FabSwingers.com forum: Tips for a younger guy

By *heHornySpark28 OP Man
18 weeks ago

Newcastle

Just looking for advice on tryna improve on here as it ain’t the easiest being a single male as we outnumber you women on here 10 fold, how to make myself stand out from the rest. Aswell as first impressions always count how do you women on here prefer to be approached ? Like you do you prefer a charming sophisticated message, or a straight to the point message, or even just a wink all advice is appreciated

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By *parkle1974Woman
18 weeks ago

Leeds

You could ask 100 women and get 100 different answers. It's not a one size fits all....

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

i want a guy to be himsrlf that way i can choose the right way... i wont give advice in fact im against it as it encourages guy to not be themselves and thats mnot a good thing for anyone ..

be you thats all you can do with it being 100 to 200 men per women /couples its going to be hard for some impossible for others as the scene is about sexual/psychical attraction plus mpre and swinging for most not sex on a plate so not a easy site for alot of guys...

grow thick skin and get used to rejection alot unless your one of the lucky few who does well ...

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

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By *nesCouple
18 weeks ago

Milton Keynes, city of dreams

Pop a bit of tinsel on the end of it.

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By *rDuracell88Man
18 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Just looking for advice on tryna improve on here as it ain’t the easiest being a single male as we outnumber you women on here 10 fold, how to make myself stand out from the rest. Aswell as first impressions always count how do you women on here prefer to be approached ? Like you do you prefer a charming sophisticated message, or a straight to the point message, or even just a wink all advice is appreciated "

Get to Club shh mate.

There are plenty of young guys, women and couples in their 20s that go. Also Quest in Leeds is really good club too and open 6 days a week.

Thursday and Saturday nights are good to go to shh. And Quest Tuesday Saturday and Sundays

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By *ilk_TrayMan
18 weeks ago

South West

My advice….

Attend local social events or clubs if possible.

Get yourself out there. Socialise and network.

Take time to read their profile and cater your message to what they’re looking and what you can bring to the table.

Silk x

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By *heHornySpark28 OP Man
18 weeks ago

Newcastle

Thank you to all the help and tips defo need to get out to some social events or clubs in my free time

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By *rDuracell88Man
18 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Thank you to all the help and tips defo need to get out to some social events or clubs in my free time

Best way to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

This is an amazing answer

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By *ripod1990Man
18 weeks ago

Sheffield

It’s a struggle out there in fab land but only advice is read the profile, send a genuine message and not “want to fuck” and generally don’t be a dick. Sometimes you get lucky with a reply

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By *revaunanceCouple
18 weeks ago

Exeter

Follow the advice given here:

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1692813

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By *otgirl32Woman
18 weeks ago

Ashton Under Lyne

If you don't start your opening message with "WUU2" or "Wanna fuck" you'll have a massive advantage over 90% of the young lads on Fab. Anything beyond that and you're rolling

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