ago

bamber bridge

Very few

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By *r Looking 69Man
5 weeks ago

north

I'm lucky if I get 10 a week and most of them of very d*unk people at sill o clock on a weekend . Who've nearly always fell asleep by the time I've responded. I do always respond . It's only polite haha

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By *8warrenMan
5 weeks ago

Not many, but had 4 this week the most ever

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By *unguy410Man
5 weeks ago

Cambridge

Had first message in months yesterday.

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
5 weeks ago

Aberdeen

My filters work well, so not as many as I did before. If you dont put filters on you get bombarded. Depends on as said above new photo/status etc as to how many I get.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

over 1.5k right now, mostly singles with their cock x

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By *irmhandmancMan
5 weeks ago

Bolton

None lol

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By *emporary satisfactionMan
5 weeks ago

Beeston

One or two not every day tho

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By *oewes69Man
5 weeks ago

wakefield

Never off women or couples. Send out some to people i feel compatible with but never seem to get a reply. Im not really fussed by it either tbh. If something happens it happens but it not never mind. Is what it is.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
5 weeks ago

Sherwood Forest

From forum subjects quite a few...

From actual people interested maybe 1 or 2 every few months

(Being a couple with our dynamics is hard around our area)

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By *nlyessexCouple
5 weeks ago

Hornchurch

About 6 a week

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By *r Bond.Man
5 weeks ago

Moving Around the Midlands

I’ve not received any messages so far. The only ones I get are from people who i have got back in touch with from a previous stint on here.

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By *ustus5555Woman
5 weeks ago

Mansfield

Average 25ish a day. Mostly from dreamers. (Illiterate ones at that)

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

About 20 a week but only couples and a few single guys can message us if we remove filters it gets a bit much . We only remove filters for games or at the weekend when we’re both off work (mr)

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By *DHotwife24Couple
5 weeks ago

warrington

Got about 300 unread that I'm trying to work through. I'm having to be really strict now and reject people who just say "hi". I know they might want to test the water but that's kind of what a wink is for. I need something a bit more to work with and it's helping me to filter through the messages a bit, albeit slowly

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By *avexxMan
5 weeks ago

cheshire

not many tbh

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By *hat.coupleCouple
5 weeks ago

Dartford

Not a lot, I'm lucky.if we get 2 9r 3 a day, but then we are only interested in bi women so ti be expected x

Mrs x

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By *eckard25Man
5 weeks ago

North West Durham

Depends, if I'm active in the forums, posted some pics or videos, gone on cam, messaged others then I tend to get a few. If I've not been active it's generally around the zero mark.

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By *enuinecpl101Couple
5 weeks ago

Co armagh

New pic up = hundreds mges x

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By *ortySwitchMan
5 weeks ago

london

Well as a single guy I’m inundated with messages. As all the single guys can attest to.

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By *ustus5555Woman
5 weeks ago

Mansfield

"New pic up = hundreds mges x"

And this. ⬆️

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By *heswingglersCouple
5 weeks ago

Birmingham

None we get none. I think we have had three this week and that’s it. Did not go anywhere though

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
5 weeks ago

Honeysuckle lane

5 have only answered 1 & 🤞🏻

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By *gooddayforfunMan
5 weeks ago

rhyl

I get a few a week mostly from men I'm happy to chat back but not interested I'd say once a month I'll get a message from a couple or single women in the area visiting for a last minute or quick meet but I mostly stick with the people I know for chats and arranging meets

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By *ustcallMan
5 weeks ago

Warrington

I get quite a few from guys, not so many from females

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By *erdyEstLdner 82Man
5 weeks ago

Ilford

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By *emporary satisfactionMan
5 weeks ago

Beeston

I had a few today

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By *erdyEstLdner 82Man
5 weeks ago

Ilford

I send a lot of messages, doesn't matter if they're read or not they rarely get a response.

That is to be expected as a single (heterosexual) male, I'm sure if I was looking for cock, I could have had an experience with at least 3 guys by now.

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By *laret_jonoMan
5 weeks ago

Clitheroe

Very few

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By *asygoingguy82Man
5 weeks ago

bognor

"We get a fair few, mainly people asking what the swing scene is like in Australia. Also get them from people wanting to meet us and not read that we’re 9000 miles away🤣"

maybe they're willing to jump on a quick flight over, it's not like you're half way around the world haha

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By *eroLondonMan
5 weeks ago

Mayfair

I receive about six a week or about 50~ including messages from forum-dwellers.

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