FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting alone

By *ngie1962 OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

My wife has a private meeting, should I be jealous excited or hurt. Not really sure how I feel, and bit of each but 100% happy it's just sex nothing else .. Am I the only one who has mixed feelings ?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"My wife has a private meeting, should I be jealous excited or hurt. Not really sure how I feel, and bit of each but 100% happy it's just sex nothing else .. Am I the only one who has mixed feelings ?"

I think you should definitely discuss it before she goes!! If your not 100% comfortable with her playing alone then sort it beforehand or the damage will be done x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think if have mixed feelings you might want to have a chat about it.

My husband and I meet separately sometimes but we tend to keep it even and balanced b/c we don't want to cause any bad feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I don't see cuckold on your profile, this sounds like a new experience for you.

In that genre this is cuckold angst. The feelings you describe match almost perfectly.

Perhaps as others have suggested this might be a step too far for you. Because once crossed it is hard to step back. Here you will not see if she enjoys it, how she acts, what he does with her etc. you are totally at her whim to describe what she chooses to tell you.

So I say think carefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should definitely discuss it before she goes!! If your not 100% comfortable with her playing alone then sort it beforehand or the damage will be done x "

Sound advice Misshottie

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We sort of tried this last week.

Sugar wants me to have fun with a single lady, either with or without her present.

I've been flirting a little with a girl at work, and made up a story to Sugar that we'd been for a lunchtime drink last week and she'd made it quite clear she wanted me.

I told her we were going out after work, and then text her updates in the evening before saying we were going back to hers for fun, and I would bring pics and all the naughty details home later, and Sugar said go for it!!

She was very horny when I got home that evening, and was more than ok with what had gone on - until I came clean and said I'd made it up lol, she was so disappointed, but we still had lots of fun on the back of it.

Furthermore, at least I know now before anything like that ever happens, that Sugar will be comfortable with it, as someone said on here a while back, you can always do more next time, but you can't undo anything.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Since I don't see cuckold on your profile, this sounds like a new experience for you.

In that genre this is cuckold angst. The feelings you describe match almost perfectly.

So I say think carefully. "

Where's the correlation between playing alone and cuckold?

I'm not part of a swinging couple, however, whilst swinging together, even separate room swapping is enjoyable, you may feel excluded.and uncomfortable with your wife meeting alone op.

Don't let her go without first telling her how you feel. Your marriage is more important than a random meet. It's important you talk to her.

Good luck.

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By *r magicaMan
over a year ago

grimsby

it cant be easy knowing what might take place , I am new here , an bout to make friends with a fb, not sure if I can handle her meeting others that's why ,rule number one in my eyes is , TALK TO HER or him , try couple meet , then you will have someone to talk to while things take place

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"it cant be easy knowing what might take place , I am new here , an bout to make friends with a fb, not sure if I can handle her meeting others that's why ,rule number one in my eyes is , TALK TO HER or him , try couple meet , then you will have someone to talk to while things take place

Are you sure you understand what a fb is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am new here , an bout to make friends with a fb, not sure if I can handle her meeting others

Are you sure you understand what a fb is?"

ha, that's exactly what got me a tad puzzled as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be just cyber

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By *ngie1962 OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

Thanks for all your views .. I am 100% cool with what's happening, we have talked etc .. If I explain I'm currently excited that she's going, when I know she's there I'll be jealous, when she gets back and tells me it was awesome (Assuming it is) I'll be hurt. If any partner says they don't have similar feelings I'd be surprised .. But currently nobody seems to admit it. We don't argue about it, I suppose idle curiosity.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

The excited/jealous thing I get.

The hurt part I don't. Well I understand what you mean but I wouldn't be happy knowing that is feel that way.

BUT it's your marriage and like you say you've discussed it so hope it all goes well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am new here , an bout to make friends with a fb, not sure if I can handle her meeting others

Are you sure you understand what a fb is?

ha, that's exactly what got me a tad puzzled as well

Same here especially as the poster has a profile on here.

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